Ngomxholo wendoda enhle, abantu batyala iimpawu ezininzi. Ukuze ukwanelise umntu wakho kwaye umenze ujabule, kufuneka ube ngowesifazana, unobuntu, ulula, njl. Kukho iingcomo ezininzi eziza kwenza kube lula ukufezekisa kule ngxaki.
Yiyiphi inkosikazi ethathwa njengento efanelekileyo?
Ngokutsho kophando, amadoda asebhinqa anembonakalo enhle kakhulu. Ngendlela, isimo sengqondo somlingane sibaluleke kakhulu.
Iziphakamiso ezisebenzayo zokuba ngumthandi ofanelekileyo:
- Intombazana kufuneka yazi zonke iinkalo zayo ezinokuthi zive umzimba wayo. Oku kuya kumvumela ukuba akwazi ukufumana indawo ezifanayo kwiqabane lomlingane. Hlola umzimba womntu, usebenzisa oko, umzekelo, intsiba.
- Ngokuya kubameli bezesondo eziqinileyo, umthandi omhle ebhedeni ngumfazi ongenakuzibamba iimvakalelo kwaye unokugcoba, ukukhala, njl njl. Kubalulekile ukuba yinyani, ngaphandle komdlalo kunye nokulinganisa.
- Imfihlo ebalulekileyo yomthandi onokuzikhethela ukuzithanda wena nomzimba wakho. Ukuba intombi inenkathazo kwaye ihlazekile, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokuthetha malunga nantoni na. Ukongezelela, musa ukulala ngesondo, ukuba awufuni, kuba ukuzonwabisa akunakufumana amaqabane omabini.
- Ubundlobongela kufuneka buhluke. Unako ukuguqula ngokukhawuleza indawo, umzekelo, unike umnqweno kwisitya, kwitafile yekhitshini, njl. Ukumangalisa umntu angadlala umdaniso okanye iingubo zangaphantsi ezinobuso. Musa ukulibala malunga nemidlalo yokudlala indima.
- Umgangatho obalulekileyo womthandi ofanelekileyo uyisinyathelo, esifanele sibonakaliswe kwigumbi lokulala. Ungayigodli imvakalelo yakho, kodwa ungabi nobudlova . Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha into ethile okanye wenze into entsha kwiintlobano zesini, kuyafaneleka ukukhankanya oku. Bobabini amaqabane kufuneka enze oku. Ukungabikho kwemfuneko akufanele kube khona ebhedini.