Ukuvuswa kwangaphambili ngabantu abambalwa kakhulu. Nangona abantu abadala abakwazi ukukhusela iimvakalelo kunye nokukhathazeka, ukuba yonke imihla kufuneka bavuke, kungekhona ukusa, bengazibali ukuthetha ngabantwana ... Bambalwa kubazali abavusa ukuvusa abantwana kusasa, kungekhona ngokuziqhayisa ngokwabo kunye neengxaki zabantwana. Ngokuphathelele ukuvusa umntwana kusasa, siza kuthetha kule nqaku. Siza kuxubusha na matyala xa ubuthongo obuthile buntwanyana bubaluleke ngakumbi kunamacala acetywayo kwaye uya kuzama ukufumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukuvusa umntwana ngokutya, ukuhlamba, ukudibana nezihlobo, njl.
Indlela yokuvusa kakuhle umntwana esikolweni okanye enkulisa?
Ephupheni, umsebenzi wezo zonke izitho zinciphisa, isingqimba somsebenzi wengqondo ihluke kunokuba xa uvuka, oku kuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuvusa imizuzwana emininzi "kwindawo yokusebenza". Musa ukufuna umntwana ukuba axhomekeke ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuphunyezwa ngokucacileyo yonke imiyalelo yakho emva kokuvuswa.
Awukwazi ukuvusa umntwana ekuseni:
- ngokukhawuleza kuquka ukukhanya;
- ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza okanye ukukhamuluka, ukuguqula ngokumangalisayo umculo womsindo;
- ukukrazula ingubo okanye ukuhlutha umlotha;
- uthetha ngamagama amabakala, ngetoni ehlelekile, ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza;
- bamba ezinyaweni zakho, gubha ngamandla;
- ukufefa ngamanzi.
Zonke ezi zinto zikhankanywe ngasentla ziya kunika umphumo omnye - imvakalelo embi, usuku olubiweyo, inzondo kunye nokuxabana ukususela ekuseni. Vumelana, kungekhona ukuqala kokuqala kosuku.
Abanye abazali abavuki abantwana baze bafumane umzuzu wokugqibela, bachaza le ndlela yokuziphatha ngovelwano, umnqweno wokuba abantwana balele ngenye imizuzu eyi-10-20. Kubonakala ngathi kule nto embi, kodwa, njengokuba uyazi, unenjongo enhle ... Ngaloo nto, abantwana abanalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuvusa ngokwenene, bagqoke badle ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kaninzi ngenxa yokuba "ukumba" kukho iingxabano. Nangona empeleni ukuphepha iingxaki zolu hlobo kulula. Ngaba ufuna abantwana bakho balele kancinane? Beka ukuba balale embhedeni, kodwa kusasa, vuseni kusasa, kwindawo ethile kwisiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kokushiya ikhaya (okanye nangaphambili, kufuneka uhlolisise ixesha apho abantwana bakho bafuna ukulala khona imizuzu emi-5-10 emva kokuvusa, ukulula kunye nokuqokelela ngaphandle ukukhawuleza nokuqhuba).
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo: ukulala eholide. Uninzi ukungaqiniseki ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuvusa umntwana kusasa ngexesha leeholide okanye kungcono ukumnika ithuba lokulala ngexesha eliyimfuneko. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokulungiselela ukuba umntwana wakho abe yinkqubo yexesha eliphumayo lonke lekhefu, kodwa iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuqala kwemfundo, ngokukhawuleza ubuyele ekukhuphukeni kwangoko.
Ukuvusa umntwana?
Umxholo we-infant's sleep regime uhlala uthatha abazali abancinci. Ukuvusa umntwana omncinci kakhulu, ingaba kuyimfuneko ukuvusa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kusasa okanye amvumele ukuba alele ngokude nje ngokuba ufuna (kuba akafanele ukuba aphumelele esikolweni okanye enkulisa, kwaye unokudlala ekhaya kunye nonina okanye nannyiphi na ixesha), nokuba avuse umntwana ukuba ahlambe kwaye ukondla, ukuba ulele okanye ahambe kwinkqubo ngelixesha eliphazamisayo, - nganye intsapho ineempendulo zayo kule mibuzo.
Ngenyanga yokuqala yobomi, abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka bavuswe ukunyusa. Kule minyaka akukho mda ocacileyo ocacileyo phakathi kokulala nokuvuka, kodwa ixesha lokulala lichazwe ngokucacileyo. Kungoko, ngaphambi kokuvuswa