Ukuba ucinga malunga nokuba ungatshintsha njani ubomi bakho bube bhetele, kodwa ungazi njani ukuwufezekisa nalapho uqala khona, iingcebiso ezingezantsi ziya kukunceda.
Ungatshintsha njani ukuba ungcono?
Akumangalisi ukuba bathi, ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi - qalisa nawe. Siphakamisa ukuba siqhubeke ngendlela elandelayo: bhala ephepheni iimpawu zakho: kwikholam yokuqala - iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo, kwaye kwesibili - ezo zimpawu ongazithandiyo kwaye ungathanda ukutshintsha. Ngoku faka "ikholomu enhle" kwindawo evelele kwaye ufunde kwakhona ngezikhathi ezithile. Yeka ikholam ye sibini ukuze "ukwazi utshaba kumntu."
Ukuze uphuculwe ngcono, udinga umnqweno womntu wokutshintsha uhlamvu lwakhe. Ngelishwa, akukho migaqo ecacileyo neyokoqobo malunga nendlela yokuguqula iimpazamo zakho kwiimpawu, kuba bonke abantu ngabanye. Kodwa sithathe iinqununu ezinokukunceda.
- Xa ubhala uluhlu lwakho lweempazamo, buyifunde kwakhona. Ngaba ukhohliwe naziphi na ezinye izihlandlo? Qaphela iingcamango zakho ezimbi kwaye uhlalutye kuzo. Ukungahambi kakuhle kulula ukulwa xa ulungele ukutshintsha ukuba ube ngcono.
- Ngoku, ngokubhekiselele kule nganye mpazamo, bhala phantsi ukuba kutheni ukuphazamisa, kutheni ufuna ukuwususa. Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu - cinga ngokwakho, ungathembeli kumazwi abanye. Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ugqibe ukutshintsha, kuba ufuna le nto, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba, umzekelo, ubunzima obunzima buphazamisa wakho umthandayo. Khumbula njalo ukuba akufanele uxhomekeke kwimibono yabanye abantu abazama ukunyanzelisa imiqathango yabo. Udala ikusasa lakho,
ngoko akukho mntu uyazi ukuba unokutshintsha njani. - Ngoku ujongene nomsebenzi wokufumana izicombululo kunye nezindlela zokulungisa ukusilela ngamnye. Qinisekisa ukubhala phantsi.
- Ukuba iingcinga ezintsha zifika engqondweni yakho, zama ukurekhoda ukuphunyezwa kwazo kwenzeni yakho yokwenza. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho msebenzi omnye kuya kufuneka ukuba ulungise nganye yeziphene zawo. Qinisekisa ukuba ulandele isicwangciso semini. Zama ukurekhoda iimpazamo zakho kunye nemiba engxaki, kwaye, ngokubalulekileyo, impumelelo. Zama ukuhlala ulungile nakwiimeko ezithile zithintelo-isimo sengqondo esihle siqingatha sempumelelo. Ukugcinwa kweengcebiso zethu kuya kunceda ukutshintsha ngcono, kokubili wena nabanye.