Zonke iilwimi zinamagama amaninzi. Ngako-ke, ziphi iipasipasithi ezingabalulekanga ezivela kuyo? Masibuyele kwimvelaphi.
Amagama-ama-parasites ngamazwi eninzi yentetho. Baqine ngokuqinileyo kwisigama somntu, abazange bangene kuphela kwiintetho zokudibanisa, kodwa babe nomkhwa. Igama le-parasites alithethi nantoni na. La magama angenanto-ukhula, kufuneka alahlekelwe. Umntu osebenzisa amagama anjalo entetho yakhe akayiqapheli, usetyenziselwa kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, amagama anomsindo awakhupheli ukuqonda nokuqonda kwintetho kuphela, kodwa akhathele umxhasi.
Xa kuthethwa intetho, kwavela i-parasitology. Kancinci, ukugaya amagama kugcwalise inani lethu kwaye kwandisa inani lamapolisa ethu.
Izizathu zokusetyenziswa kwamagama-iipasisiti
- sigama. Abantu abafundelekileyo bahlupheka ngenxa yobuninzi begama-ukhula rhoqo. Nangona kukho ukungafani;
- Isivinini esiphantsi sokucinga. Xa umntu engakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza aze athole igama elifanelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo usebenzisa isandi se-parasites ye-hitch. Oku kwaziwa kubo bonke: "Eee," "A-ah," "Mmm." Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba izandi ezinjalo zicaphukisa kakhulu kwaye "zinqumle" iindlebe;
- Ukusebenzisa ngamagama ngamaqhinga ngamabomu. Kumntu, le ndlela yokunxibelelana iyinxalenye yomfanekiso, umfanekiso. Kukho abantu abafaka ngenyameko amagama angama-parasitic, kwaye oko kwenzeka nokuba kufanelekile;
- ukubonakalisa uluntu. Ukusetyenziswa kwamagama athile angamaqhinga anokuxelela into ethile ngomntu. Ukuba igama elithi "i-parasite" lisetyenziswe kwintetho "mfutshane", kuthetha ukuba umntu akafuni ukuzithobela iingxoxo, iinkcazo, ungumntu onobuqili obomi. "Enyanisweni" ufuna ukuvula inyaniso kubantu, umntu ulwabalazela inyaniso. "Uyayiqonda" ngumzekelo wecala kwaye uhlala uxolisa kwabanye abakuzungezile.
Ulutsha olutshanje lusetyenziswa ekuthetha kwabo amagama anjenge-parasitic njenge: "i-pancake", "uhlobo" kunye "njengaye". Bathetha ukungcola , ukudibanisa, umfanekiso weengcamango nezenzo zamantombazana amancinane kunye namakhwenkwe. Amagama ahlaselayo entetho athetha ngezinga eliphantsi lobugcisa, onokuvalelwa. Ngexesha, ngethamsanqa, ezininzi ziya kudlula. Ukusebenzisa amagama-ama-parasites, uphawula kakhulu intetho yakho kunye nombono wakho.
Ungasusa njani i-word-parasites?
Makhe sithethe ngoku malunga nendlela yokulahla amagama-ama-parasites entetho yakho. Okokuqala, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokulawula intetho yakho. Ukongezelela kokulawula okuqinileyo, ufuna "izigwebo" zakho. Ukuba ubeka iinjongo zokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle kwaye uhlakulele ngokuchanekileyo , ngoko ube yinqanaba kwisigqibo sakho.
Ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokujongana namazwi-ama-parasites, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele imfuno yokuyithatha indawo enye into. Indlela elandelayo iya kubonisa ukuba iyasebenza, ukuba uyithatha yonke inxaxheba.
Khetha isandi esifanelekileyo. Iyakwazi ukukhawuleza, ukugubha, ukukhwaza okanye ukukhahlela. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqaphele emva kwakho ukuba ukhulume igama lokhula, landela "kakuhle" ngokukhala. Isihlwele kwintetho yentetho? Eqinisile, kunjalo-ke amagama akho-ama-parasites ayifanelekanga kwingxoxo. Kholwa, utshintshe
Ukususela kwindlela yokujonga i-psychology, amagama e-parasitic acingwa njengenye yezindlela zokunqoba ukuyeka kwiintetho zentetho. Xa umntu engakwazi ukukhawuleza ukuyiphendula impendulo kwincoko, ikhefu elimnandi lenzeke. Iyabangela ukusabela okungahambi kakuhle - ukugcwalisa ngokukhangela, ukukhwehlela, ukuphinda amagama kunye namazwi akhula.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhlala ucebile, ngakumbi ekubeni ubugcisa bokukholisa busekelwe kwixesha elifanelekileyo lexesha elifanelekileyo.