Indlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11?

Umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11 sele esazi kakhulu, kodwa kwikamva uza kuqonda ubuninzi bezakhono. Oomama abaninzi kulo nyaka baqala ukuya kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yophuhliso, enokubaluleka kakhulu kwiimvuthu, kuba ngale ndlela uqala ukuqhagamshelana nabanye abantwana kwaye ufunde ezinye izakhono ezivela kubo.

Okwangoku, nangona ungenayo ithuba lokubhalisa kwiziko lezingane, unokufunda kunye nosana kunye nasekhaya. Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela indlela yokukhulisa umntwana ezinyangeni ezili-11, kwaye yiziphi iimathoyilo ezingcono ukuzisebenzisa kule minyaka.

Indlela yokuhlakulela umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya ku-12?

Njengoko uyazi, umntwana ukhula ngexesha lomdlalo. Yonke into eyenziwa ngabazali kule minyaka ukunikela umntwana amathoyizi afanelekileyo aze amfundise indlela yokusebenzisana nabo ngokuchanekileyo. Ayikho yonke imathoyilelo emfundo yomntwana weenyanga ezili-11 eziyimfuneko ukuthenga kwisitoreji, ezinye izinto zendlu zingakwazi ukuzithobela.

Umntwana oneminyaka elishumi elinanye ubudala uthanda kakhulu ukukhupha izinto ezincinci kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo, ukuwagxotha, ukudibanisa nokutshintsha. Kule meko, akukhathazeki ukuba yiyiphi iifythi ezisetyenziselwa iimvumba ngexesha lo mdlalo - ingaba yenzelwe ngokukhethekileyo ukukhupha komntwana , kunye nayiphi na enye into, umzekelo, ubukhulu bobukhulu obuphakathi, iibhola ezincinci, amacwecwe, amantongomane, i-curlers nokunye okuninzi.

Ukongezelela, ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kubantwana abaneminyaka eyi-11, le midlalo yokuphucula ilandelayo ilungile:

• ukuqokelela iipramamidi;
• ukucima izibonda kwiibhotile okanye kwiibhubhu;
• izifundo ezilula kunye noplastiki;
• ukudweba ngeekrayoni okanye ipensela;
• oomashishini abagibeleyo kunye namanye amathoyizi kumavili;
• ukudluliselwa kwamanzi kwisitya esinye kwesinye;
• ukubamba amathoyizi amancinci emanzini ngomnatha;
• imidlalo eyahlukeneyo kunye nedayisi.

Imisebenzi eninzi yophuhliso yabantwana beenyanga ezili-11 inxulumene noncedo lomama ekhaya - ngeli xesha abantwana baqala ukubonisa umnqweno wokuxelisa abadala kwizinto zonke. I-crumb ingakwazi ukuqokelela ama-candy wrappers okanye iziqhekeza ezihlukeneyo zamaphepha kwi-trash, zibeke iimpahla kwi-tank yomatshini wokuhlamba uze uyikhuphe ngaphandle. Ukongezelela, ezinye iintsana ziqala ukuthetha kwifowuni, zidibanise iinwele zazo, zihlambe kwaye zitshintshe amazinyo, ziphinda ziphindaphinda abazali bazo, kwaye zisuse iphantsi okanye itafile nge-rag.

Ekugqibeleni, kwiinyanga ezili-11, njengokuba, ngokwenene, nakwezinye izinto, kubalulekile ukuthetha rhoqo nomntwana. Kwakungekho mfuneko ukulibala ngokufunda iincwadi - ngokuqinisekileyo, umntwana akakwazi ukuqonda oko kubhaliweyo kubo, kodwa imifanekiso ekhanyayo iya kumnceda. Umsebenzi wakho kukukwenza kube lula kwaye kufinyeleleke ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ubeke izimvo kuyo yonke into ebona i-crumb.