Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubomi bomfazi bukhula njani, kodwa ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo, indawo yayo isekhaya, kwaye inkxalabo ebalulekileyo yintsapho . Xa sele esatshatile, umfazi, engazange aphile ixesha lokuvuka, ufumana ibhonasi "wokuqala" umntwana - umyeni wakhe. Emva koko, kuxhomekeka kumfazi, nokuba umyeni uya kuphumelela, ukuba uya kuthwala njani, yintoni eya kuba yimpilo yakhe, isimo sengqondo, inhlanhla. Intsimi yowesifazane ungaphakathi, amadoda angaphandle. Ngoko ke, imozulu endlwini iyaxhomekeka kuphela kumfazi.
Ngako oko, umthandazo womfazi ngomyeni wakhe unamandla njengomthandazo womama kumntwana, emva koko, zombini, onamandla kunayo yonke, ekhuphayo, engokomoya, isikhalazo kuThixo.
Kodwa siza kuqala ngokufanayo kunye na matyala xa umntu ongatshata athandazela umyeni. Oko kukuthi, ngemithandazo efundwayo ukufumana indoda enhle.
Ukufumana isiqingatha sesibini
Umthandazo onobuOthodoki onamandla kakhulu ngomyeni uyisibheno kwiTheotokos phambi kwe icon "Umbala ongapheliyo". Ngokukhawuleza uxwayise ukuba ayikwazi ukusetyenziswa ukunyenga amadoda athile emakhaya abo. Ndikholelwe, uMama kaThixo uza kukunceda udibana nomntu okhululekileyo.
Lo mthandazo usetyenziselwa unyango lweziluthiso zothando (xa umthandi akakwazi ukuphula uxhumano nomntu otshatileyo), ukuxolelwa kwezono, inhlanhla ngothando, uncedo ekufumaneni iqabane, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, isipho sokwenene, uthando oluqaqambileyo. Simele siqonde ukuba nangona siphendukela kwiTheotokos, akusiyo lowo ozalisekisa isicelo sethu, kodwa iNkosi uThixo, ngokuba uMama kaThixo, njengonina, unxusele phambi kukaThixo aze amcele ukuba ancede.
Umthandazo kwimpilo yomyeni wakhe
Ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke into eyenziwa ngumfazi xa umyeni wakhe egula, kwaye akanako ukukunceda ukugqiba isigqibo sesifo, kukuthandazela imini nobusuku bomyeni wakhe. Umbuzo uwukuba ngubani?
Obuchwephesha, njengokuba kuhlekisa abantu bexesha, oogqirha uKosma noDamian baphatha izigulana ngekhululekile, bengamkeli ukuhlawula okanye izipho. INkosi yathi: "Ndifumene isipho samahhala - ndinike ngokukhululeka." Yingakho baba ngcwele. Ukongezelela, umthandazo kaCosme noDamian unceda ukuphilisa lowo uthandaza ngawo, uphinde ube negalelo ekulondolozeni ukunyaniseka komtshato, kwaye kunceda ukuzisa uthando , ukuvisisana nokuqonda phakathi kwendlu.
Umthandazo ngomyeni endleleni
Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bathambekele ekubeni namava kunye nokunyanisela. Emva koko, nangona sikholwa namadoda ethu njengathi ngokwethu kwaye singaqiniseki ukunyaniseka kwabo kude nekhaya, siqala ukungazidibanisi "iimeko" ngokucacileyo ukuba kukho into eyoyikisayo eyenzeka kumyeni wakho othandekayo, akayi kuthatha ifowuni kunye okokuqala.
Ngoko ke, ukuthandazela umyeni kungekhona nje kunokufaka isandla ekubuyeleni okupheleleyo kwesiqingatha sasekhaya, kodwa kunokukunceda ngexesha lokukhathazeka okukhulu komfazi wakhe ukufumana uxolo kunye nokuzithemba ukuba yonke into iyintando kaThixo.
