Kutheni iikati zilala ezinyaweni?

Ukufunda ukuziphatha kwezilwanyana zezilwanyana, ngamanye amaxesha uya kuzigqibo ezingalindelekanga. Bayakwazi ukucela ezininzi iimfesane. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kwiikati eziye zanyanzelwa ngokutsha malunga nezinye izilwanyana, kwaye zigcinwe zimela kunye nokuzimela.

Aphi na amakati afana nokulala?

Ngokuxhomekeka kubume babo, ukuzalwa kunye nobudala, ixesha lokulala kwiikati lihlukile. Ngokomyinge, kuthatha iiyure eziyi-13 ukuya kweyure ngosuku. Bathanda ukukhululeka, ukucola nokufudumala ngeli xesha. Ebushushu bekati befuna ikona elipholileyo, kwaye ebusika bayazama ukufumana indawo enelanga okanye kufuphi nomthombo wokushisa (ibhetri, indawo yomlilo , isitofu), ivalwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo ungayifumana kwifestile efudumeleyo, ngokukodwa xa ibhethri ibushushu. Zama ukuqulunqa umbhede wakhe kwikona elithule elincinci, ukuze uhambe ngaphantsi, unokwenza ekhitshini okanye kwigumbi lokuhlala.

Kutheni ikati ihlala ilala emilenzeni?

1. Iingcali ezininzi ziphendula lo mbuzo ngendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kukho imbono yokuba izilwanyana zidibaniswe namakhosi azo ngamandla, ezikwazi ukuphatha abantu. Ngokwale ngqungquthela, ngaphaya kwelinqeni, amandla anamandla aqokelelwe, kwaye ngaphantsi kwesibindi, amandla angasebenzi. Nazi iikati kwaye uyondla kuyo, ukuxhamla yonke into embi ebusuku. Ngoko basusa ukukhathala kunye nentlungu.
2. Inketho yesibini yinto engaphezulu. Ikati ilele emilenzeni nje kuba ifuna ukulawula kunye nokukwazi ukuphunyuka ngokukhawuleza. Abantu abangakholelwa kumatshini, amandla e-cosmic kunye nokuhlambalaza baxhomekeke kwiinkcazo ezilula kwaye eziqondakalayo, nokuba ngaba zivakala kakhulu.
3. Ngokomxholo wesithathu wekati, ngoko, bonisa ukuzinikela kunye nothando lwabo. Mhlawumbi kukho inyaniso kule nkcazo, nangona iikati zizimeleyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nezidalwa zobugovu. Ukuba khona kwesoloko kwindoda kuninzi lweekati zasekhaya akuyimfuneko, kodwa kwelinye kubo baya kuhlala beva novelwano olukhulu. Ukuzikhohlisa kwiinyawo zabo, ngoko babonisa ubuhlobo babo nesimo sabo.
4. Kukho uluvo lwezenzululwazi oluchaza yonke into ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngokulula. Akuyimfuneko ukuba nabani na ukuba bangqina ukuba iikati ziyakuthanda. Ngoko bazama ukuhlala ezinyaweni zabo, ezifudumele kakhulu kunezinye izinto ezijikelezayo.
5. Amakati akhathalele ukutshintsha kwemoya yenkosi yabo. Ukuba ukhathele kakhulu okanye uyagula, isidalwa esilungileyo sithintela kuye kwaye uzama ngendlela yakhe "yokuthuthuzela". Mhlawumbi le sizathu sokuba isilwanyana sakho sizama ukulala kufuphi nawe.

Ngexesha elide kuya kuqhubeka iingxabano malunga nokuba kutheni iikati zilala rhoqo kwiinyawo zazo. Kodwa abantu abaninzi bathanda lo mkhuba wabo ozithandayo. Kwabaninzi abantu abadala, ikati ehlanjululwayo iba njengebhedi eline-teddy yomntwana, eyanceda ukulala ngokukhawuleza kwaye kumnandi. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba iikati kakhulu azilalanga ngokupheleleyo ubusuku bonke kwaye zivame ukuvuka kusasa. Sekude ngo-4 okanye ngo-5 kusasa kufuneka badle okanye bafune ukulahleka. Ukuba uphazamise ngengozi ngexesha lokulala, ikati iyakwazi ukukhawuleza, kuba iyakhathalela nayiphi na intshukumo. Musa ukulala kunye nekati ukuba unobungozi. Nangona bahlambulukile, basasaza iinyawo zabo kwi-tray. Le ngxaki ingasombululwa ngokuhlamba ikati emva kwezindlu zangasese okanye iibhedi phezu kombhede wakhe i-blank blanket.

Ukuba intaka yakho oyithandayo uye wagqiba ukulala ebusuku emilenzeni, mhlawumbi akufanele umqhube? Kuthekani ukuba uyisithunywa somhlaba onokufumana amandla angenamandla? Yivuthele nje kwaye uyivumele ihlale phantsi kwayo, kuba uyakuthanda ngendlela yakhe kwaye imnceda ukuba alele ebuthongweni.