Isikolo asifumani inkqubo yokufunda kuphela, kodwa kunye noqhagamshelwano nootitshala, abafundi kunye nabo abafundi bezinye iiklasi. Ngelishwa, ukusebenzisana kwabafundi besikolo kunye nootitshala ngezinye iinkomo kuphelela kwimpikiswano. Oku kuphazamisa onke macala okulwa, kwaye, okokuqala, kwabazali. Bakulungele ukwenza yonke imizamo yokunceda umntwana. Kodwa njani ukusombulula iingxabano esikolweni? Yaye indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlazeke kubo?
Izizathu zokungqubana esikolweni
Abafundi, ootitshala bonke ngabantu abaneenjongo kunye nezimvo zabo. Kwintlangano enkulu yesikolo, ukungqubana kweminqweno ayinakupheka. Iimbambano eziphambili zi:
- iimpawu zomntu ngamnye kunye neziqu zakhe;
- ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezintsha, inkqubo entsha yobudlelwane kunye noontanga kunye nabadala, (ngokukodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kulo mhlaba kukho impikiswano kwiziko eliphambili kunye nakwi-adolescents);
- Ukungakwazi ukuqonda phakathi kootitshala kunye nomfundi.
Imizekelo yeengxabano kwisethi yesikolo. Ngokukrakra, ukuxabana phakathi kwabafundi kuvela rhoqo ngenxa yokuzama ukuzithemba ngenxa yokunyelisa abanye, abantwana abangokwenyama nabangokwengqondo. Kuloo nto abantwana banenkohlakalo kakhulu, kwaye ukuba eklasini nawuphi na ukwahlukana kuphawulwe, kukho konke kukukhokelela ekuhlekeleni. Ukuphikisana nomfundisi kubangelwa ngumnqweno wokuma kwaye ufumane ukuthembeka phakathi kwabanye abafundi. Inetyala kukho nanjalo utitshala, ngaphandle kokuqwalasela ngokumalunga nabaphengululi eklasini okanye ukudumisa ngokugqithiseleyo impumelelo.
Indlela yokulungisa iingxabano esikolweni?
Xa kwenzeka ukuphikisana, abazali kufuneka baqale ukuphulaphula umntwana wabo, ngaphandle kokuvavanya izenzo zakhe kunye namacala atyala. Ingqungquthela encoko kufuneka ithembeke. Emva koko, xubusha le meko uze uyizise ngokucophelela umfundi kwisicatshulwa sokuba isizathu sokuxabana asikuqondi kakuhle.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuba uqhelane nombono wecala eliphambene nombambano (utitshala okanye nabanye abantwana besikolo). Ukukhangela ukuphuma kwimbambano kufuneka kwenzeke kwingxoxo edibeneyo phakathi kwabazali, abafundi kunye notitshala. Ukuba iinzame zokulungisa ingxabano ziyi-fiasco, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nolawulo lwesikolo, isazi sengqondo senkolo. Mhlawumbi isisombululo siya kuba ukutshintsha isikolo okanye iklasi.
Kodwa ukuba umntwana uhlala ephazamisekile kwimpikiswano nabafundi ofunda nabo, kufuneka usebenze ngokukhawuleza kwaye udibanise ubunkokheli besikolo nabanye abazali.
Ukuthintela iingxabano esikolweni
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana akangena kwiingxabano, hlakulela kuye ingqondo yokuzixabisa kunye nokukwazi ukuzimela. Kuya kuba luncedo ukuyinikela kwicandelo lezemidlalo kwibhokisi okanye ukulwa. Fundisa umfundi ngokungafaniyo ukuba abonise ukwesaba kwakhe kwaye angabi nxamnye nokukhwaza. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukufaka abantwana intlonelo kubafundisi nakwabanye.
Indlela yokuphepha ingxabano esikolweni, abazali badlala indima ebalulekileyo. Kufuneka uhlale unxibelelana notitshala. Ngeemeko ezinzima, musa ukuma ngokungahambi kakuhle ngesikhundla somntwana wakho, phulaphula icala.