Ukubiza amagama ngokufanelekileyo, isigama esisisigxina, ukuphulaphula, ukuthabatha amagama afanelekileyo kunye nentetho - zonke ezi zimpawu zivela kuphela kubantu abanezinga eliphezulu lokomoya, abanengqiqo nabangenangqondo, abafundayo nabanengqiqo. Akunjalo, ngaba wonke umama uphupha ukumbona umntwana wakhe? Nangona kunjalo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyavuyiswa yimpumelelo yakhe, eli lilandelayo kufuneka lihlawule ngokukhawuleza ukuphuhliswa kwayo sele ikhona kwiminyaka yobudala, ngokukodwa, kubalulekile ukugxila ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho.
Amanyathelo okuphuhliswa kwentetho kwizingane zasesikolweni
Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, iimpumelelo eziphambili zezixhobo zentetho zeintsana zibhekwa njengokuba kubonakala ngathi kubizwa kunye nokubiza amagama athetha okuthile. Inani labo lincinci, xa kuthelekiswa nenani lalabo abanokuqonda. Xa uneminyaka eyi-1-3 ubudala, intetho yezingane zasenkulisa ikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yokwandisa uluhlu lweemfuno. Kule nqanaba, iintsana zidinga ukunxibelelana nabantu abadala. Ngokuyininzi kunceda ukwandisa isigama, sichaza umntwana kwiingcinga ezinjengobuninzi kunye nesigama. Ukufikelela kwiminyaka emithathu, abantwana abaninzi banamava athile ngokubethelwa kwezandi. Ngokukodwa, iimvuthu ziyancwina izononongo ezinzima, "balahleka" incwadi "p", yithatha indawo enezinye izandi.
Njengomthetho, ukuphosakela okunjalo ekubhaliwe, okuhambelana nokungapheleli komhlathi omncinci, ulwimi, imilomo okanye intlanzi epholileyo, zivela kwinqanaba lesithathu lokuphuhliswa kwentetho kwizingane zasenkulisa. Nangona kunjalo, amakhwenkwe namantombazana eminyaka engama-3-7 banokuqhayisa ngesigama esisisigxina, ukukwazi ukwakha izivakalisi ezinzima ezenziwe ngentsingiselo yesimo.
Iindlela zokuphuhlisa intetho ehambelanayo yezingane zasesikolweni
Umntwana onempilo unemfuneko ebalulekileyo yomzimba, ngokokuba inkulumo yakhe iyacaca kwaye ichaze ngokuzayo, kwaye ingcaciso-igqibe kwaye ihambelana. Nangona kunjalo, intetho ayinalo ikhono lokuzalwa, kodwa lenziwe ngokubambisana nezinye izakhono kunye nezakhono. Kwaye ukwenzela ukuba inkqubo yokuqonda ulwimi lwendabuko iphumelele ngempumelelo, omncinci kufuneka akhule eluthandweni nasekunyamekeleni, kwaye indawo yakhe yentlalo kufuneka ifanelwe.
Ngokuyinene, abantwana bafunda baze baxelise abazali babo, ngokukhawuleza bazikhumbuze amagama amasha, bacebise intetho yabo ngokuchanekileyo, izichazi kunye nokujika. Ngoko ke, oomama nabazali bayadinga:
- Ukuqwalasela ngenyameko amagama kunye nezivakalisi ezithethiweyo;
- Ukuthetha rhoqo nomntwana;
- ukuhlakulela umkhwa wokujonga i-interlocutor ngethuba lentetho, ukuze umntwana abone ukuhamba kolwimi nemilomo;
- funda iindaba eziza kwandisa ubungakanani bentsana, zimxelele ngeenkcukacha ezingaziwa kunye neziganeko. Ngendlela, iindaba zobubele azibandakanyi kuphela ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho, kodwa nakwindalo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, abalinganiswa abakhulu baya kuba ngabahlobo bamabango, kwaye amabali abava ngayo yile script yomdlalo.
Kwakhona, omnye akufanele angayithinteli impembelelo yoqhagamshelwano kunye neontanga kule nkqubo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amazwi avakala kwisitrato okanye kubahlobo abahlala bebhekisela kulabo banelungelo lokuba khona kwenkcubeko kwisichazamazwi. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza, kodwa yithuba elihle lokuchazela umntwana ukuba kukubi ukutsho njalo.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umdlalo - le ngenye yezindlela eziphambili kunye nezona zifanelekileyo zokufundisa abantwana. Ngako oko, kwiintsapho ezininzi kunye neenkulisa, ukucebisa isilulumagama, ukuhlakulela ukubonakaliswa kwentetho yezingane zasenkulisa kunye nokuphucula umbono wokuhlola, ukuqhuba imicimbi ekhethekileyo yemidlalo.
Ngokomzekelo, umdlalo wakho ozithandayo wezingane "I-bag efanelekileyo". Ingundoqo yomdlalo kukuba abantwana bafanele bathi igama ngalinye kwipokethi, bachaze okanye benze ibali - kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabadlali.