Iingcamango ezenza izinto zokusika zihlala ziphazamisayo kwaye zizaliswe ingozi kumntu, ingakumbi xa zihlaselwa ngommese. Ukuba ubheka incwadi yephupha, ummese ngamaphupha unokutshilwa kungekhona nje ingozi - konke kuxhomekeke kwiimpawu ezibalulekileyo ukuthobela ingqalelo.
Iphupha liliphi iphupha?
Ukutola ubuthongo ngekrele kufuneka kuqalwe ngolu hlobo: luyintoni ejikeleze abantu, ukulandelela iimvakalelo zabo ngeli xesha xa umntu ebonakala ngesandla ezandleni zakhe, okanye lowo uphuphayo ubamba iqela, ngoko le nto yayisandleni sakhe. Ukuba kukuhlaselwa kwephupha kunye negazi, yintoni eyandulela le ngqungquthela yomcimbi. Yonke into ibalulekile. Ukuba ngexesha lokuvusa ingxaki yokuxhalaba , mhlawumbi ingqondo engacingiyo iyazama ukusixwayisa malunga nesidingo sokuthobela ingqalelo kwiindawo ezikuyo.
Kutheni ihlasela ummese?
Xa uhlalutya iphupha lokuhlaselwa, ingongoma elandelayo ibalulekile: ummese ephupheni wayesehlokweni lomphuphi okanye ukuhlaselwa kuye ngomnye umntu. Utshintsho lwelophupha:
- Ukuba bahlasela umntu olele, uthembisa utshintsho kubomi babo;
- ngeqebha ehlaselwa ngumntu oqhelekileyo kwimeko - umphuphi uyahamba emgceni wecandelo elivumelekileyo (kwi-blade yelitye);
- Ukuba umntu olele ephupheni uhlasela umntu - ngexesha elifutshane unokukwenza isenzo esingenakusobala, apho uya kugwetyelwa khona, okanye abonise iimpawu ezingabonakaliyo zobuntu bakhe;
- ngenxa yowesifazane, intshutshiso nokuhlaselwa komntu onesandla - intlanganiso ezayo kunye nomthandi oqinileyo;
- I-Dream Book ngo-Freud - Ikrele esandleni somhlaseli-isimboli sepallic esichaza ngokusondelelana ngokwesondo kunye nalowo obona iphupha;
- Ukuba ukhangeleka kwincwadi yencwadi yokuphupha - ummese, oqhotyoshelwe emqaleni xa uhlaselwa, uphathwa njengokonyulwa kwamanye amabango.
Kutheni i-knife isemva?
Umva womntu yindawo ekhuselekileyo, ngoko nayiphi na incwadi yephupha enomkhwa ngasemva, ngelixa iphupha liguqulela njengento engathandekiyo:
- ukuba omnye wabahlobo uhlasele, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kubantu abavela kwimeko yakho, kwikamva elikufutshane omnye wabo "unokubeka ingulube", umhlobo unokungcatsha;
- ukubetha emva - ukuvela kweengxaki ezingalindelekanga;
- amaphupha amaphupha omntu ombethayo emva - enyanisweni uya kulwa nokungaboni ngaso lentsapho, inzondo yabantu abanomona;
- Umphuphi ngokwakhe uhlasela abanye ngeqebunga ukusuka emva-isenzo esiphantsi malunga nomntu ovela kunye naye okanye othandekayo;
- I-dreambook kwijezi likaDanilova emva ekuthandeni ekuqaleni njengento ekhuselekileyo: isimemo kwiqela, kodwa ukungabikho komlinganiselo wokuya kweziganeko ezinjalo kuya kubachaphazela impilo.
Kutheni ufuna ukuphucula umlenze?
Iimpawu zokuzibamba endlwini - uphawu lokuba akukho mntu kuyo, ngoko kwakubonwa njengdala. Yintoni engayichaza iphupha libukhali isela kwiphupha:
- Ukuba ukhangeleka kwincwadi yencwadi yephupha, ummese uhlakulele - kwingcamango yebibi;
- xa ukugawula isamba isangqa semoya sisetyenzisiweyo - ukuba ibhinqa elinjalo iphupha lithembisa iimeko ezininzi eziwileyo, apho angakwazi ukuhlangabezana nayo yodwa;
- ukuba umntu ahlaziye ijezi ukwenza izinto zokuzilolonga okanye ukujongana nokuthambekela okungalunganga kunye nomdla;
- kwincwadi yephupha ehlobo, ukuqinisa i-knife presage apho umphuphi uya kufuna ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lokungcola okanye ukwenza into embi;
- Incwadi yephupha ye-Oracles iphatha iphupha apho indoda ibukhali isela, kangangokuba okwangoku iphupha ligcwele iingcamango ezimbi ngenxa yecala elenzile kuye kwaye ucinga izicwangciso zokuphindezela.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukubulala umntu ngomsi?
