Ukubhukuda kubantwana banoma yiphi na iminyaka yindlela efanelekileyo yokuphuhlisa izihlunu ngokulinganayo kunye ngokuvisisanayo, ukufumana i-regal bearing, impilo enamandla kunye ne-immunity epheleleyo. Kwaye kwangaphambili umntwana uqala ukubhukuda, ngokukhawuleza umzimba wakhe uya kuzuza zombini izakhono kunye nezinye izinto ezihambelana nazo.
Ukuthambisa iintsana
Ngaphambi kokubeleka, umntwana usakhula kwimimandla yasemanzini, kwaye kwinqanaba elithile lokuphuhliswa komntwana kwangaphambi kokubeletha, unayo iigill. Ngethuba leenyanga ezintathu zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, umntwana usenokhumbula okunzulu kweso xesha, kwaye uqeqesho luya kuba lula.
Oogqirha bayacetyiswa ukuba baqale iiklasi kunye nosana ngqo ukusuka kwiiveki ezintathu, ukuze uqeqesho luqhutywe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokwemvelo, kwaye kwiimbulunga ezingenakulingqangi zokubhukuda zijika zibe yikhono elitsha.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana sele sele eseneminyaka engama-3-4 ubudala, imemori yexesha lokubeleka liye lacima, oko kuthetha ukuba i-reflexes yokuzalwa yabakhohliwe, kwaye ayiyi kukwazi ukubhukuda kwangaphambili. Kule meko, ukubhukuda kuqala emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka emithathu, xa umntwana ekwazi ukutyelela echibini kwi-kindergarten okanye kwi-polyclinic.
Ukwenza kunye nosana kufuneka kwenziwe rhoqo. Ngokuba inxaxheba "ngutitshala", umama, uyise kunye nogogo kunye nomkhulu-makhulu nabo bafanelekile - into ephambili kukuba umntu omnye makenze oku. Intshukumo nganye kufuneka kuqala isebenze kwi doll, ize ilandele umntwana. Izindlela zokufundisa ukubhukuda komntwana ziya kuxela ugqirha: ukuba iklinikhi inomhlaba wokubhukuda, kuyaqondakala ukuba ufike apho kanye kwiiveki ezi-1-2, funda amaqhinga amasha, kwaye usebenze kakuhle ekhaya, kwindawo yokuhlambela.
Izibonelelo zokubhukuda kubantwana ziye zafakazelwa ngabo bonke oogqirha. Iintsana ezenza imisebenzi yokuqala yamanzi zingenakwenzeka ukuba zibambe amaqanda, zibonakalisa ukuzinza, ukuthanda ukutya kunye nokukhathazeka ngokubanzi. Ukongezelela, uphuhliso lwabo luvame ukuphuma kwiontanga "ezingenanto."
Ukuchasana okuphambili kokubhukuda kwabantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye kubakho izifo eziphefumulayo okanye izifo ze-CNS. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuqhuba ukubhukuda kwangaphambili, qiniseka ukubona ugqirha uze ufumane ukuba umntwana wakho unemithintelo eyongezelelweyo ekufundeni.
Ukufundisa abantwana abasenkulisa ukugeza
Sekuneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, umntwana wakho unokuya kwiiklasi zokubhukuda kwisibini sabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo ezo zifundo ziqhutyelwa ngokuthe ngqo kwiziko lezifundo.
Ukubhukuda kwezobonyango kubantwana kunconywa ngokukhethekileyo kwiingxaki zomgudu, ukunyamezela, ukulala ebuthakathaka, ubundlobongela kunye nesondlo esinqabileyo. Ummandla wamanzi, ngenxa yempembelelo yokungabi nciphisa, unokusombulula iingxaki ezinjalo, kwaye abaqeqeshi abanolwazi baya kunceda umntwana afunde ukunyakaza okulula kwaye afunde ukuhlala emanzini, okuya kuphuhlisa indlela yakhe ye-muscular.
Ukubhukuda kwezemidlalo kubantwana
Nika umntwana ukuba athabhe kwizinga eliphambili sele sele evele kwiminyaka emi-5-7. Kunokwenzeka ukuba oku kuya kubeka isigxina ekupheleni kwayo: ukuba kukho ukuba umntwana unetalente, uya kuthunyelwa rhoqo kwiintambo zamanqanaba ahlukeneyo, kwaye uqeqesho oluqhelekileyo lunokuba ngumqobo ekufundeni kungekudala kuphela esikolweni, kodwa nakwixesha lomfundi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bayakulibala ukuba, umzekelo, ukubhukuda kwamantombazana kungekuphela nje kwezemidlalo, kodwa nakwezinye iindawo zengqekembe: ngokuqhelekileyo ukuhlakulela amahlombe, okwenza ukuba umfanekiso ubonakale "njengomntu", uqeqesho olunzima kunye noxinzelelo oluqhubekayo ngaphambi kokusebenza. Akuyiyo yonke into eya kuvuya ngayo, ngoko ungamphoqeleli umntwana ukuba enze nantoni na, kodwa ucebise ukuba ukhethe into ehambelana neminqweno yakhe.