Njengombhikisho ngokuchasene nemfundiso yomntu wabathengi ngekhulu lama-20, kwavela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengcambu zentsha, ezithandabuza abazali beentsha, ikakhulukazi abo babukela umntwana wabo okhulayo. Oku akusoloko kuchanekileyo kwaye kulungelelaniswa: okokuqala kufuneka uqonde intsingiselo yalolu hlobo okanye ulutsha oluthile, khuluma ngokukhululekile nomntwana wakho, uze wenze izigqibo. Elinye lala ma-subcultures yolutsha lwakutsha luvela kwiminyaka eyi-80 eNtshonalanga kwaye luxhasa ulwalathiso oluthile lomculo, kufuphi ne-punk. Njenganoma yiphina intshukumo yentsha, ivumela abancinci ukuba baziveze ngokwenza impahla, iinwele, umculo.
Umfanekiso we-emo
Iingubo zengubo zivame ukubonakaliswa ngemibala emibini eyahlukileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo, i-pink kunye nomnyama. Iidraphu, iibhola kunye neengqungquthela eziqhakazileyo, izitebe eziphezulu, iingubo ezinemizila okanye ijee ezinzima, ibhande elininzi elinemiqhubi, isikhwama phezu kwephepha - ngumfanekiso oqhelekileyo we-teen emo emoyeni. Gcwalisa i-oblique bangs, iincwadana zeenwele zezingane kunye neembhokhwe kwizinwele zamantombazana, isikhumba esilula kunye namebala enombala. Iintsholongwane ezizibonela ngokwale nkqutyana nazo zikulungele ukubhoboza, ukubhoboza yonke into enayo yokuba kukho ukucinga kunye nesibindi. Umculo ophulaphule emo emoyeni ungabonwa ngokukhuselekileyo kwi-post-hardcore okanye pop punk, kodwa intsingiselo yeengoma enye - uthando, intlungu nokufa.
Uba njani u-emo?
Ukuba ukholwa ngabameli be-subculture, ngoko emo, ngaphezu kwakho konke, imeko yangaphakathi yomphefumlo womntu. Kwaye ukuphonsa kwilizwe labo, akwanele ukuba agqoke iimpahla ezifanelekileyo aze aqoke i-bang. Intsha inika icebiso elilula kunye nelingenabulumko malunga nendlela yokuba ngumfana ovakalelwa emoyeni okanye inkwenkwe emo:
- Ungesabi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho: khala ngokukhawuleza, ukuhleka kakhulu;
- ayixhomekeke kwimbono yoluntu;
- kuvulekele kwabanye, kodwa ushiye inxalenye yehlabathi elingaphakathi kunye nawe (oku kanye kanye neengxowa ezifihla ubuso zifanekiselwa);
- kaninzi kunye nokufotowa;
- phu laphule umculo ofanelekileyo.
Ukuba uhambela imbambano ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kodwa ungangqubuzeki kwindlela yokwenza imfashini, kungcono ukuba uqhelane nembali yolutsha lwe-emo subculture, ukufunda iifomathi ezihambelana nayo, ukuqonda indlela umhlaba wakho ongaphakathi ufana ngayo neengcinga kunye neengcamango zabameli be-black and pink.
Isimboli kunye neempawu zemoya
Njengazo zonke i-subcultures, i-emo ineyabo, iyingqayizivele kubo, iimpawu kunye neempawu. Iimpawu eziphambili onokuzibonela ngokukhuselekileyo emo emoyeni ibhogi phezu kwephepha, amaninzi amabheji, amabhonkco aqhakazileyo okanye amabhondi, imibala enemibala, kakuhle, phezulu kweso sibubheyi esitokisi esithambileyo, esinezibilini ezinqamlekileyo zixotshiwe ngezingcingo ezinqabileyo.
Psychology of emo
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe ngasentla, ngenxa ye-emo into ephambili kukubonakalisa iimvakalelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe kule nkqutyana abasengozini kunye nabantu abadandathekileyo. Iimvakalelo eziphambili ezithandwa ngu-emoyeni uthando, ukunyamezela, ukuzodwa. Kwaye, ukuba umfana ubuza umbuzo othi: "Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba ube yi-emo?", Ngoko-ke, ukuba uqalise ukuqala, kufuneka acinge ngale mvakalelo, nokuba uyakwazi ukuzifumana imihla ngemihla. Kwakhona kucingelwa ukuba abameleli bale ntshukumo yentsha banokuziva bazive banzulu kwaye banzulu, bavelwano.
Abazali, abanomntwana oye wajoyina i-subculture emnyama kunye nepinki, kufuneka akhumbule intsingiselo yengqondo yabantwana abaselula, musa ukubeka uxinzelelo kuye kwaye nakunoma ikuphi na ukungaqiniseki ukuba ukhetho olunzima. Ixesha liya kuza, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuchaneka kwesigqibo sakhe, mhlawumbi nje "ukukhula" kule mfanekiso.