Eli nqaku kulabo bafuna ukuchonga uhlobo lwabo lwengqondo (okanye nokuba ngabakho) kwaye bafumane indlela efanelekileyo kuyo. Ngoko, makhe sibone ukuba yeyiphi isiqhamo esineziqhamo kunye naziphi iintlobo zabantu, ngokubanzi, kwilizwe lethu.
Iintlobo zabantu kunye nokuziphatha kwabo kubuhlobo
Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba uhlobo lokuziphatha kwakho ngamadoda ahlukeneyo lufana noko. Mhlawumbi, kwakungekho kubonakala ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kuhlale kunokwenzeka ukukhathala ngokubanzi. Bavela ekukhulisweni kwakho, iimfuno zeengqondo, njl njl. Ngabantu, yonke into iyafana. Ngendlela, iindlela zokunqoba kwazo zixhomekeke kuhlobo lwabantu.
- ZoLuntu. Kwixesha le-candy-bouquet, indoda enjalo ayinayo intengo. Unako ukubukela iinkwenkwezi ngeeyure, kwaye i-pamper iyamangalisa, kunye kunye nekhulu lexesha lokuphonononga "Amelie". Yaye amazwi amnene, i-sms-ki elula kunye nee-knick knacks ziza kufika rhoqo kwaye ngokufanelekileyo. AmaRoma amaninzi athabela iintlobo ezininzi zamabhinqa: zinyameko kwaye zinyamekile, ezingenakufikeleleka (kule meko onke amandla aya kuguqulwa ngasecaleni) kunye namantombazana azimele aya kumsindisa kwizinto ezingento ezinjalo njengezibethe. Qaphela, emva kokuphela kwexesha le-candy, kunokuvela ukuba indoda yakho ...
- Uxhaphazi. Okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, i-manipulator. Abalandeli bendoda benza umsebenzi obalaseleyo wokuthandana, ukuphela kohlobo lokuba bafuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi lakho lonke ukuze ngaphandle kwakho uzizwe unesizungu kwaye unobungozi. Kutheni u fanele? Kulula kakhulu. Umntu ojongene nomlondolozo uya kujongana nawe ngezinto ozithandayo - ukudlwengula ngokokuziphatha. Indlela yokuchonga uhlobo lwesalathisi esindoda, kunzima ukuphendula, kuba lugcinwe ngokucophelela. Iintsimbi eziphazamisayo: akayithandi bonke abahlobo bakho kunye nabaqhelana nabo, yena unomphunga emlonyeni ubonisa ukuba akukho mntu uyakuthandayo, ngaphandle kwakhe. Ukuwunqoba akuyimfuneko, uyazikhethela ngokunyanisekileyo abafazi, kunye nabo abangazixabisi ngokwenene, oko kukuthi, kunye neengqondo zexhoba .
- UNyana. Kwakhona isiphumo sokuthandana. Ukukhangela abafazi abanezithethe zentombi. Ukuba ulungele ukunyamekela indoda yonke yobomi bakhe, vula ngesibindi iingalo zakho "unyana". Sekuyisikhathi eside elinde ukufudumala nokuthanda. Musa nje ukulibala ukuba abantwana abanengqondo.
- Umfundi ongunaphakade. Ukususela kwindodana yakhe ibonakala ngokungabikho kokuxhomekeka komama. Uhlobo oluthile lothando oza kuziva ngalo "kungekhona ngokupheleleyo." Ukususela kwiseshoni ukuya kwiseshoni, ukuthetha. Ukuze ujonge, kufuneka ufihle ngokucokisekileyo zonke iinjongo ezinzulu. Ngaphezu koko, baninzi, abayi kuzaliseka kungekudala.
- IPragmatist. Ngala madoda, bambalwa abantu baphupha kwiikholeji. Phantse sonke sifuna ukuthandana. Umntu ongu-pragmatist uyancipha, kodwa akanakondla ngeenkwenkwezi ezivela esibhakabhakeni, kwaye, ngokubanzi, ufumana ngokufanelekileyo. Ungayinqoba xa ungaxhomeki phezulu emafini kwaye unokuthetha ngezihloko ezinomdla.
- UJack kuwo onke amashishini. Ngaloo ndlela emva kwodonga lwamatye. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula, kodwa ngaphezu kweminyaka, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuqonda ukuba ukhululekile kwaye uzinzile. Loo mntu uthanda amantombazana oqoqosho, kuba kwindlela yakhe yokujonga iindima zeentsapho kufuneka zihlukane ngokuthe ngqo.
- Iqhawe. Unokudibanisa nenkosi yazo zonke izinto. Nangona kunjalo, umlwazi akakwazi ukubethela isikhephelo kwisikhumbuzo sokuqala (inkosi ayifuni ukukhunjuzwa). Ayikho into eqhoshayo. Ufuna ukukhusela kwiindawo ezininzi zokuhlaselwa kwehlabathi. Kwintsapho, uhlobo lokuziphatha lomntu weqhawe lidla ngokukhawuleza. Ungalinda inamba kunye neTV. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba intombazana iyashukumisela, amaqhawe abe neentlonelo zenyameko kunye nabantwana bentsapho abanenkathalo.
- Mentor. Uya kukuxelela ukuba wenzeni, kwaye uluvo lwakhe lufanele lube negunya. Iqabane elifanelekileyo kwiimpawu ezingaqinisekiyo. Uhlobo lomcebisi unokufumaneka ngokuthandana nabantu ababini, abelana naye iminyaka emininzi. Umlingane onjalo akayiyo
baya kufuna ukutshintsha imigaqo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, uya kumkhuthaza! - Macho. I-Psychology yolu hlobo lomntu yinto elandelayo kuye kufuneka ibe ngowokuqala. Owesifazane ovulekileyo unento efana ne-complementary accessory, kufuneka ibonakale ixabisa kwaye ithande ingqalelo. Kule meko, akukho konke okufunekayo ukuba loo mntu uza kutyalomali imali ekugcineni umfanekiso ofanelekileyo. Ewe, kwaye ngendlela, iibhendi zebhedi zimele zibe zibala, zilungele.
- Bathandwa. Nabani na kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla angaba le ndoda. Kwaye, inene, uthando lukhulu ngaphezu kwazo zonke iingxaki ezingenzekayo kwiikali ...