Ukukhula kunye nokuphuhlisa, abantwana bethu bafunda into emitsha imihla ngemihla benze imimangaliso. Maxa wambi ama-pranksters amancinci angena kwi-stupor kwaye ayethusa abazali, eqala ukwenza izenzo ezingaqondakali kubantu abadala. Ingxaki eqhelekileyo kubazali abaneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala kukuba umntwana wabo unqumla intloko yakhe eludongeni okanye kumgangatho. Kule meko, ungakhathazeki uze ube neentlanzi, ukuya kwi-20% yabantwana beli minyaka banomkhwa, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela kubafana.
Kutheni umntwana emshaya intloko?
Emva kokubona umntwana, ukuba ufumene oko kulandelwa le nyathelo, uya kuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana abethe intloko yakhe.
Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uxolo, umzekelo, ngaphambi kokulala. Ukuguquka okungafaniyo, izandi zesiganeko okanye izenzo ukususela ekuzalweni zidibaniswa naye ngoxolo kunye nentuthuzelo. Khumbula indlela owagubungela ngayo umntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa, ecula i-lullaby okanye ukubiza "ah-ah-ah, ah-ah." Ngoko, umntwana uzama ukubuyela kwindawo leyo yokuphumla kunye nobudlelwane kunye nonina. Mkele ummangaliso wakho, umculele i-lullaby, funda incwadi okanye uthetha nje - umntwana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba wena uyintanda, uyilindelwe ixesha elide kwaye loo mama uya kuhlala ekhona.
Umntwana uvame ukubetha intloko ngenxa yokungalindelekanga kubazali. Sonke siphuthuma kwindawo ethile, siphuthuma ukulungisa izinto ezininzi, ukulibala malunga nendoda yethu encinane. Ngoko ke, uqobo luzama ukukuxelela: "Mama, ndilapha!" Qaphela, dlala nam! ".
Oku kuziphatha komntwana kusenokucaciswa ngetama lokuzidela ukusuka kwintlungu engathandekiyo, umzekelo, intlungu kunye nesifo. Uvakalelwa kukungahambi kakuhle kwaye ungenamandla, uzama ukutshintsha enye into.
Esinye sezizathu eziqhelekileyo ukuba kutheni umntwana ebetha intloko yakhe eludongeni okanye kwisantya kubonisa umsindo nomsindo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kusabela kumyalelo wokuthintela abazali. Ingane izama nje ukukuphatha, icinga ukuba ngokumxolela, uMama noTata baya kuncika kuye. Ndiyakumcebisa ukuba ukuhlaselwa okunjalo kungamnquli, okokuqala, kusenokwenzeka ukuba, kususa izinto eziyingozi kwindawo yokuqwalasela i-prankster.
Ukucaphula, ndithi-thanda abantwana bakho, babelane nabo, badlale, bathethe. Izingane zethu azidinga ukunakekelwa kwansuku zonke kunye nokutya, kodwa ngokunjalo nothando olungapheliyo, ukunyamekela kunye neengqalelo kubazali babo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ewela phantsi aze athande intloko, ingaba yinto encinci?