Umbuzo oqhelekileyo kukuba kutheni umfazi udinga indoda, abafazi bayazibuza. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlukana rhoqo kunye nokubaninzi kubakhokelela ukuba abayidingi nabani na, nangakolunye uhlangothi, xa umntu odibanayo, abanako ukuzithela ngokwabo.
Ngokwezinzululwazi, ukuba uyayishiya amanqaku asebenzayo, ngoko indoda ifuna ibhinqa kwiqondo eliphantsi kwengqondo. Amawaka eminyaka ebumbene la mabhinqa awayekanga, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ubunyulu bubonwa njengengxaki.
Kwimibuzo yokuba kutheni umfazi engumntu, ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo yakhe, ibhinqa isabonwa njengesondo elibuthathaka, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba icala lakhe lihlale lixhasa ihlombe lomntu onamandla.
Kutheni sifuna indoda kumfazi wamanje?
Ngeminyaka yobudala, isondo esifanelekileyo singakwazi ukugqoka ijeans, ingcambu yeqela lebhola kunye nokusebenza kwamapolisa. Kwaye abanye besetyhini baqala ukuphikisa ukuba umntu uya kuba nolonwabo olupheleleyo abayidingayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba aba bafazi banye, kwaye nangona kukho imfuno ngqo yendoda, njengokuba i-getter, iwa phantsi koko, kodwa umnqweno wokudala iindwendwe ezinonophelo zentsapho ayinyamalalala naphi na.
Abantu abaninzi bambuza ukuba kutheni umfazi efuna umntu, engakhange acinge ngento yokuba imali, ngokuqhelekileyo, ayifuni ivuyisa. Kuba isini esibuthakathaka sihlala sisisigxina
Kutheni indoda indoda kumfazi?
Ubukho bendoda buhlala busebenza ngokuqinileyo kwinxalenye yabasetyhini. Nangona umfazi engafuni ukuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo naye, kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuba umntu onamandla unokuhlala emela yena.
Kwakhona into ebalulekileyo yowesifazane ebusini kunye nendoda kukuba umntu uhlala esho oko akucingayo. Kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuba umntu unokumxelela ngokuthe ngqo ingxaki leyo, kwaye oko akwenzayo akulungile.