Ungakuphelisa njani umona?

Akukho mntu ozelwe ngumona, kodwa ngokusoloko ebomini bakhe sibhekane nento yokuba umntu unomona, okanye siba nomona ngomntu othile, ngezinye iinkhathi angayiboni. Ngoko, masizame ukuqonda ukuba yintoni uhlobo lokuvelisa umona, yintoni na indlela yokulahla umona.

Umvelaphi

Umona luvakalelo olubi, olubonakalisa ukuxhalaba, ukucaphukisa, inzondo, ukungathandi.

Umntu uba nomona kwinkqubo yengqondo yakhe yophuhliso. Nangona umntu esengumntwana, umona ungaba neengcambu zawo. Ngokomzekelo, xa abazali behlala bebonisa ihlangothi elincinci lomfana wommelwane, kodwa yenza loo nto, bangela umona ngomntwana wabo endaweni yokuncintisana nempilo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ngaphandle kokukwazi izizathu eziyinyaniso, abazali bazama ukuqonda indlela yokunceda umntwana wabo ukulahla umona.

Esikhundleni sombono okhuthaza ukuvela kwezenzo ezilungileyo, umntwana ukhawuleza okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, uvimba iimvakalelo zokuqala eziphazamisayo kunye neemvakalelo. Njengoko umntu ekhula, ixesha lilungisa le mpendulo xa kuthelekiswa, kodwa kungenakuzuzisa yena, ngenxa yoko, kuthatha isikhundla esiphambili. Oku kuphazamisa ukunyaniseka, imbono yeqiniso yehlabathi.

Izizathu zokuba nomona

Izizathu zenzondelelo zingaba ziimpawu zangaphandle zabanye abantu (impilo, ubutyebi, italente, ubuhle, ubulumko, njl njl njl) kunye neenkcukacha zangaphandle, ubuhlobo bomntu (ngokuqhelekileyo olu hlobo lwenkanuko lufumaneka kwabasetyhini).

Akunabo bonke abantu abanelisekile, ngenxa yoko bangenako, ukuze bangazithelekisi nabanye. Njengoko uyazi, ukuthelekisa nabanye kunye nesizathu sokuqala somona.

Ukuvakalelwa komona kubakho kuwo onke amanqanaba okuphuhliswa kokomoya kunye nesimo sentlalo yomntu.

Indlela yokukrazula umona wabantu?

Okokuqala, kufuneka uphelise umona wobukhwele.

1. Kwimeko xa uqaphela ukuba uqala ukukhwelela iimpawu ezithile, izinto, njl., Ongenakho, khumbula ukuba phantse i-90% ye-wrapper ayihambelani nomxholo wangaphakathi we-candy. Okubi kakhulu kwimveliso, ukukhanya okugqithisiweyo.
2. Ukuba uqala ukutsala ingubo ("Ndafunda naye kwinqanaba," "wakhula kwelinye ididi"), qonda ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukungafani kwangaphandle nangaphakathi phakathi kwakho nabahlobo bakho. Wena ungumntu.
3. Ekuqaleni, umntu uchonga, aze aqale ukuvavanya. Xa ufumana ukungafani okukukho, uyaziqhenya kakhulu, kwaye ukuba ngokuchasene-nomona, ungaba nomsindo. Funda ukuziqonda. Ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Izibalo zithi abantu abangama-85% abanomona banokuzithoba. Yehlisa u qhayiya. Qonda indawo yakho ebomini.
4. Ukuphuhlisa umbono we-panoramic. Xa ubona ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abaphupha ukuba babe njengawe, uya kuqonda indlela yokulahla umona wabanye.

Indlela yokulahla umona womnye umntu?

Phantse wonke umntu ubhekene nomona ekhelini lakhe kwabanye, kwaye akukho nto ingxaki. Yiyo intloko yabantu abanomona, abantu ababuthathaka abangenako ukuzisa uvuyo ebomini babo. Ukuze uqonde indlela yokulahla umona omnyama, funda uthando olungenammiselo. Kwaye zonke ezinye izenzo zenzweni zendawo, ngoko yonke into ixhomekeke kwimeko. Unako ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, ezibangelwa ngumona wabanye. Kodwa ngenxa yale nto kufuneka uqonde izizathu zokuvela kwazo okwenyani. Xa ufunda oku, unokwenza, umzekelo, ungaqhagamshelani nabantu abazenzisi, njl.

Ngoko, umona uyisivakalelo esibi. Ngokukhawuleza, xa ufumanisa ukuba unomona, zama ukukrazula le ntliziyo, ungaligxina umhlaba.