Ukubetha ephupheni kuthwala umthwalo we-semantic ohlukeneyo, konke kuxhomekeka kwiimeko, ngamanye amaxesha ukuzithoba kukuzama ukulahla ubudlelwane obunzima, iingcamango okanye izenzo ezingento. Ezinye iinguqulelo zobuthongo:
- incwadi ephuphayo yephupho ukubulala umntu ngeqebunga, iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukukhwabanisa ngokukodwa kwenzelwa umntu olwaphuphayo;
- kubonakala ngathi, yintoni into yokuzibulala ukuze uzibulale ephupheni ngoncedo lwesandla, kodwa iphupha elinjalo lingabonisa ulonwabo okanye umnqweno onqwenelekayo wothando;
- Ukubulala ephupheni ngekrele labangaboniyo okanye abakhuphisanayo bathembisa ukunqoba kwinyani;
- ukulala ukubulala umntu ngegazi, iingqondo zeengqondo zichazwa njengengqiniseko kunye nobunzima beli phupha eliphuphayo;
- Incwadi yephupha ngokubhekiselele kuFrud iguqulela ukubulawa komntu onomese, njengesimboli sokuphela kobudlelwane obungapheliyo apho kufuneka kuvezwe le ngongoma.
Kutheni ufuna ukufumana umsi?
Umkhwa ephupheni unokusebenza njenge-artifact, ingakumbi umthi omdala kunye nokufumana into enjalo kunokuthetha ukufumana amandla. Xa uguqulela iphupha, kubalulekile ukunyamekela ukuba luhlobo luni lomsikazi kwaye yintoni iimvavanyo ezavavanywa ekufunyaneni, yintoni eyayiyiyo - ukwesaba, ukuphazamiseka okanye ukunyaniseka? Fumana umsi kwiphupha - ukutolika okuhlukeneyo:
- I-Dream Book ethi Felomeny ixoxa malunga nephupha elinjalo ukuba umhlobo ocingayo uza kubonakala ebomini bomntu, kodwa ngokwenene kuya kuba ngumzenzisi kwaye kufuneka uqaphele abaqhelana nabo;
- incwadi yamaphupha endala - ukufumana isela, uxwayisa ukuba imfihlelo ephathiswe kumphuphi kufuneka ihlale ilondolozwe ngokucophelela, akukho mntu unokusingqongileyo.
Yintoni iphupha lomsikazi ophukileyo?
Kulo phupha kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele iinkcukacha zokuphazamiseka, yintoni ephukile i-blade okanye ukuphatha, yiziphi iimeko ezaphambi kokuphuka kweela? Ukususela kule miba imibala epheleleyo yephupha. Yilokho iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha ezikushoyo ngekrele eliphukile:
- ukuphupha uMiller - ukubona kwiphupha umsi onomphulo ophukileyo, unokubonisa ukugula kwangaphambili okanye imeko ebuhlungu;
- ukuwa kwethemba kunye namaphupha;
- ukulungisa isicu esiqhekekileyo sithembisa ukubuyisela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomhlobo omdala;
- ukuba iqela lokuzingela liphukile - kumava ngenxa yokulindela okulindelekileyo, igumbi lokudlela - ukuxabana nezihlobo;
- ephupha ngokunika i-knife ephukile - umntu ophuphayo akayithandanga igunya phakathi kwabanye ngenxa yesimo sengqondo esinobudlova nesantlonipho ebantwini;
- Ukuba umntu ephupheni unikela umntu i-knife ephukile-isimo sakhe sengqondo kulo mntu kubandakanya ukudibana kunye nomngeni kwimpikiswano.
Kutheni uphupha ezininzi zeemingxube?
Iimpawu ezininzi njengesipho ephupheni ziya kukukholisa umqokeleli wensimbi ebandayo, abanye abantu ekuvuseni iphupha elinjalo liphakamisa imibuzo emininzi. Iincwadi zephupha zehlabathi ziguqulela iphupha, apho zininzi izitovu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo:
- incwadi yokuphupha i-gypsy - kwiphupha, imimese kwiininzi ezininzi zibonisa ukuba zenza ubundlobongela kwaye zibiza ukuziphatha ngokucophelela kwizenzo namagama;
- ukufumana njengemikhono yesipho - ukukhohlisa nokukhohlisa komnye umntu;
- ukubona amaqhina osisiphukuphuku - ukuxhalabisa abathandekayo;
- unike isethi yamacwecwe kumntu ukuze ahlukane okanye aphikisane nomnye lowo isipho esenzelwe yona;
- Iimvumba, ngokungaqhelekanga zilele emlonyeni omnye - intukuthelo, leyo umphuphi uya kuziva ngexesha elizayo ngenxa yokuxabana;
- ukuba ibhinqa elininzi iimbombo ephupheni liqikelele izilingo, emva koko, uzibeka kwimiphumo eyingozi.
