Xa ukhetha isipho kwinkwenkwe, kufuneka uqikelele iimfuno neemfuno zomntwana kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ungazami ukummisela isipho abantu abadala abathanda. Isipho esona sikhulu kunaleyo yinkwenkwe yiloo mntu wayeyilangazelela, okungaqinisekiyo, eya kumlethela uvuyo olukhulu, umzekelo, ibhayisekile, i- skates , ibhola lebhola, umzila wesitimela.
Xa ukhetha isipho somntwana kwinkwenkwe kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iminyaka yobudala bomntwana kunye nomlingiswa wakhe, izinto ezithandwayo. Ukuba unika izipho kwiinkwenkwe zenkwenkwana, ngoko kuyinqweneleka ukuba abayi kuphinda, babehlukeneyo.
Ukuba umntwana uyayithanda iteknoloji, ngoko ke, uya kufumana isipho esinjalo njengesithuthi esilawulwa ngomsakazo okanye i-helicopter.
Ewe, ukuba isipho asizuzisi nje kuphela uvuyo kumntwana, kodwa naye uya kuncedisa ekuphuhliseni ukucinga kwakhe okunengqiqo, inokuba ngumyili wendalo, iipuzzle, i-cube yeRubik, kwaye ukuba umntwana usemncinci kakhulu - ii-cubes, iiseti zemifanekiso enemibala.
Amakhwenkwe amaninzi evela ebuntwaneni baqala ukubandakanyeka kwimidlalo, ukukhethwa kwesipho kule meko ku cacile: ibha yasekhaya, izibhamu okanye nayiphi na enye into, ehambelana ngqo nemidlalo eyenziwa ngumntwana.
Ukhetho oluhle luya kuba ngumdlalo webhodi, umzekelo iHockey, i-chess, apho umntwana angayidlala nabazali bakhe. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukubonisa imizekelo yeenqanawa, iinqwelo-moya, ezinye izixhobo ezinokuhlanganiswa kunye kunye kunye nobawo, oku kubaluleke kakhulu ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhliseni, nangokwezentetho.
Kukho abantwana abavela kumncinci banomdla kwizakhono ezizodwa. Kubafundi beenkwenkwezi ezincinane, i-telescope yabantwana ifanelekile njengesipho, isazi sezinto eziphilayo esincinci singaboniswa nge-microscope, kwaye incwadi enemibala iya kuba isipho esihle kakhulu kubantwana abanjalo, apho kufumaneka khona ifom echaphazelekayo malunga nesihloko sentshisekelo kubo.
Abazali banamhlanje banikezela abantwana babo izipho ezinzulu. Ingaba ithebhulethi okanye i-laptop yezingane, neemidlalo zezingane ezifakwe kuzo, okanye ezinye iikhosi zoqeqesho, umzekelo, ulwimi lwangaphandle.
Isipho sonyaka omtsha sokuba inkwenkwe ihluke kukuba izisa iSanta Claus, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ibe yinto engalindelekanga kwaye ifaneleke kakhulu. Into ephambili kukuba uqikelele umnqweno wangaphakathi lomntwana, kwaye, ngokumangalisayo, umlingo uya kuzaliseka ngoNyaka omtsha, umnqweno omkhulu kunye nolulindele ixesha elide uza kuzaliseka.
Isipho kusana olutsha
Izipho zabafana abasandul 'ukuzalwa, ukuba ziyizinto zokudlala, kufuneka zikhethwe ngokucophelela, ezifanelekileyo eziza kunceda umntwana ukwazi umhlaba, ukuphucula ukuhambelana kwezithuthi kunye nezakhono zezithuthi, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba umntwana uya kudlala amnandi kwaye akhululeke ukubamba. Kufuneka kuthathele ingqalelo ubungakanani bemidlalo, akufanele ukuba yincinci, ukuze umntwana angabanamatheli emlonyeni, angabikho ngecala elibukhali kunye neenkcukacha kwaye yenziwe yokhuseleko olukhuselekileyo lwendalo, olungenayo into enobuthi, ingaba isethi yeengqungquthela. Unako ukunika amathoyizi axhonyiwe kwinqwelo yesana okanye kwi-crib, baya kunceda ukuphuhlisa ingqalelo yomntwana.
Isipho kumntwana osandul 'utsha usenokuba isipho somama, ngokuqinisekileyo sifanelekile. Njengomthetho, ezi zinto ziyimfuneko kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi bomntwana. Ingaba yindlu eguqulwayo, umqhubi ophethe isikhalazo, iisethi zokugqoka zabantwana, iibhedi zezingane ezikhanyayo, kunye nemvulophu yokuhamba.
Isipho esiza kusana sisenokuqala kwaye singakubaleki. Unako ukunikela idayari kwintsana eyayiza kuba nomdla ekufundeni umntwana okhulile okanye ekwenzeni iphothi okanye imilenze yomntwana - oku kuya kuba sisipho esichukumisayo kakhulu esinokugcinwa ixesha elide.