Izizathu zentuthuko yengqondo

Uphuhliso lwengqondo lomntu ngamnye luchatshazelwe yimiba yezinto, eziphambili zezi zinto zilandelayo: ukuphuhliswa komntu, ukulungelelaniswa kwemfuzo, imvelaphi ejikelezayo, imfundo noqeqesho.

Izinto kunye neepatheni zophuhliso lwengqondo

1. Umsebenzi wokuphuhliswa kukusebenzisana komntu, ububele bakhe kunye nenyaniso ejikelezileyo, uluntu. Kule mibini yokugqibela ukuba olu phuhliso lwenzeka. Ngoko, umsebenzi womntwana ubonakala kwizenzo zakhe, awenzayo ngokucela abantu abadala, ngendlela yokuziphatha kunye nezenzo ezizimeleyo.
2. I-Genetic predisposition yinto ebalulekileyo yezinto eziphilayo zokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntu. Olu lugqithiselo luhlulwe libe yindlalifa (i-organism kwisizukulwana emva kwesizukulwana iphinda iphinda ichaze iimpawu ezifanayo zokuphuhliswa komntu ngamnye, ukuthambekela komntu siqu), ukungathandabuzeki (into ebonakalayo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo ebonakalayo kumntu ozalwayo).
3. Inyaniso ejikelezileyo. Le ngcamango ifanele iquka zombini imeko kunye neemeko zentlalo phantsi kweso sakhiwo somntu. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yimpembelelo yoluntu. Emva koko, kuluntu, phakathi kwabantu, xa bexoxa nabo, umntu uyaqhubeka.

Ukuba asikhulumi nje ngeemeko, kodwa nangemithetho yentuthuko yengqondo yobuntu , kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuba ukungalingani kwalolu phuhliso kubangelwa ukuba ipropati nganye yengqondo iqulethwe ngamagangatho (ukukhupha, ukuqokelela, ukuwa, ukuphumla ngokumalunga nokuphindaphinda komjikelezo).

Isantya sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo sichaphazeleka kulo lonke ubomi. Ekubeni iqulethwe ngamanyathelo, ngoko xa kuvela isigaba esitsha, esiphezulu, ezidlulileyo zihlala ngesimo samanqanaba atsha.

Imiqathango kunye nemeko yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo

Iimeko ezichaza ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo komntu ngamnye ziquka:

1. Ukunxibelelana nomntwana kunye nesizukulwana esikhulileyo kuyindlela yokwazi yena kunye nabanye. Kule meko, abadala bakuthwala amava oluntu. Ngeli xesha, ezi ntlobo zonxibelelwano ziyahluka:

• imeko-ubuntu, uboniswe kwiinyanga ezili-6;
• ishishini (ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wokuphila komntwana);
• Ingqiqo, ibonakaliswe ngethuba lokukhuliswa kwengane;
• qi kelelwa (ngexesha apho umntwana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala);
• ibhizinisi elongezelelweyo liboniswa ngexesha loqeqesho.

2. Ukusebenza kwengqondo, eyahluka kwimida eqhelekileyo.