Umntu ngamnye ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, kodwa wenza into ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe, emva koko unokuziva enetyala ngenxa yento ayenzile, umva wokuzisola. Kuza xa umntu eqonda into eyona eyenziwe nguye, ezisola ngayo. Ukugatya isisiseko, ngokubhekiselele kuyo into eyenziwe ngayo, umntu oguqukileyo engazi, kodwa abuyisela ekuzileni. Umntu ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda oko akwenzileyo, uvakalelwa intsingiselo ephikisanayo nesiganeko. Ndikulungele ukuthatha uxanduva malunga nemiphumo yesenzo.
Ukuguquka okunzulu
Enye yeendlela eziphambili zokuzisola kukuguquka. Isenzo sokuzithandela somntu owenze ubugebengu obuthile. Injongo ephambili yezenzo ezinjalo kukugqithisa ingozi eyenziwe, ukunciphisa okanye ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo imiphumo yesenzo. Kule meko, umntu uyazisa malunga nesiganeko i-arhente zokunyanzelisa umthetho.
Ukuzisola okunjalo kukwazi ukunciphisa amanyathelo asetyenziswa kumntu onoxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho.
Ukwahlula kokuguquka okunzulu
Kwiingcamango zomthetho olwaphulo-mthetho zihlukanisa ezo ntlobo zokuguquka okuguqukileyo:
- Vula ngokuvuma.
- Uncedo ekuxazululeni ulwaphulo-mthetho.
- Inxephezelo yokuzithandela yomonakalo obangelwa zizenzo zomntu.
- Ukupheliswa komonakalo obangelwayo.
- Ukuthintela imiphumo enobungozi obubi bobugebengu obwenziweyo.
Kukho iimpawu kunye nezibonakaliso zokuphenduka.
Izenzo zenjongo ziquka abo bachazwe ngumthetho. Ziyingxenye yenguquko ehambelana nokusebenza.
Lo mbandela ukhangeleka lula. Njengomthetho, umiselwe kumthetho ngendlela yeemeko zokusetyenziswa kwemithetho yokukhuthaza abantu abaguqukayo.
Umntu onjalo unokuqatshelwa njengomntu ongenakucinga ukuba izenzo zakhe ziphosakeleyo, kodwa wenza izinto ezifunwa ngumthetho.
Kuzo zonke iindidi zokuguquka okuguqukileyo, iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zinjongo zizenzo zoluntu zenzo ezenzileyo, umsebenzi wazo.
Iimpawu ezicwangcisiweyo ziquka: uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha, uhlobo oluthathayo olusebenzayo olujolise ukufezekisa iinjongo ezixhamla uluntu.
Ukuguquka okuguqukileyo kumazwe afana neLatvia, iMongolia, amazwe aseCIS (kungabandakanywa neKyrgyzstan) isetyenziselwa isizathu esona sizathu sokukhutshwa komntu ophulukileyo kwiimbopheleleko zobugebengu.
Umthetho wamazwe e-CIS awukhululi kulo xanduva lomntu oqale wenza ulwaphulaphulo oluphethe umthwalo omncinci, kodwa kwimeko yokuba umntu uye wazinikela ngokuzithandela. Ngokwenza njalo, waba negalelo ekuphandeni nasekudaleni kwakhona ulwaphulo-mthetho.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba nayiphi na ukuguquka okunyanisekileyo kubhelela isimo sengqondo ngokubhekiselele kulwaphulo-mthetho. Kule nkalo, umenzi wobubi ngokwakhe uzenzele iimeko ezinciphisa uxanduva lwakhe lolwaphulo-mthetho.
Kamva, ukuguquka ngamanye amaxesha akunalo inzuzo yokuba amazwi okuguquka, athetha ngexesha elifanelekileyo, angenise. Kodwa lolu hlobo lokuzisola luyayiluncedo kumntu onetyala, ngenxa yokuzimela kwakhe. Ukuba wakwazi ukunyamezela isifundo esiluncedo kwizinto ezenzekile kwaye uziva ezisola, ngoko ulungele ukutshintsha ukuba uphumelele.
Ingxaki yokuguquka
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le ngxaki ivela kuwo wonke urhulumente, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphuhliso lwalo. Kodwa kwilizwe ngalinye izinga lokubonakaliswa kwalo lihlukile. Ukulungela komntu ukuguquka kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuzimela, ukuzimisela kwakhe ukuthatha uxanduva oluthile. Ingxaki yokuguquka kukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje loxinzelelo, imali kunye nomncintiswano wokuphumelela, abanye abantu bayakulibala ukuhlaziya umxholo wabo wangaphakathi, ukucinga kwakhona ngezinto zabo ezingokomoya.
Ngoko, ukuguquka, nantoni na oko, kuhlala kuthatha umphumo omuhle, okokuqala, oko kuguquke kakhulu.