Kusuka kwimpilo yokuzala ekufikeni kwexesha elizayo, ubomi obusasazekileyo bentwana bethu buxhomekeka kakhulu. Ngoko, ngexesha eliphawulweyo kunye nokuphilisa le ngxaki kuya kumnciphisa iingxaki ngokuzala abantwana ngokudala.
Kwaye ukukhuselwa kwempilo yolutsha kulutsha kufuneka kuqale ngokukhuselwa kwempilo yabantwana besikolo kunye nabantwana abaselula. Okokuqala, ukunakekelwa kwempilo yokuzala yabantwana kunye nabaselula balala nabazali babo.
Awudingi ukulinda iminyaka ethile, umzekelo, iminyaka eyi-14, ukubonisa intombazana yakho kwi-gynecologist okanye ukuthembela kwisikolo somzimba. Kubalulekile ukuqala ukunyamekela impilo yenkqubo yokuzala yabantwana ukususela ekuzalweni.
Impilo yokuzala yentombazana, okokuqala, ucoceko olufanelekileyo lwezondo zesini. Nangona kunjalo, oku kusebenza kubafana. Ukuba kukho ukukrokra kokuvuvukala, kufuneka udibanise nangoko inkcazo-ugqirha kunye nomntwana wesifo somntwana.
Xa enye inzala yamantombazana enyanga yokuqala, kufuneka ilungele oku. Zama ukufundisa abantwana bakho ukuze banganqikazi ukunxibelelana nawe nayiphi na into. Ngenxa yokuba kuqaphele ukuba malunga nentombazana yesithathu ukususela ekuqaleni kobuntwaba, ihamba kunye neengxaki ezingahambiyo kunye nezinye iingxaki. Kodwa ngenxa yeentloni, akaxubushelanga oku kunye nonina kwaye udonsa le ngxaki ebusheni, aze afike kwixesha elide lobomi bakhe. Kwaye kuba sisizathu sobunzima obunzima beengxaki, phantsi kokungabikho kwabantwana abasetyhini xa beba.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhala ingqalelo yabantwana babo kwimpembelelo yokutshaya nokusela utywala kwimpilo yokuzala. Sidinga ukucacisa kwifomu efumanekayo kwaye ngaphandle koxinzelelo kwindodana okanye intombi yethu ukuba yintoni ingozi yecuba kunye notywala, nokuba yingozi njani loo mveliso echaphazelayo inokuchaphazela impilo yesondo kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana abaphilileyo.
Enyanisweni, ebuntwaneni kunzima kakhulu ukugcina igunya lakho njengomzali, kodwa kufuneka uzame, kuba abazukulwana bakho basengozini.