Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abagubha umkhosi wabo wokuzalwa banqunywe kuphela kwisidlo esisisityebi kunye nokudanisa, ngelixa bebalahlele ezinye iindlela zokudibanisa inkqubo yokuzonwabisa. Enyanisweni, ngexesha lethu, abaninzi banolonwabo ngoku, becinga ukuba sele benelungelo lokukhenkceza itafile, kwaye bameme bonke abahlobo ekhaya. Kodwa nabo oogxa ngokwabo okanye abaqhelana neqhawe banokunyamekela ukuhlekisa ngakumbi ngokuhlelela imincintiswano emihle okanye amahlaya ahlekisayo ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe. Ngesizathu esithile, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ezi zinto zenzeka kuphela ngo-Ephreli wokuqala okanye kumabonwakude. Kodwa kungenanto, loo manani ajabulisayo aya kunika yonke inkampani imvakalelo eninzi kwaye enze isigubhi isiganeko esingalibalekiyo ebomini bomntu obiza.
Imifanekiso yokuzalwa yemidlalo yokuzalwa
- Ukungabi nemali yesipho esibizayo , abafundi beza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokubamba. Omnye wabo ukupakisha into encinci kwinani elikhulu leebhokisi ezihlukeneyo ngendlela yododola. Emva koko kufuneka ufumane inkwenkwe yokuzalwa ukuba uyikhuphe yonke le nto phambi koluntu, oya kuwona onke la mabini, iibhande, iibhoksi, iingxowa, ziqala ukujikeleza ngokuhleka. Isithsaba sawo sonke sinokuba yindandatho ethobekileyo kunye negweba elimhlophe ngendlela yesityalo esivamile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoko, xa isihlwele sithoba phantsi, ungabonisa iqhawe lomhla ngesipho esiqhelekileyo, ukuzolalisa iimvakalelo zakhe ezibuhlungu kunye nentlungu.
- Ngendlela, ezininzi iimidwebo kunye namahlaya ngosuku lokuzalwa zidibene nezipho. Umxholo olandelayo ubizwa ngokuba yi "Broken Chinese Vase". Ibhokisi enhle kakhulu ixutywe ngokucophelela kunye neqela leentsimbi eziqhekekileyo kunye neziqhekeza zeglasi ezinemibala. Yonke into ifanele ibonakale yendalo kwaye iziqwenga mazibe zincinci, ukuze kungacacanga oko babekho ngaphambili. Emva kwaloo mnikelo unikezelwa kwintlokontsi, ixabiso lakhe elikhulu kunye nemigangatho iyahlulwa, kwaye ngexesha elibaluleke kakhulu lo mqondiso "ngengozi" uwela phantsi. Kucacile ukuba wonke umntu uyaxhalaka, ngezinyembezi, uvelane nomntwana wokuzalwa kwaye unciphise isivakashi. Kwaye kuphela xa izifiso zihlala zihleli, ukuba i-vase yangempela ifakwe kwiholo kwaye isipho sithatha indawo.
- Ukuvelisa umdwebo wokuzalwa womhla wokuzalwa, abantu abaninzi kufuneka babhale. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu xa kuziwa kumfazi othanda iintyatyambo. Khawucinge ukuba namhlanje kulendlela eya emsebenzini okanye ekhaya abantu abangaqhelekanga baya kumana, bange, banikezele kwaye balele ngeentyatyambo. Abanye bade bayeke imoto kunye nokumemeza behamba ngaphaya komgwaqo ukuze bamkele intombazana yokuzalwa, oye waxinezeleka gqitha kwingqalelo enjalo. Kwaye kusihlwa, kwibhar, uyifaka nge-disc disc, apho zonke ezi ziqendu ziprintiwe, emva koko bonke aba bantu babonakala ehholo, badibana kunye nentombazana yethu kwaye bayamncoma ngeli holide ndawonye.
- Ungadlala kuphela intombazana yokuzalwa, kodwa iindwendwe zayo. Umgwebi wembhiyozo kulo mzekelo ngumququzeleli wokuzonwabisa, kwaye iindwendwe ziyixhoba. Ibhinqa ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe kwiiyure ezimbalwa phambi kwedlo, ukulixolisa kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo uxolisa kwifowuni, icela abahlobo ukuba bazise iiplati ezimbalwa kunye naye. Uchaza yonke into ngokuthi ngenxa yesiphoso senkosikazi yebhayile namhlanje ngokuqinisekileyo akuyi kubakho ukukhawulwa okwaneleyo kubo bonke abantu abamenyiwe. Khawucinge ngomntu osabela ngayo xa ehamba ehholo aze abone itafile ehlotshiswe kakuhle,
kunye neengcamango eziyintsikelelo ezinye iindwendwe, nazo zathatha iisethi ezingezizo.
Kulo mzekelo, umgaqo omnye kufuneka uqaphele - amahlaya kufuneka abe ngokwaneleyo, abaququzeleli bomzobo womhla wokuzalwa kufuneka baqwalasele zonke iinguqu kunye nokuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo umva weentlokoma. Kulula ukuwudlula, kwaye akufanelekile ukuthatha nayiphi na inombolo ukusuka kuluhlu lweehlaya ezibekwe kwi-intanethi. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukucinga indlela umntu asabela ngayo, ngoko, indlela eya kuziphatha ngayo ngexesha lokubonisa. Kodwa ukuba udlala umntu ngobuchule, ukwenza ihlaya elingenakungozi kwaye kungabi nciphisa kakhulu, liya kukhupha umoya kwaye wonke umntu, ababini abathathi-nxaxheba kwi-rally, kunye necala lokubhiyozela ngokwabo, baya kuneliseka.