Ukongezelela, iimeko zihluke, kwaye imfuneko yokwenza okwesikhashana okanye ukushiya isigxina kumntwana kwiziko lezingane lingavela kubasetyhini abancinane. Ukunciphisa amathuba okwenza amacala kwaye ulondoloze ubomi beintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa, kwiintlobo ezininzi zeebhokisi zentsana ezikhethekileyo, okanye "iifestile zobomi" zixhotywe.
Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iifestile ezimele, ukuba zenzelwe ntoni, kwaye ziziphi iimeko ezikhoyo kuzo.
Yintoni ibhokisi lebhokisi?
Ibhokisi lebhokisi lincinci elincinci elisetyenziswe ngokusisiseko kwiziko lonyango lokushiya engachazwanga umntwana osandula. Ecaleni lesitalato, ivaliwe ngesango sensimbi-plastiki, kwaye kwigumbi ngqo phantsi kwalo kukho isikhalazo somntwana.
Ukuba ibhinqa elisanda kuyenza umntwana, ligqiba ukulilahla, liyakwazi ukuya "kwindwangu yobomi", uvule umnyango uze ubeke imvumba kwindawo ekhethekileyo. Emva koko, umnyango omncinci uvale ngokwawo kwaye uvale emva kwemizuzwana engama-30. Emva kolu xesha, umnyango awuyi kuvulwa ngaphandle, kwaye unina wengane akakwazi ukutshintsha isigqibo sakhe.
Ubuntwa-bhobho alugcinwa ngabani na, kwaye ukubonwa kwevidiyo kule festile akuqhutyelwa. Oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba unina, othanda ngokuzithandela umntwana, akayikwesaba ukugwetywa nokugwetywa. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba lo mfazi uya kukwazi ukuphepheka uxanduva kuphela xa ebeka umntwana "kwindwangu yobomi" kwindawo eyanelisayo. Ukuba, emzimbeni we-crumb, kukho iimpawu zokubetha okanye ukulimala komzimba, umama osandul 'ukwenziwa uya kufakwa uluhlu olufunwayo, kwaye ukuba uthe wafunyanwa, uya kuhlwaywa ngayo yonke inzima yomthetho.
Iingqungquthela kunye kunye neebhokisi zebhokisi
Ekubeni "iifestile zobomi" bevela kumaziko ahlukeneyo, iingxabano malunga nesidingo sezixhobo zabo aziyekanga. Abachasene neebhokisi zebhodi bayaqiniseka ukuba ibhinqa elikwazi ukubulala umntwana wayo okanye ukuliphonsa kwingxube ayikwazi ukufumana indlela ephucukileyo yokushiya i-crumb kuba ayifuni nje.
Abafazi abanjalo ukusuka kwinqanaba lokuqala lokubonakala kwentsana bafumana inzondo kunye nobudlova kuye kwaye bamlahla umntwana ngethuba lokuqala kulokhu. Abanye abesifazana abadidekile okanye bazifumene kwiimeko zobomi obunzima, ngokuchasene neebhokisi zebhokisi, banelungelo kunye nethuba lokushiya isibhedlele kwisibhedlele sokubeleka, kwaye abayidingi "iifestile zobomi" kule nto.
Nangona kunjalo, oogqirha, abasebenzi bezentlalo kunye namavolontiya abancedisa abantwana abangashiyi ngaphandle kokunyamekelwa kwabazali bakholelwa ukuba iibhokisi zebhokisi kufuneka zifakwe kuzo zonke iidolophu, ekubeni le sixhobo inamathuba amaninzi, oku:
- unina oshiya umntwana wakhe "kwindwangu yobomi" unelungelo lokungabonakali igama lakhe;
- le nkqubo ilula kakhulu. Umama omtsha akafunanga nto, ngaphandle kokubeka umntwana kumntu okhethekileyo;
- umfazi unokuqiniseka ukuba akayi kuba necala lokugweba;
- Inkqubo ikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo kumntwana. Emva kokuba esesidlangalaleni esikhethekileyo, ngokukhawuleza uwela ezandleni zogqirha abanolwazi;
- Ekugqibeleni, ukuba umama omncinci uyatshintsha ingqondo yakhe kwaye ufuna ukuthatha umntwana, unako ukwenza okokuba umntwana emkelwe. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yoko, umzali uya kufuneka afumane inkqubo ye-DNA.
Ngaba iibhokisi zebhodi zaseRashiya nase-Ukraine?
Nangona ukuba umthetho onabhokisi ebantwaneni awusavunywanga nguRhulumente waseRussia ne-Ukraine,
Iifestile ezifanayo zingatholakala eRashiya ngokokuqala ngqa kwi-Krasnodar Territory, kwaye namhlanje zifumaneka kwiindawo ezili-11 zelizwe. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba eMoscow naseSt. Petersburg kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana angashiyekanga kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukuphepha uxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho alukho.
E-Ukraine, ubhinqa lwebhokisi luhlelwe kuphela e-Odessa, kodwa kumaziko angamaziko angamayeza athile-e-Odessa Hospital Hospital No. 3 nase-Odessa Hospital Hospital No. 7. Ngaphandle kwezi zizwe, "iifestile zobomi" nazo ziyafumaneka kwamanye amazwe - eJamani, eLatvia naseCzechia kunye neJapan.