Ngoxa uncedo lwengqondo umntu ubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo ngomnye umntu, into, into, isiganeko. Kwaye ekubeni ubuhlobo buhle kwaye bubi, ngoko iimvakalelo zizalwa zilungile kwaye zibi. Ukuba nemvakalelo emihle abantu banesimo sengqondo esihle ngakumbi kunokuba bangaboni. Kuhle xa umntu ehleka, evuya, ubonisa isimo sengqondo esifudumele kumntu. Kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisayo isimo sengqondo sichasene, ngoko ke kuluntu lwamkelwe ukuba lingabonakali isimo sengqondo esibi. Nangona kunjalo, iimvakalelo ezimbi zisinceda siziqonde kakuhle thina nabanye abantu. Ngoncedo lwabo, iingqondo zibonakalisa ukuba akunakukhathazeka kwaye kubalulekile ukuthatha amanyathelo okutshintsha imeko.
Nangona kunjalo, nangona iimvakalelo ezinemibala ezimbi ziyimfuneko kuthi, kukho ezininzi iimeko apho zingaphazamisana nomntu onobungozi kunye nabanye.
Umqobo weemvakalelo ezimbi
Enye yezithintelo zokuthintela ukunxibelelana ngempumelelo yintsilelo yeemvakalelo ezintle. Kwenzeka kwiimeko apho umntu aziva ephazamiseka, ephazamisa ukunyaniseka, ephazamisa ukuqonda kunye nokukhuthaza umntu ukuba agweme ukunxibelelana.
Kukho imiqobo yokuphazamiseka kwemizwa:
- Isithintelo sokwesaba.
- Umqobo weentlungu okanye intlungu.
- Umqobo womsindo.
- Umqobo wokunyaniseka.
- Umqobo weentloni (ityala).
- Umqobo wokungcikiva.
- Umqobo wendawo.
Indlela yokulahla iimvakalelo ezimbi?
Impembelelo yeemvakalelo ezimbi kwimpilo yabantu iyaziwa nakwixesha leBhayibhile. Abantu bamandulo babesazi ukuba umoya okhohlakeleyo ubangela izifo, kwaye intliziyo evuyayo inokusebenza njengamayeza. Izifundo zanamhlanje ziqinisekisile ukubonwa kookhokho bethu kwaye zibonisa ukuba ukuhlala ixesha elide lomntu kwisimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo kubangela ukuphulwa okunjalo kumsebenzi womzimba:
- izifo zesimo senhliziyo;
- kulala;
- ukulahleka kwesidlo;
- ukuhluleka kwehomoni;
- ukunciphisa ukukhuselwa komzimba;
- ukuphazamiseka komsebenzi weenkqubo zokuqonda.
Iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcebiso ezilandelayo ukuba zilahle njani iimvakalelo ezimbi:
- Ngakumbi ukunyamekela okulungileyo: abantu abanethemba, imibukiso yeTV, ii-movie ezihlekisayo.
- Sebenzisa ukucamngca okujoliswe kukufumana ukuvisisana nehlabathi kunye nawe.
- Funda ukufumana uncedo kuyo nayiphi na imeko.
- Gcina idayari yolonwabo apho ubhala khona iimeko ezilungileyo kakhulu zomhla.
- Yenza izinto ozithandayo.
- Yenza imidlalo okanye udansa.