Yintoni kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezili-9?

Kwiinyanga ezili-9 umntwana ubonisa uhlobo oluphikisanayo: ngakwesinye icala, unolwazi, uhlala ehamba ngokukhawuleza ekukhangekeni kwezinto ezintsha, ngokubhekiselele kwezinye izinto-ngokuqhelekileyo ubonisa ukwesaba nokuhlazeka kwindawo engaziwayo. I-crumb iqala ukuqaphela ngakumbi ihlabathi elijikelezile, ukwahlula abantu, izinto zibe "zam" kunye "nabaziwayo." Uyakwazi ukuzimela kakuhle kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo, uyazi iimpawu zakhe, ukhululekile kunye nabahlobo kunye nabantu abasondeleyo, ngokusoloko umntwana unxhalabile, aze akhale etaweni zabangamaziyo kunye nokutyelela. Kwimeko yokubeka ekhaya kuyathakazelisa ukugcina ukuziphatha kweemvumba kwaye ufunde indlela ukuphuhliswa kwengane kuqhubeka kwiinyanga ezili-9 nokuba yintoni anokuyenza.

Masiqale ngokunxibelelana. Umntwana akasathethi okwangoku, kodwa ngoncedo lokubamba ingabonakalisa iminqweno kunye neenjongo zakhe. Uvele esabela egameni lakhe nangamazwi amfutshane. Ngoko ke, bazali, ukwenzela ukuba kusetyenziswe iindlela zokunxibelelana ezimbini, kungcono ukuthetha ngamagama ambalwa amfutshane kunye nolwazileyo.

Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwinyanga ye-9 yobomi, ukunyakaza kubalulekile. Intsana iyakhweba, ijikeleze indlu. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukumnika iimeko ezizinzileyo kunye ezikhuselekileyo. Ixesha lokuthanda lam lihamba. Umntwana kaninzi uzama ukuma emilenzeni, ethembela ezintweni ezenzeka kwindlela yakhe. Ngenkxaso yabazali, sele emele ngokuzithemba, ethembele kwiindawo zokuhlala. Ngeli xesha, umntwana angakwazi ukufunda enye ikhono - ukunyuka kwezitepsi. Ukuba i-crumb iya kubomeleza amanyathelo okuqala, ngoko uya kuziva uvuyo kwaye akhuphuke ngokukhawuleza ukuya phezulu. Iinyanga ezili-9 lixesha elihle lokuqala ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Ingane ifunde ukuthabatha amathoyizi enezithupha kunye nesangaphambili.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-9-10

Abantwana kule minyaka baqala ukuphinda ukunyakaza kunye neendwangu zokubamba kwabazali. Oku kubonisa ukuba baphucule imemori ebonakalayo kunye nebonwayo, kwaye baqwalasela. Umntwana uyazi kakuhle utshintsho kwi-intonation yomntu omdala kwaye ngokufanelekileyo uyasabela ngokungafaniyo: ukukrakra, ukumangaliswa okanye ukuhleka.

Abantwana basabela kakuhle kwizicelo ezilula zabantu abadala, umzekelo, ukubonisa okanye ukunika into, ukubonisa apho iidodoli zinamehlo, impumlo, njl.

I-crumb iqala ukuqaphela okulungileyo nokungalunganga. Uyakhumbula oko umyalelo oqhelekileyo wezinto ubonakala ngathi. Ngoko ke, ukuba uphendule umshini, umntwana uzama ukuwujika ngendlela echanekileyo.

Kule minyaka, abantwana bathanda ukudlala ngezinto ezincinci, umzekelo, amaqhosha, umyili , iikhabhi, kwaye kunika umdla uvuyo ukukrazula izinto ngaphandle kweemigodi - iibhotile, ibhokisi, njl njl. Kwiinyanga ezili-9-10, abantwana abafana nalezo zixhobo ezingasetyenzwa, umzekelo, iipramramid elula. Ukudlala umsebenzi kule minyaka kuyahlukahluka: i-spoon umntwana uyakhonkqoza, ibhola ibhaqa, iincwadi zincwadi.

Ngomntwana sele usudinga ukudlala imidlalo yokuphuhlisa, ukuyifaka kwilizwe lezinto. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufihla into nge-napkin, umntwana wakhe uya kuvula kwaye ngokumangalisa uya kufumanisa ukuba into ayichangekanga naphi na. Iimidlalo ezinjalo zifihla kwaye zifuna umntwana azidlala ngokuzonwabisa, into efunyenweyo ibangela ukuba abe nemvakalelo enkulu. Inomdla kunye nokuphuhliswa kuya kuba yimidlalo yokukhutshwa okuzimeleyo kwezinto ezincinci kwi-ingxowa yeglasi, ingxowa yelinen, njl njl. Ngaloo ndlela, kwiimvuthu kukho ukuqonda kobudlelwane besifundo.

Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana abasakhulayo ngaphambi kwexesha

Ngokomyinge, umntwana osengumntwana usalandela emva kokuphuhliswa kwengqondo ukusuka kubantwana abaqhelekileyo kwiinyanga ezi-1-1.5 kwiinyanga ezili-9, kwaye ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wobomi bavame ukubambisana neontanga zabo. Kwisiqingatha se-1700-2000 amagremu, i-crumb ebudeni beminyaka eyi-9-10 ngokuzimeleyo iphakama, ibambelele kwisithintelo, ihlala phantsi, yenza izicelo ezimfutshane, idlala amathoyizi ixesha elide, iphinda iphinda iphinde ihlaziye izilwanyana. Ukuba umntwana usinda i-1500-1700 amagremu, ngoko ufunda izakhono ezifanayo kamva - kwiinyanga eziyi-9,5-12.

Emva kokuqwalasela oko umntwana akufanele akwazi ukukwenza kwiinyanga ezili-9, khumbula ukuba umntwana uya kuphucula ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza ekukhulumisaneni nabantu abadala. Ngoko nangoko uthetha naye, faka umdlalo wakhe, ncedise ukuba akaphumelelanga, kodwa ungayithathi nxaxheba kuye.