Kwenzeka ebomini ukuba umntu akanako ukuqonda iingcamango zakhe.
Kwiengqondo, ukungquzulana kwangaphakathi ngumzekelo xa umntu enzulu, iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ngamnye wethu kufuneka aphephe iiminqweno kunye neenjongo ngenxa yokwesaba ukungaqondwa okanye ukugula, kwaye emva kokuba yonke impilo yethu incike kwindlela esihlala ngayo ngayo imeko yethu yengqondo nengqondo. Xa kukho ukungquzulana kwangaphakathi komntu, kuyimfuneko ukuyibuyisela phezulu kwaye ifumene imbangela yengxaki. Nangona engaboni, awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na, oko kukuthi, awukwazi ukukhula kwaye uqhubeke.
Indlela yokulungisa ingxabano yangaphakathi?
- Okokuqala, zama ukuhlola ngokwaneleyo imeko kwaye uqaphele ukuphikisana okubangelwa iimvakalelo , umsindo okanye ukwesaba.
- Hlaziya iqondo lokubaluleka kwalo mbambano.
- Ziqonde ngokwakho, kutheni unalo lo mbambano?
- Kubalulekile ukuba ubonise isibindi kwaye ungabi nantoni na isizathu sokuba uxhalabise.
- Yenza uvakalelo lwakho. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba, funda incwadi yakho oyintandokazi, uye kwi-cinema okanye kwimidlalo yaseshashalazini.
- Zama ukuphumla kunye nokuzola, ingxaki inokuthi ixazululwe xa ungayigcinanga rhoqo kuwe, kodwa uyiqwalasele ngokuzithemba nangokuzithemba.
- Tshintsha iimeko xa bengakufanelanga.
- Funda ukuxolela, kungekhona abanye kuphela, kodwa wena. Bonke abantu benza iimpazamo kwaye akukho mntu uhlukile.
- Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, unako ukukhala. IAmerican biochemist. I-Frey, yafumanisa ukuba ngeemvakalelo ezimbi, iinyembezi ziqulethe i-substance, njenge-morphine kwaye ibe nefuthe.
Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwemibambano yangaphandle nangaphakathi. Ulwaphulo lwangaphandle luvela phakathi kwabantu okanye iqela labantu, kwaye ukungquzulana kwangaphakathi kwenzeka ngenxa yobunzima bokukhetha isisombululo, iinjongo zokuzimela, kunye nokuzimela ngokwaneleyo.
Imizekelo yeengxabano
Imizekelo yeengxabano zangaphakathi ingahluka. Masichaze ezinye zazo. Umzekelo olula kukuba ukhetho lomsebenzi . Umntu unokufumana iiminqweno eziphikisanayo, ngoko kunzima kuye ukuchonga into ebalulekileyo. Kwakhona, ingxabano engapheliyo ingathiwa ukunganeliseki nawe, ukuziva unetyala, ukungazinzi, ukungaqiniseki, ubunzima ekwenzeni izigqibo ezahlukeneyo.
Ingxaki yongquzulwano lwangaphakathi iqheleke kubo bonke abantu. Sonke, ngenye indlela okanye enye, sihlala sihlalutya imeko, sihlala sicinga ngabo kwaye kaninzi sinako ukugqiba isigqibo malunga nokukhetha. Oku kwenzeka kubantu bonke. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ufuna ukunyaniseka nawe kwaye ungalibazisi isigqibo kwibhokisi ende. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ukunqoba iingxabano zangaphakathi kubangela ukuphuhliswa komntu, kuzuza ukuzithemba okukhulu, ngoko kwixesha elizayo lijongene lula neemeko ezinjalo.
Ukuba kukho ukungqubana phakathi kwenu, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba, khumbula ukuba nawuphi na umqathango unokufumana indlela yokuphuma!