Kuza kudlula ixesha elifutshane kwaye uza kuqala ukuqonda kakuhle kakuhle, kodwa ngoku, unomdla wokuqonda ukuba umntwana uzele ubisi lwebele? Umbuzo, ekuboneni kuqala, unzima. Kodwa ukuba uyayiqonda, kuya kuba lula ukuzimisela.
Inyaniso yentsana enokwenza kakuhle
Kukho imigaqo emininzi elula yokuqonda ukuba umntwana unamabele, okanye akunjalo:
- I-crumb iyawa njenge "piyavochka enegazi."
- Emva kokuncelisa, umntwana kufuneka aziphose ngokwakhe. Njengomthetho, abantwana bahlala bezolile baze bathuke okanye balele.
- Isifuba somama kufuneka "singenanto".
- Ingane kufuneka ingadli kuphela ubisi lwangaphambili, kodwa kwakhona ingasemva. Kunzima kakhulu ukuyifumana, kodwa kunamafutha amaninzi kwaye okunomsoco.
- Umntwana akaceli isifuba kwaye angakwazi ukumelana ngokukhuselekileyo emva kweeyure ezintathu emva kokutya.
- Le ngongoma ebalulekileyo kwindlela yokujonga ukuba umntwana uyondla ubisi lwebele okanye cha. Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana kufuneka atywe emva kweeyure ezingama-3.5. Nangona kunjalo, lo mgaqo awusebenzi kwixesha leintsana, xa abantwana abaselula bahlala "baxhomeke" kwizifuba zabo ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuhlukana noMama. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana akayi kuthanda ukuzola kuzo zonke, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yokuba elambile, kodwa ngenxa yokuba akanakukhathazeka ngaphandle komama, kuba bodwa.
Ukuqonda ukuba umntwana uyadla nobisi lwebele, ezi zinto zingentla ziza kunceda. Ukuba zihlala zigcinwe, ngoko sinokutsho ngokuphepha ukuba umntwana uyadla.
Ngokwahlukileyo, ndifuna ukwabela iintsana ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbini, ezinokuthi zibe ne-colic esiswini. Bangafaka isicelo sebele lomama ngaphandle kwemida. Ukuba khona kumama kwizandla okanye ngesandla kwaye ngaloo ndlela, ukutya ubisi lwebele, akugcini nje ukucima okanye ukuphefumula, kodwa kunceda okanye kunceda isisu okanye isisu ukuba ungagula.
Kutheni umntwana elambile?
Indlela yokuqonda ukuba umntwana akayidli, umbuzo awunzima. Umntwana olambileyo uya kucela ukuba adle kaninzi - ngemizuzu engama-30. Le nto inokuba neenkcazelo ezininzi: ivila ukunyamezela kakuhle ibele yakho okanye awunalo ubisi olunobisi obaneleyo. Ngesizathu sokuqala sokuqonda okunzima. Udinga ukwenza umntwana adle. Ukuba umntwana wakho olele okanye engafuni ukusebenza, ukufumana ukutya - vuse, uphuse phantsi ukuze uzele. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba kuya kuxhoma kule ndawo, njengoko iya kuqhubeka ikhula kwaye ikhule. Isizathu sesibini sibonisa ukuba omama abangadli iikhalori kakhulu okanye bahlala ngokutya.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuyondla umntwana ngesifuba, jonga ukutshatyalaliswa nokutya kwibhotile. Mhlawumbi inyaniso yokuba kuya kuba nomngcipheko omkhulu kwi-ingono kwaye awuyi kufuneka ukusebenzisa umgudu omkhulu, njengokuncelisa, uya kukwazi ukunondla imvumba. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, oku kungcono kunokuba unike umntwana usana lokutya.
Ngoko, ukuqonda ukuba umntwana uzele, nokuba ngumsebenzi wakhe okanye nokuba uxhasa ubunzima bokufumana ubunzima obuqhelekileyo obunobungakanani beminyaka yakhe. Kwaye ukuba i-crumb ayidli, kufuneka wenze yonke imizamo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuncelisa ibele kuthatha ubuncinane iinyanga ezintandathu.