Xa isibini esitshatileyo sinamazibulo, sifuna ukuqala inkqubo yokunxibelelana naye ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ke kuvela ukuba uncinane ufuna unxibelelwano oluhlukileyo. Ayikho into ekuthethwa ngabantu abadala. Iintsana ezinjengeengqungquthela kunye nezicengcelezo ezilula, zihamba kunye nezihlunu kunye nokunyakaza. Yintoni "i-poteshki", kwaye yiyiphi enye ifanelekileyo isetyenziswa xa isebenzisana nabantwana ukuya kunyaka?
Yintoni i-poteshki?
Kwangexesha elide, iRashiya iqokelele ubutyebi obuxabisekileyo-isipiliyoni esibonakaliswe kwimbali. Kwangexesha elide, izizukulwana ezikhulu ze-grandmothers, nannies, umama zibeka iingoma ezininzi, iingcamango kunye nemilolotelo yokunyumba.
Iifomese - oku akukho ngaphezu kwesivakalisi esincinane, izibongo, ezithe ngqo kwaye zihambisane naluphi na uhlobo lokuzibandakanya umntwana okanye izenzo zakhe ezizimeleyo: ukugqoka, ukudlala.
Yintoni efunekayo?
Iindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo zeengqungquthela zengqolowa zingasetyenziselwa ukudlala neentsana, xa sele zenze ukuhamba okuthile ngokuzimeleyo, kwaye oku kwenziwa ngumama kunye nomntwana, ehamba nezifundo ngeengoma.
Ukumamatheka kunye neengqungquthela zengqungquthela ezisetyenziselwa ukuphazamisa iintsana nazo zinokumnceda nokumnceda ngokutshintsha ingqalelo into ethile. Ngoko, ngokuphindaphindiweyo umama kunengxaki yokutya okanye ukuhlamba umntwana, oqala ukungahambi kakuhle. Ukuva i-poteshka efanayo, wabuyela ngokukhawuleza waza wancipha.
Ukongezelela, isingeniso somntwana, ongekho unyaka, ukhulisa isikhungo sakhe sokuthetha, esebenzisa izakhono zokuhamba kakuhle kunye nokunyakaza, kunye negalelo ekuphuhliseni ngokomzwelo, ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba athathe isenzo esizimeleyo. Kwabaninzi abantu abadala, babonakala bengenangqiqo kwaye babonakala bengenangqondo, kodwa bayinika uvuyo lwebhokhwe.
Kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba iimvumi zezilwanyana zinceda ukuqhagamshelana phakathi kwabazali kunye nomntwana kwasekuqaleni, ngokoqobo ukusuka ekuzalweni kwakhe.
Yiyiphi i-poteshki ekhoyo?
Okwangoku, nakwephi na isitolo sezingane, umama uya kukwazi ukufumana lula iqoqo yemidlalo kunye nemilolozo yesigqithiso somncinci. Kodwa, ukuba uzama, unokukhumbula okuqhelekileyo ukuba wonke umntu unokuva: "Ladushki", "Soroka-Beloboka", "Uhlala phantsi", njl njl. Nantsi imimiselo yeengcamango zokunyumba:
"Imijuba"
Apha phaphama, welula,
Waguquka ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala!
Potyagushhechki! Potyagushhechki!
Ziziphi iimathoyizi, i-rattle?
Wena, udlala, uhlasele, uphakamise umntwana wethu!
Ok: oku:
Ziziphi iindlebe zethu?
Ukuphulaphula i-pestles!
Yaye phi na amehlo?
Ukubukela ibali
Nawaphi amazinyo?
Fihla i siponji!
Ewe, umlomo wekhiyi!
Kukho imithetho emininzi xa udlala nabantwana:
- Yenza oku ngexesha elithile. Okugqwesileyo konke, kuya kuba iiyure ezingama-2 emva kokulala okanye ngexesha lokutya, xa umntwana engafuni ukuvula umlomo wakhe.
- Musa ukuyidlula. Akuyimfuneko ukuba kaninzi kwaye ixesha elide isebenzise i-poteshki kumdlalo kunye nezingane njengoko zikhawuleza zidiniwe.
- Sebenzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo. Kungcono ukusebenzisa iintlobo ezininzi zeemidlalo, usuku ngalunye luhluke. Oku akuyi kuphinda iqhube imivumba, kwaye kuya kuba ngcono ukuyikhumbula.
- Bobabini abazali kufuneka badlale. Njengomthetho, umama uchitha ixesha elingakumbi nomntwana kunokuba asebenze rhoqo emsebenzini nasemsebenzini, Tata. Yingakho umntwana engathandi kakhulu ukudlala noyise. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba akafanele athathe ingqalelo kumntwana. Ukudlala kunye nenzala yakhe ngoncedo lweengqungquthela zengcebele, ungakhawuleza uqhagamshelane naye ngokukhawuleza.
Emva kwexeshana, inkunzi iya kuba yayazi zonke i-poteshki ngentliziyo kwaye iyakwazi ukuphinda iphinde iphinde ibe yedwa emva kwesicelo sabazali.
Kuthe ixesha elide lidlulileyo ukususela kwiingqungquthela zokuqala-iingqungquthela ezibonakala kubantwana abancinci. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, abazange balahlekise ukubaluleka kwabo. Yingakho nayiphi na inyana namhlanje kunye nabazali bakhe banomdla omkhulu kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ngaphezu koko, emva kokukhula, umntwana uya kubaxelela ngokwabo. Ngoko ke, sinokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba loo midlalo iya kuba negalelo ekuphuhliseni intetho.