Yintoni esinokuyilindela ebuhlotsheni ukuba abantu ababini abaneqinileyo basondelelene, ngubani na iinkokeli zangempela kwaye azange zisetyenziswe ukuvumelanisa nabani na? Ingaba umfazi ohambelana noLeo kunye nomntu uLowethu okanye ubudlelwane bakhe baya kutshabalaliswa kwasekuqaleni?
Ibhubesi elinamandla elinamandla elinokuqhayisa umntu unokumnceda abe "ngumkhonzi" wakhe ubomi bonke. Oku kusebenza kuwo onke amalungu enesini esomeleleyo, kodwa kungekhona uLoo, yena ngokwakhe onokuthi "aguqe" nabani na. Ngoko ke, ubudlelwane phakathi kweso sibini luza kusekelwe kumbambano, nakwizinto ezincinci. Indoda yeNgonyama inqoba umfazi ngokuthandana naye, kuba le mpawu iyimfuneko yakhe.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ingonyama ibhangqa ibonakala ikhulu kakhulu, ekubeni ithando lugxininiso kwaye lisetyenziselwa ukudlala kuphela iindima eziphambili kunoma yimuphi umdlalo. Ukongeza kwintsebenziswano eqhubekayo kwezobudlelwane, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakho ukuthandana. Ookumkani abomeleleyo bezilwanyana, bebodwa, kunye nabanye, banokuba ngamakhiti aqhelekileyo. Umtshato phakathi kowesifazanekazi uLo kunye nomntu uLo emva kweminyaka ihlala iphela, njengokuba okokuqala ngqa imizuzu yeentlanganiso, kuphela xa bekwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane kwaye abazange baphume. Ngenxa yoko, amaqabane kufuneka afunde ukunikezela omnye komnye, kodwa umntu unokucinga ukuba unengonyama evuyayo kwi-leash okanye kwikheji. Ewe, unako ukugoba kwaye enze oko umlingane wakhe abuza, kodwa akayi kuzuza uvuyo kunye ne-idyll.
Ithuba elilodwa lokufumana ukudibanisa kulwalamano lukho ukuhlonipha nokuqonda. Kwakhona kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika inkululeko inkululeko efunekayo. Kunconywa ukuba amaqabane aqondise umoya wokubambisana ngendlela efanelekileyo, kwaye ufunde indlela yokuthanda ngayo amandla afanayo njengoko ayaziyo ukulwa.
Luhlobo luni lwamabhinqa amadoda anjengeengonyama?
Emva kwabo amadoda anjalo alungele ukubona abameli abafanelekileyo besini esingenamandla. Bamele bakhule ngokomoya, babe nefuthe langaphandle kunye nesibheno. Akayithandanga nantoni na abafazi abathweswe ubunzima bekhaya kunye neento ezingenanto. Ibhinqa elungileyo loMntu weNgonyama nguye ongamhloneliyo kuphela, kodwa onke amadoda angqongileyo, kuba nguye ukumkani wezilwanyana kwaye kufuneka abe nkosikazi eceleni kwakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iqabane lingaphaya kwendoda kaLeon, ngaphandle koko ubuhlobo buya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza.
Masibhale, uluhlobo luni lwabasetyhini olukhethwa nguLoon? Makhe sizame ukuphendula isigwebo esisodwa - ukulungelelanisa, ukulungiswa kakuhle, okungabonakaliyo, okungabonakaliyo.
Nguwuphi na umfazi ofuna umntu uLo?
Amadoda anjalo kufuneka athandwe, axhaswe kuzo zonke iinjongo kunye nokunyamekela, kuphela kule meko baya kuvuyiswa, kwaye banako ukubaninzi. Iingonyama zifuna ukufumana umfazi onokuthobela amandla akhe.
Nguyiphi indoda efanela owesifazane uLeon?
Iindunakazi zifuna amadoda aya kuhlala ebonakalisa uthando lwakhe kwaye athetha ukuba yinto enhle kakhulu neyodwa. Iingonyama zikholelwa kwiinjongo kwaye zihlala ziza kule "rakes". Abafazi abanjalo bafuna ukubona emva komntu okhuselekile oya kukwazi ukuhlawula zonke iindleko zakhe kunye neefom.
Othandekayo kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo aziphathe ngesithunzi, njengenkosi yangempela kunye nelifa
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba indoda esondele kwintombikazi kaLeo, ihambelana ngokupheleleyo kunye nayo:
- wayengumnxibelelwano olungileyo kwaye uxhaswa nayiphi na isihloko kwingxoxo;
- unomdla omhle kunye nengubo yokugqoka;
- kufuneka uthembele, kungekho ndlela ungaba nomona kwaye ungalawulwa;
- ukugcina ethembekile;
- Kumele amkholise, ukuze i-Lioness ingakhathazeki.