Bonke abajikelezileyo baphila kwaye banandipha ubomi. "Ummelwane uphinde wanyusa indawo yemoto, lowo owayesandula naye esikolweni naye uyonwabile emtshatweni, umqeshwa uya kuhlala kwiindawo zokuhlala ezibiza kakhulu." Kodwa ngaba ndihlala ndigula? "- ngaba uhlala ufumana iingcamango ezinjalo? Ukuba impendulo ilungile, ke ingxaki ikhona kwaye kufuneka ikulwe nayo. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba akusiyo imali engenasigxina yemali, umyeni oxakekileyo ngonaphakade okanye abantwana - abagugu, kodwa ngaphakathi kwakho. Ukuze utshintshe ubomi bakho kufuneka utshintshe ukuzazi kwakho.
Iindlela zokwenza isiphakamiso sokuzenzekelayo
- Ewe, ukuqala ubomi obutsha kuyimfuneko ngezinto ezintle. Ngako oko, zityhalale indebe yakho oyithandayo, ikhofi ekhuthazayo, thabatha ipeni, iphepha kunye nokurekhoda imizuzu eyi-10, ukurekhoda zonke iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo. Ayikwazi ukukhumbula? Ewe, njani, kunye nenja eyondliwe nguwe, awuzange uyidle ngokusuka kububele bakho obungaphakathi? Okanye ukuzinikezela kwakho: njani usebenze, xa abanye abantu ababini bathi bangesithuba sakho esitsha, nina nonke babenamathela ebhanti. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ucamngca, khumbula izinto ezininzi ezintle, ezilibalekile ngokupheleleyo. Ukuzibonakalisa komntu umntu usebenza ngokumangalisayo, ngoko funda isicatshulwa esilungileyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye uqaphele ukuba kukho okuhle kuwe kunokuba kubi.
- Cinga ngento ekuthetha ngayo ukuba uphumelele. Mhlawumbi le yintsapho efanelekileyo, okanye impumelelo endlwini, mhlawumbi zombini. Ngoku makhe siqale isifundo somdwebo. Kwiphepha elikhulu iphepha, yenza iphupha lakho. Makube mhlophe kwaye imbala: imoto entsha, uphumle phantsi kwesundu, umyeni onothando nabantwana. Awazi ukuba ungadala njani? Musa ukukhathazeka, unqumle amaphupha ambala kumaphephancwadi uze uwafake kwiphepha. Sifaka ikholaji kunye nephupha lakho kwindawo evelele kakhulu kwaye
Njalo ekuseni siyamthanda kwaye sizama ukufezekisa iphupha lakhe. - Indlela elandelayo yi-spell. Ngenyameko khetha iilwimi zokuzenzekelayo. Akufuneki ukuba, amagama onke aqhelekileyo: "Ndingumnqweno ..." Cinga into ethile. Ewe ngokwenene uzifumene ngeempawu ezilishumi ezilungileyo, apha uze uzikhulume. Yenza okufanayo ngamaphupha akho eqoqwe kwiphepha, uthi kubo: "Ndifuna imoto entsha kwaye ekupheleni konyaka ndiya kuwufumana, njl njl
Phinda ulolu hlobo usuku ngalunye kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuzithiba kwakho okuzenzekelayo kuza kuvelisa iziqhamo. Kodwa khumbula omnye umthetho obaluleke kakhulu ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho, awufuni ukwenza okungakumbi - kufuneka uyenze. Akukho isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo siya kukunceda ukuba utshintshe ubomi bakho bube ngcono, de kube yinkxaso ngezenzo.