Kunzima ukufumana umntu oya kuneliswa nguye ngokwakhe. Ukuzigxeka ngokusoloko kukukhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni, ngoko kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba uzamkela njani kunye nomzimba wakho. Iingcali zengqondo zivuma ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba isibambiso sovuyo luyothando , ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukungazihoxisi iingxaki ngokuzithemba.
Ungamkela njani wena?
Ukwakha ngokukhawuleza akusebenzi, ngoko kufuneka uqale ngamanyathelo amancinci. Indlela elula kukuba uqale ukumomotheka ngeso sikhokelo sakho, esiza kukunika inkokhelo enhle.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo zendlela yokwamkela:
- Thatha iphepha kwaye ubhale kuso sonke isidima sakho, ukuba kunzima, uze ucele ukwenza ukuba uqonde. Le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba uzibuke kwi-angle entsha uze uqonde ukuba yonke into ayimbi njengoko ibonakala. Zinike ukufakela ukuhlaziya rhoqo uluhlu lwakho lweenzuzo.
- Yeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu kwaye ungazitholi isithixo. Bonke abantu ngabanye abaneemfanelo kunye neemfuno zabo, ngoko uba ngumfazikazi.
- Iseluleko esilandelayo seengqondo, ukuba uzamkele njani wena - zifumane iincwadi zokubhala apho ungabhala khona yonke into eyenziwe ngayo, nokuba yincinci. Oku kuya kuba yinto ekhuthaza kakhulu ukuba ungayi kuphelelwa yintliziyo kwaye uqhubeke nokuphucula. Unako, njengesikhuthazo sempumelelo, uvela kunye nomvuzo othile.
- Ukuba kukho iziphoso emzimbeni, kufuneka kwakhona balwe. Ukususa ubunzima obuninzi kuya kunceda ukondlo olufanelekileyo kunye nemidlalo, kwi-hairstyle egwenxa i-barber izakusindisa, njl.
- Sebenzisa ixesha elininzi nabantu abaneziphumo eziza kuhlawula ngamandla. Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukuzama ukuphawula kwiimpawu ezizungezile kuphela.
- Zifumana insime apho unokukwazi khona konke okusemandleni akho. Ukuba lo awuwunomsebenzi, ngoko uthabathe i-hobby.