Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukufa komntu othandekayo ephupheni kuyisimo esibi, esithembisa into embi. Enyanisweni, okuchaseneyo kuyinyani, ekubeni ngokweencwadi ezininzi zephupha, kwiimeko ezininzi iphupha linokuchazwa kakuhle. Ukucacisa iphupha, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela inani eliphezulu lokutolika.
Kutheni uphupha umhlobo?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo, ngokuchaseneyo, lithetha ukuba umthandayo uya kuhlala ixesha elide. Iphupha apho umntu othandekayo adlula kude nawe, ubonisa ukukhula ngokukhawuleza komsebenzi , kodwa ukunyuswa kwemivuzo kuqikelela iphupha apho ukuhoxiswa ebomini kwakungabonakali. Kungcono ukuyeka zonke izinto ezingabalulekanga kwaye unikele yonke imikhosi ekuphuhliseni umsebenzi. Siza kuqonda oko iphupha labantu abasondeleyo abazama ukulondoloza kukuba, kodwa lowo uphuphayo wayengenakubanceda. Isalathiso esinjalo kuthetha ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, akazange azalisekise isithembiso esibalulekileyo ebomini bokwenene. UDreambook unikeza isincomo sokuba kufuneka uqedele onke amatyala kwaye uhlawule amatyala akho.
Ukubona ukufa komntu othandekayo kwaye uziva intlungu ngexesha elifanayo, ngoko, kungekudala, kuya kubakho utshintsho olubalulekileyo oluchaphazela ubomi bomntu. Umbono ebusuku, apho abantu abasondeleyo bafa, ukulahlekelwa yigazi elininzi, uxela ukuvela kweengxaki ezincinci zeentsapho. Enye iphupha lithetha ukuba umntu ufuna uncedo lomphuphi. Masifunde ukuba kuthetha ukuthini, ukuba ukufa komntu othandekayo kuphuphayo, okwakungeyonto engokoqobo, oku kubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo akavuli ngokwaneleyo kwabanye abantu. Ukuba ukufa komntu othandekayo kubangelwa yimpazamo yephupha, kuthetha ukuba unamacebiso amaninzi kwaye ufuna ukuphila ubomi bakhe. Iphupha apho umntu obathandayo wayedlula ebomini intlungu, ubeka ubuso bokuzisola. Ukuze sibone indlela umntu omthandayo afayo ngokukhawuleza ngayo uphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuba zonke iingxaki ziza kusombululwa ngokukhawuleza.
Yintoni ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze?
Ukufa kwabazali kwiimfuno zokuphupha ukufumana imali eninzi ebomini bokwenyani, umzekelo, unokuba isipho, ilifa okanye ukuphumelela. Isitoliki sichaza ukuba ixesha elifanelekileyo lifikile ukuvavanya isithuba sakho ngokuthenga ithikithi yeLottery. Sifunda ukuba ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze, udade okanye umzalwana, kufana, ngoko le phupha ibonisa ingxaki ebuhlotsheni. Hlaziya izenzo zakho zakutshanje, mhlawumbi uye wacaphukisa umntu kakhulu, engafuni.
Kweminye yeencwadi zephupha kuchazwa ukuba ukufa kwesizaliso ephupheni kufanekisa ukuba empilweni yangempela impembelelo yakhe iya kuncipha kakhulu, mhlawumbi awuyi kuqhagamshelana kakhulu. Ukuba ugogo wafa, ngoko kufuneka silindele ukuguquka okukhulu, kwaye utshintsho luya kuthintela kuphela umphuphi, kodwa yonke intsapho. Umbono ebusuku, apho indoda yafa khona, inokubonwa njengesinconyiso ukuba kungcono ukubheka ngakumbi kumlingane wakho, ngenxa yokuba
Kutheni uphupha ngokufa komhlobo osondeleyo?
Iphupha elinjalo kwiimeko ezininzi lilumkiso olusilumkiso, njengoko lubonisa ukuba khona kweengxaki zempilo. UDreambook uncoma ukuba angaphutheli nakwezinye izinto eziphambukayo eziqhelekileyo. Kwanokufa komhlobo unokuthembisa ukufumana iindaba ezingathandekiyo, kwaye kufuneka ukuba kuthiwa zipholile njengoko zinokwenzeka. Ukusuka ebomini komhlobo ephupheni kubakho ubuso bokukhathala noxinzelelo ngenxa yamatyala aqokelelweyo kunye nokungabikho kwexesha.