Iingcamango zomntu zinokutshilo ezininzi, ngamanye amaxesha zitsho malunga nexesha elidlulileyo, malunga nento umntu ayenayo kunye noko akuvakalelwa, ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha ethu afanekisela ikusasa. Namhlanje, siza kuthetha malunga neenwele ezinde ezithetha ntoni ekulala.
Kutheni ndibe neenwele ezinde entloko?
Ukuba ubona iinwele ezinde ephupheni, ngoko phantse kukho njalo uphawu oluhle, ungathembisi nto embi. Makhe siqwalasele ngokubanzi iinkcukacha ezinokuba zibuke iinwele ezinde:
- Ukuphupha iingubo ezithambileyo, eziluhlaza, ezide. Iphupha elinjalo libonisa ubomi obonwabileyo obude, uya kubhalwa ngabantu abanobubele nabahloniphekileyo onokuzithemba.
- Ukuphupha iinwele ezinde entloko yakho. Oku kuyimpawu yokuba uya kuphumelela kuyo yonke into onayo engqondweni, kwaye ayiyi kuba nemingcipheko ekujoliswe kuyo.
- Ukudibanisa kwiinwele ezinde. Iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba unokwenza isenzo esichukumisayo, esiza kuthi, ngokuzayo, siyazisola kakhulu.
- Izinwele ezinde, zifakwe ngekhanda elihle. Isimboli senhlanhla kwishishini elizayo, unokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kuyo nayiphina inkontileka, ugqibe isivumelwano, njl., Uya kunenzuzo kuyo.
- Izinwele ezimhlophe. Iphupha elinjalo li lumkisa malunga neziganeko ezingamnandi. Ezi zi nobunzima kwi shishini okanye ukugula komntu othandekayo.
- Jonga iinwele ezide kunye neentente. Eli phupha liqikelela ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nohambo olumnandi, uhambo olugcwele imisebenzi enomdla neyolisayo.
- Izinwele ezinde, ezingagqithwanga kunye nokuhlukana zifanekisela ukuxabana okukhulu nabantu abasondeleyo okanye ingxoxo engathandekiyo nabasemagunyeni.
- Ukuphupha izinwele ezingcolileyo. Eli phupha lithi ixesha lokuba uphumule kwaye unike "indlela yokuphuma" yamandla angasebenzi. Sitshintsha imeko, uye kwindawo ethile yokuphumla.