Kutheni iphupha lokusika inyama eluhlaza ngommese?
Ukupheka yinkqubo yendalo yemihla ngemihla, kodwa ukuba iyaqondakala ngokwenene, ngoko kwiphupha ingaba ngumqondiso okanye i-omen yento ethile, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abo baphupha kule nkqubo banemibuzo, iphupha lokunquma inyama eluhlaza ngommese-ingabe iyayithanda okanye ayikho? Iingoma zichaza ezi zilandelayo:
- nguMiller, ukusika inyama entsha-ukungabi nantoni, kwimigudu engekho;
- UVanga ebhokisini lakhe lephupha uyalumkisa ngeengxaki zempilo ezinzulu kumntu obamba inyama ephupheni, kwaye ukuba lo ngumkhwa onotye - akukho pheko;
- Umtoliki weJuno uguqulela iphupha apho umntu esika inyama eluhlaza ngommese obukhali ngendlela efanelekileyo yempilo, indlela yakhe yeethambo isomelele kwaye iqinile;
- ukuba abeshishini banqume inyama eluhlaza kwiphupha - uphawu lokuphumelela kweshishini;
- ukuba ibhinqa elinjalo iphupha libonisa ukuba empilweni yakhe iinguqu ezintle ziza kufakwa.
Kutheni icazi ephupha igazi?
Amaphupha ngegazi awananto, ngenxa yokuba igazi liphulaphuli ingqibelelo yesibhakabhaka somntu, kwaye ukuba igazi kwizinto ezinjengomkhwa, ke kukho imibuzo malunga noko kwenzeke, igazi layo liyi-ukuphendula kwabo unokuhlalutya ubuthongo. Iphupha liphathwa njani, apho isela lihlambulukile egazini:
- Incwadi iphupha yaseFransi ibhentshi egazini lichazela ngokulula kwaye ngokuqondakalayo - intsapho ixabana ngenxa yephulo lokulala ngexesha elizayo;
- UMiller uqikelela ukulahlekelwa kwemali okanye ukuhlukaniswa kwexesha elide kunye nendoda enendleko;
- ibinza elinesibindi egazini - ukunganeliseki ubomi bentsapho;
- Igazi eligacekileyo ngumsebenzi wobugcisa - ebomini bomntu olalayo uya kubonakala engumntu onamandla obuncedo;
- igazi egazini lomfazi owaphosa umthandi-eneneni, ekupheleni kwesiganeko esinobudlelwane.
Yintoni isela esandleni sakhe iphupha?
Ukulala - isandla esandleni sinobuchule kakhulu ekuchazeni i-state, iingcamango, isimo sengqondo somphuphi, singabonisa iingxaki ezibalulekileyo kweli xesha lihlushwa kwaye lifuna impendulo okanye isisombululo esinokwenzeka. Ziziphi iziganeko ngokwenene ukuba isela esandleni sakhe siphupha:
- Ukuba ukhangele incwadi yephupha yowesifazane, umsikazi olele ebhinqileyo, uthetha ngeengxaki kunye neengxaki ezinxulumene nentsapho;
- ukugcina nokumthanda ummese ocijiweyo-ukuthotyelwa kwesigqibo esibalulekileyo esichaphazela abanye;
- ummese ngomtya omde-uvavanyo oluya kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa engalunganga , eya kuba nzima ukuyenza;
- ukudlala ephupheni ngeqebunga-umsindo entliziyweni kunye nomnqweno wokuziphindezela;
- umntu amaphupha ukuba unomkhwa omkhulu okanye ikrele esandleni sakhe, kwaye uhamba naye-impumelelo kwisiganeko esiyingozi, esichengeni.
Kutheni uphupha ukuthenga umsi?
Igazi liyi-archetype yamandla kunye namandla, kwaye amaphupha okuthenga esi sixhobo afanekisela umnqweno wobukhosi kunye nokulawula phezu komntu othile okanye iqela labantu. Yintoni onokuyiqonda yona ukuba uphupha umkhwa:
- Iinguqulelo zephupha uFelomeny uphatha iphupha ngokuthenga isela njengomnqweno kunye nokuthambekela kwemvelo komntu ukulawula;
- ukuthenga ummese wokuhlobisa ngemigangatho eyalwe kuyo-umnqweno wokulawula yonke into nayo yonke into;
- kwincwadi yephupha lika-Amedeya - ukuthenga ummese, ukuvuswa kwesenzo esingathandekiyo kumntu olele;
- U-Miss Hasse uguqulela iphupha lokuthenga isela kakuhle - umphuphi ngaphandle kwengxaki ekhethekileyo uya kufumana ilifa ngenxa yakhe.