Ngamanye amaxesha, kwimihla ngemihla "grey" ubomi bemihla ngemihla, uqala ukuqonda ukuba wenza okuyimfuneko okanye okuyimfuneko, kwaye akusikho into oyifunayo. Ukuxakeka kwengqondo rhoqo kunenza umntu acinge ukuba umsebenzi owenzayo awunelisekanga kuwe, yingako abaninzi abantu baqala ukuzibuza ukuba bangaziqonda njani ukuba benzani ebomini ukuze banandipha kwaye banandiphe.
Ungayiqonda njani into oyithandayo?
Ixesha libaleka phambili, izinto ezininzi zenzeka ngeenxa zonke, kodwa awukwazi ukuqonda ukuba ikuphi ikusasa lakho eli lizwe, ngoko makhe sizame ukuqonda indlela ofuna ukuyenza ngayo ebomini:
- Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ozithandayo, nokuba yiyiphi into oyithandayo, ifilimu eyintandokazi, ingoma, isitya, incwadi, njl. Emva koko funda okubhaliweyo uze uzame ukufumana oko kudibanisa konke oku ngasentla. Umzekelo, isitya esiyithandayo kwisitya saseFransi, kunye nengoma ophulaphulayo, eyenziwa ngumculi waseFransi, ngoko ke, ngokucacileyo, iphupha lakho lixhomekeke kweli lizwe, ngokunjalo, njalo njalo.
- Zama 'ukuhambisa' kwikamva. Ngoko, zenzele indebe yehayi elimnandi, hlala emva kwaye uphuphe kancane. Cinga ucinga ubomi bakho emva kweminyaka elishumi, into ozibona yona, apho uhlala khona, ngubani ojikelezayo. Mhlawumbi uzibona njengendoda yebhizinisi, uze uzame ukuqala ishishini lakho, oza kuthi, umzekelo, uya kudibana nohambo oluya eFransi .
- Mamela amaphupha akho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iiminqweno zakho kufuneka zibe yinyani, ngoko ke xa ukhetha umsebenzi ozayo, kuyafaneleka ukuba wakhe ngokwakho.
- Lumkele ubuchule bakho. UThixo akayikuvuza umntu onalo nawuphi na italente , ukuba kukho into enhle kakhulu kuwe, kwaye ukuba uyathanda ukwenza (umzekelo, ulungile kakhulu ukukhangela okanye ukuthunga) ngoko, qhayisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngulo lizwi lakho.