Umvuzo wobhaptizo lomntwana awunayo imigaqo ethile yemithetho kaThikazi, kodwa elo lonke umfazi oza kubhaptiza usana kufuneka alondoloze iinyaniso ezithile ezincinci kunye nezikhundla ezingabonakaliyo. Oku akuyi kubangela ukuba umntwana angalimazi ngenjongo.
Imigaqo ngokubanzi yokubhaptizwa komntwana kumama
Ukuze le nkonzo iqhutywe ngokuhambelana nayo yonke imithetho, oothixo kufuneka aqale ukulungiselela iSigramente soBhapathizo kwangaphambili. Njengokholo, akufanele kube nzima ukuvuma nokufumana ukudibana. Akuyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo ngaphambi kokuba umkhosi ukhawuleze. Nangona kunjalo, le miqathango ayimfuneko. Kuba oothixo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukutyelela kwangaphambili kwintetho yombingeleli kunye necawa apho kuya kwenziwa khona intlanganiso. Eli lilungelo elihle lokuba oothixo bafunde okungakumbi ngemithetho yeSigramente yobhaptizo lomntwana kwaye baqhelane nolwazi lwezifundo eziya kufunwa kwisithethe.
Ngokwesiko, kwi-sakramente yobhaptizo lomntwana oothixo kufuneka alungiselele aze angenise indlu iingubo zokugubha nokubhaptizwa. Kodwa ukuba ngoku uhlangabezana nobunzima bezezimali, le mi sebenzi inokwenziwa kuye ngu-Godfather. Umntu owamkelwayo kufuneka akwazi ukujamelana neentsana, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi kufuneka asule umntwana kwaye agqoke emva kwefonti. Namhlanje, icawa inyanisekile kwizinto ezininzi, kodwa ngexesha leSigramente ye-Epiphany umnqamlezo kufuneka ungalunaki iimfuno eziye zafakwa kuso ukusuka kwangaphambili:
- Yiba nomnqamlezo entanyeni yakho, unqunywe yicawa.
- Qinisekisa ukugubungela intloko yakho ngehekhi.
- Ukusuka kwiingubo ukugqoka ingubo phantsi kwamadolo, kunye nokugubungela amahlombe.
- Ukungabandakanyi izithende eziphezulu kunye nokwenza okukrakra kakhulu, kwaye ngokupheleleyo ukugatya ukusebenzisa umlomo.
Ukungafani kwimithetho yobhaptizo lomntwana ku-thixo we ntombazana kunye nomfana
Inendima yoothixo ibaluleke ngakumbi xa ebhaptiza umntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo u-godfather akanalo impembelelo eninzi kumhlambalazi kunye nomvuzo wokubhaptizwa unokwenziwa nangona engekhoyo. Ngokwemigaqo yobhaptizo lomntwana, unkulunkulukazi wentombazana unyanzelekile ukuba agcine umntwana ezandleni zakhe kwiSigramente, kwaye aqonde kwakhona emva kokungena kwifom. U-Godfather, umele kufuphi, kwaye uthatha inxaxheba kuphela xa kuyimfuneko ukunceda ukusula umntwana kwaye ufake i-suit of crystal. Ukongezelela, uothixo uya kufuneka athethe imithandazo ethile endlebeni, ngoko akunakulungele ukufumana amagama abo kwiingxoxo zokuqala kunye nomfundisi aze azifunde kwangaphambili.
Oothixo mabafanele bakhumbule ukuba imigaqo esungulwe ngubabingeleli ngokusebenza kweSigramente yobhaptizo kufuneka ibonwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ngaphandle koko, kunokuchaphazela ingozi yexesha elizayo lika-godson okanye umhlambi.