Abantu bethu bakude bakholelwa kwiimpawu. Kwaye, ukuba ubomi obuqhelekileyo bucingwa ngokwaneleyo, ngoko, ngokuphathelele umfazi okhulelwe, ngokuqinisekileyo - idini elinesibini. Kungekudala ndafunda ukuba umfazi okhulelwe akanako ukuya emangcwabeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uqonde, ubuncinane ukucima umphefumlo, kuba "igolide isuswa emhlabeni, nolwazi-oluvela kwincwadi." Kwaye yile nto esiyikwazi ukuyifumana.
1. Ukukhulelwa kunye namangcwaba ngokwefilosofi. Ukukhulelwa kuhlala kuhambelana nokuqala kobomi obutsha. Amangcwaba, ngokuchaseneyo, uthathwa njengesibonakaliso esithile sokuphela kobomi. Ukuchasene kwezi ngqiqo kwaye kunika ukungathandabuzeki malunga nokuba khona emngcwabeni ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Umjikelo wobomi usoloko uhamba kunye nokuzalwa nokufa, oku akutshintshi, kwaye umfazi ogqoke ubomi obutsha ngandlela-thile akajongi kumangcwaba apho ubomi bobanye abantu buphela.
2. Umbono wecawa malunga nokuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo baye emangcwabeni nasemngcwabeni. Abakhonzi becawa bakholelwa ukuba ukuvakashela amangcwaba nokukhumbula abafileyo ngumthwalo wethu ebomini. Kwaye kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko kubo bonke abantu, kuquka nabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Bakholelwa ukuba iNkosi uThixo ithumela intsikelelo yakhe kubantu abo abangazilibali izihlobo zabo ezifileyo, ookhokho babo. Kodwa kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba kuyimfuneko ukwenza oku entliziyweni entliziyweni, kungekhona ngokunyanzelisa. Xa umfazi okhulelweyo engayiva kakuhle, musa ukuya emangcwabeni, kungcono ukuhlehlisa uhambo olunye usuku.
3. Iingcamango zengqondo, kuba kutheni abafazi abakhulelweyo abakwazi ukuya emangcwabeni. Inkolelo enjengokukhulelwa, amangcwaba kunye nomngcwabo usenokuchazwa ngolwimi lwesayensi. Oogqirha bakhumbuza, ukuba nayiphina imvakalelo ephazamisayo ichaphazela kakubi isimo sempilo yowesifazane kunye nosana lwakhe oluzayo. Ngomngcwabo, ukuxhamla kwangaphakathi kukhuliswa ngokukodwa, okukuchaphazela impilo ngendlela engcono kakhulu, kuba sele ibonakaliswe ukuba imbangela yezifo ezininzi kunye nezifo zinoxinzelelo. Ngokukodwa kubalulekile ukunyamekela iimbulunga kwiindawo zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Kodwa ebomini kuya kuba neemeko ezahlukeneyo xa kufuneka uhambe emngcwabeni. Emva koko zama ukuthetha nabancinci, zigcine, uzame ukuzincoma nganoma yiphi indlela, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, cinga ngomntwana wakho ongakazalwa.
Ukuba unomnqweno wokutyelela ingcwaba lezihlobo okanye abahlobo bakho, kodwa oku akubangela ukuba ukwesaba okanye iimvakalelo ezingekho phantsi, oogqirha abayi kukwazi ukubhikisha iimpembelelo zakho. Kodwa khumbula njalo, isimo sakho sengqondo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo kufuneka singathinteli impilo kunye nophuhliso lomntwana!
4. Ziziphi iifom zithetha malunga nokuba umfazi okhulelwe angaya emangcwabeni? Iingqungquthela ezininzi zoomama ezizayo zizele imibuzo efanayo. Iimbono ziyahluka. Abanye bacebisa abafazi abakhulelweyo ukuba bangaqhagamshelani nabafileyo, besaba ukuba isibeleko sikamntwana asinayo ingelosi yomlondolozi, ngoko ke akakwazi ukukhuseleka ngokumelene "nemimoya emnyama". Abanye bathi kungcono kubafazi abakhulelweyo ukuba bangawubukeli umkhosi wonke, okanye unokuzibamba, ubeke ikhandlela kuye. Kodwa konke kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba
Abanye abafazi abakhulelweyo abazicinganga ngokuvakatyela ingcwaba lomthandayo. Ngokuphambene noko, kubanika uxolo kwengqondo, kungekhona uxinzelelo kunye nexinzelelo.
Kodwa, ukuba uya kwiindawo zokudibanisa kwabantu, cinga "ngehlabathi" - iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezifo kunye neentsholongwane. Ungakulibala ukuba unokugcoba impumlo yakho ngeoli ye-oxolin. Le mpilisi engenakulimala iyasebenza ekukhuseleni i-ARI okanye i-ARVI, enokuthi umntwana angabi yingozi ngaphezu kwengcinezelo yengqondo.