Ngaba uye wabonana nabantu abangenakuhlala ngaphandle kokuqwalasela umntu wabo kwabanye? Kwaye xa kuthemba kwabo bekungagqibekanga kule nqanaba, ngaba bafuna ukuvusa inzondo, inzondo kubo? Into ephambili kubantu abanjalo ayiyi kubonwa. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko unomhlobo wobuntu obonakalisa.
Uhlobo lomboniso
Abantu abathile balolu hlobo, bafezekise ngokwabo kwaye bangenakwenzeka, kodwa ngenxa yendalo yabo (intsapho, abahlobo, njl.). Bakulungele ukwenza nantoni na eyenza abantu bahloniphe, baqonde, bahloniphe ngokwabo. Kwimeko apho kungenakwenzeka ukuphumeza, isicwangciso "B": ingqwalasela iboniswa ngovelwano okanye imfesane ngobuntu bomntu. Kodwa, ukuba olu khetho luphela nge-fiasco epheleleyo, uhlobo lokubonisa luba ngumntu onxamnye. Ulungele ukuphula umthetho, ulunge. Ngamanye amagama, khawuchukumise wena ngoncedo lweemvakalelo ezimbi.
Kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokunyanisela ukuthetha ukuba i-credo yabantu abanjalo "Ubomi bam buzele imibala ekhanyayo". Nangona ubuntu obonakalisayo abukwazi ukufumana iimpawu ezingenasiphelo zekhokeli, lifuna ukuba liziko lokuqwalasela. Umnqweno wakhe oyintloko-njengaye, kodwa kuba ekukhathaleleni kwakhe akayikulibala izinto ezincinane.
Ngoko, umfazi ogama lakhe lingumzekelo wobonakaliso, akaphumeli kwisitishi esondelene nesonka. Kwiingubo ukhetha ukugqithisa. Ngamanye amaxesha ungabona into engachazwa ngokupheleleyo ngegama elithi "izigubhu", kodwa nangona kunjalo, ukugqoka ngokungaqhelekanga, ufuna ukuphawula.
Xa esebenzelana nabantu, uziphatha ngendlela efana ne-interlocutor, ukukopisha isimo sakhe sengqondo. Ukuba ukuziphatha kohlobo lokubonakalisa kwinkampani aluyikunyamekela, uyilungele bonke aba bantu babenomsindo obulalayo. Ukuxiliswa akuthwali kakuhle, apho kungagula khona.