Ukudala iyunithi yentlalo, ngamnye wethu kufuneka aqonde ukuba le nyathelo ibandakanya ukubunjwa kwamalungelo athile, ngoko ke kufuneka imfuneko yokuzaliseka komsebenzi othile. Kwaye kuthinta wonke umntu - bobabini abazali kunye nabantwana babo.
Isiseko sokuvela kwamalungelo abantu, kunye nemisebenzi yabazali bobabini kunye nabantwana, ngumgaqo osisigxina (umgaqo-mthetho) kwimvelaphi yentsapho phakathi kwabo. Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba imisebenzi kunye namalungelo abazali ekukhulisweni, ukugcinwa kwabantwana, kunye namalungelo kunye neemfanelo zabantwana malunga nabazali babo zichazwe kwimithetho. Ngokomzekelo, eRussia umthetho onomsebenzi, amalungelo abazali, abantwana yiNkcazo yoMndeni. Kucacisiwe kwincwadi ekhankanywe ngayo kwaye abantwana basebancinini abaxinzelelwe nayiphi na imisebenzi.
Xanduva
Yintoni evumelekileyo kumntwana, kwiimeko ezininzi ngenxa kanina noyise-inembopheleleko ephuma ukusuka kunene. Ngokomzekelo, uMama noTata ngabantu abanikezwa ilungelo elikhethekileyo nelingenasimo sokukhulisa abantwana babo. Kwaye oku kusemsebenzini wabo. Umsebenzi womzali kukunyamekela impilo yengane, ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokomoya , ngokomoya nangokwengqondo. I-microclimate kwintsapho, ukondla okwaneleyo, umsebenzi owenziwe ngokwaneleyo, ukunakekelwa okwenyama okwaneleyo, ukunakekelwa kwonyango ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ukunakekelwa, ingqwalasela kwaye, ngokwenene, uthando-yiloo nto nganye umntwana okufanele azive ngayo. Kodwa umonakalo ophuhliso oluqhelekileyo kunye nempilo yabantwana iyahlawulwa.
Umntwana unelungelo lokufumana imfundo jikelele (eyisiseko) imfundo. Ngexesha elifanayo, unokuthatha inxaxheba (ukuba ufuna kunye nethuba) ekukhetheni iziko kunye nefomu efanelekileyo yokuqeqeshwa. Olunye uxanduva lokukhusela iimfuno kunye namalungelo abantwana. Akukho magunya akhethekileyo ayadingeka!
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umthetho weentsapho awukho mnye umgaqo-mthethweni olawula izibophelelo zabazali. Ngoko, amalungelo abantwana (okokuthi, imisebenzi yabazali babo) ihambelana nezindlu, kunye neenkalo zobuntu, ukhuseleko loluntu.
Amalungelo
Ukuba ukukhuliswa komntwana kuwumsebenzi, ngoko kukhetha naziphi na iindlela ezingaphikisani neminqweno kunye nomthetho, kunjalo, ilungelo labazali. Umama noTata bangcono kunokuba nabani na owaziyo umntwana wabo, ngoko banako ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Umgaqo ophambili ngowona nto iphambili kwiminqweno yabantwana. Ngaloo ndlela, urhulumente uthatha amanyathelo okujoliswe ekunikezeni konke uncedo lwabazali. Ngoko, urhulumente unikeza iziqinisekiso zokuba imfundo yezemfundo yasesekondari, jikelele kunye neyesibili iya kwamkelwa mahhala, ukuba amaziko asemthethweni okanye kamasipala. Nangona omnye wabazali ehlala ngokwahlukileyo, akukho mntu, ngaphandle kwenkundla, onokumnciphisa ilungelo lokuthetha, ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni, ukulungisa nayiphi na imiba ebalulekileyo malunga nomntwana. Ngako oko, izithintelo ezivela komnye umzali zivumelekile.
Xanduva
Abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba ukuhluleka ukwenza okanye ukungasebenzi ngokungafanelekanga kunokukhokelela kwintsapho-yomthetho,
Ngokumalunga nenani leemfanelo zokuxhasa abantwana, zibekwe kwisixa semali engenayo kunye nenani labantwana (25% enye, 30% kubini kunye ne-50% yabantwana abathathu okanye ngaphezulu). Kodwa imisebenzi ye - alimony yabantwana ichongiwe ngokwemntu ngamnye, ngokusekelwe kwintsapho, imeko yezinto eziphathekayo kwiimali ezizimeleyo (ezilungisiweyo). Ukuqinisekisa ukuba wena kunye nabantwana bakho akuze kudingeke ukuba nibhekane nalezi zibalo, phumeza imisebenzi yakho ngonembeza!