Xa abantu bandibuza malunga nobudlelwane bam ne-platonic, into yokuqala efika engqondweni yikhunjulwa ngumhlobo wabantwana. Sasihlala sihamba kunye, ngokuqinisekileyo sibamba izandla, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, kwimeko yenguqu ebomnye yabazali bomnye umntu, silala kwisitya esinye esikhulu, sinoxolo ngokucoca wonke umntu kwisiqingatha sethu. Isiqubulo esiqhubekayo esithi "Tili-tiri-hlama!" Sasishushisa yonke indawo; Umtshakazi nomyeni! "Akukho nto ihlekisayo, njengengoma yezicwangciso zethu ezide.
Ngoko, masiqonde ndawonye oko kuthetha "ubudlelwane be-platonic" kuthetha. Ngokwesiko, eli binzana libonisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bothando, apho kungekho nesondo khona.
Ukuba sithetha ngemicimbi ephakamileyo, ngoko uthando lomama ngomntwana, iimvakalelo zomfundi wakhe othandekayo, nothando lwe-Fatherland, ngoThixo lunokuba ngumzekelo omhle wobudlelwane be-platonic.
Kodwa masibuyele ekuthandweni kobudlelwane be-platonic. Ewe, kukho izizathu ezintle zokuphakama okunjalo - umzekelo, ubudala obude kakhulu besibini okanye isifo esithile esingavumelekanga ukuba siphile ngobomi obufanayo besondo. Apha unako ukunika imizekelo emininzi kwiiklasi. Umzekelo, "Uhambe Ngomoya" U-Ashley Wilks wanyanzelwa ukuba ayeke ubomi bobulili nomfazi wakhe, kuba wayengenako ukuzala. Kodwa ukhenketho oluninzi lwe-platonic luseyinqanaba lokuqala lokunyuka kwiphondo elimnandi elibizwa ngokuba nguThando. Emva koko, uthando lwangempela luhlala luqala ngokumangalisa into esivakalelwa ngayo kunye neephupha ezintle, ubuhlobo bokwenene nococekileyo.
Umgangatho osemgangathweni wamaphupha ngokuthandana nothando kubandakanya ubukho bekhonthi ovuma ngenxa yentokazi yakhe nayiphi na i-feat and heroine, nokuba yintlone. Kwaye intombi yentliziyo kuye, ngokuqinisekileyo, yinto efanelekileyo kunye noThixo ongenakufumana, umnqweno ongowokungacabangi.
Kubonakala ngathi, le nto inxulumene nobomi bwenene? Ngaba kwenzeka ngexesha lethu ukuba sibe yintando ye-platonic?
Enyanisweni, le nto ibonakala iyinto eqhelekileyo, ingakumbi phakathi kwentsha. Kule minyaka ubudala ukukhangwa kwePlato kuyisigaba esiqhelekileyo sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo komntu ngamnye.
Mhlawumbi, ngamnye wethu uya kukhumbuza umfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo, owabhenkcela ukutshintsha kweso sikolo, kunye nokuba ngumfana osemncinci, onobuchule obunomdla, ophethe izifundo zakhe. Akunakwenzeka ke ngoko, nangona amaphupha okuthintela ngokungaqhelekanga, ukugquma kunye ne-caress, saza sikhumbula iingcinga malunga nokulala ngesondo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kule minyaka, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuzifumana izithixo phakathi kwabadlali, abadlali abadumile kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba kwimiboniso yeTV. Emva koko, ukuxhamla okunjalo kwintlonelo yokomoya kwimimandla kunye nangokunokwenzeka ngokuphumelelayo kuyayifumana imfuno yeemvakalelo eziphakanyisiweyo kunye nenjongo yokunqula kwabo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo alenzi naluphi na umphumo. Ewe, ukukhanya kweemvakalelo, ukungenakwenzeka kwezinto zokubonga kuya kwenza ukuba amava olwa-platonic awakhunjulwe. Ngubani ongakhumbuli uthando lwakhe lokuqala?
Konke oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyintandokazi, kodwa iingqondo zengqondo zibonisa ukuba nayiphi na inqwenelekayo ye-platonic kufuneka ihambe kwisigaba sokuqaphela kwayo, oko kukuthi, ukuzama ukutsala ingqalelo, uhlale wedwa, njl. Yile ndlela abafundi bafunda ngayo ukunxibelelana nabantu besini esahlukileyo, balungiselela ukutshintshela ubudlelwane obudala. Ukususela ekuphunyezweni ngokuphumelelayo kwalo msebenzi kuya kuxhomekeka kubomi babo bomntu obusasa kunye nokuba kuya kuba yintoni.
Ukuba sithetha ngabantu abadala abanempilo, kuyinto engokwemvelo kwaye iyinto eqhelekileyo, ukuba ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwabo kuya kubakho umdlalo wesondo.
Enyanisweni, umntu ulwalamano kwinqanaba lezonxibelelwano ze-platonic ixesha elide, omnye umntu. Kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi: ukukhuliswa, ukwesaba ukuvavanya kakubi, ukwesaba ukutshiswa, ukungahambi kakuhle komlingiswa, kunye ncinane kakhulu. Into ephambili kukuba amaphupho othandanayo malunga neZiphumo aziyi kubonakalisa ubomi bakho ngokulindela okungapheliyo okanye ukuvavanywa komlingane. Uzicinge wena: kungakhathaliseki ukuba siphupha kangakanani ngothando olusulungekileyo, nolwazi ukuba unqwenelekayo kumntu wakho, lusenza sibe nolonwabo ngokwenene kwaye sithembele kuthi kunye nobudlelwane.