Xa, ngokukhawuleza ngokwabo, umlingane othandekayo uyafa, kubonakala ngathi ubomi buba nenjongo. Kwaye nangona uhlala iminyaka emininzi emtshatweni, ushiye iindlalifa, kunzima ukucinga ukuba ungaphila ngaphandle komoya. Kule meko, icebiso lombingeleli liyakunceda uqonde indlela yokusinda ekufeni komyeni wakho othandekayo. Emva kwakho konke, njengoko kwaziwa, xa umntu engena emva kokufa, izalamane zomhlaba zimele zimncede ukuba afumane iParadesi ngendlela enokwenzeka.
I-Tips priest, indlela yokusinda ngokufa ngokukhawuleza kwindoda ethandekayo
- Umntu ofileyo ufuna kakhulu ukunakekelwa kwabantu abasondeleyo kuye abahlala kulo mhlaba wesono. Wonke umntu makakhumbule ukuba njengomntu, umntu akapheli. Unomphefumlo ongafiyo, kodwa ukuba ngexesha lokuphila kwakhe wayengenakholwa, ngoko ukuze aphile ubomi bakhe, kufuneka aqwalasele ngokucophelela umphefumlo wakhe. Okokuqala, musa ukuxhalaba. Emva koko, ukudimazeka ngenye yezono ezisibhozo ezibulalayo. Ukuba uyamvumela ukuba ahlale emphefumlweni wakho, ngoko iimeko ezingenamsebenzi kuyo.
- Zama ukunciphisa, amandla akho onke, uthando kumfi, ufake imithandazo . Kuze kube ngumhla wama-40, thandaza. Oku kuyimfuneko ngomphefumlo wakho nangomphefumlo womyeni wakho.
- Khumbula ukuba emva kobu bomi emhlabeni, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana neqabane lakho, ngoko cinga ukuba ufanelekile ubomi obuhle emva kokufa kwakho. Musa ukulibala ukuba ukulila ngokugqithiseleyo, ukulila ngokufayo akuhambelani ne-Orthodoxy. Ulibale ngosizi. Akunakukunceda wena okanye othandekayo oye waya kwelinye ihlabathi. Khumbula ukuba indoda iyaphila, kodwa uhlala noThixo.
- Bhala i-note kunye nomnikelo ethempelini ukuze uxolo lomphefumlo womlingane. Thandaza ngakumbi kwaye ucele iNkosi ukuba ikuncede kule ntlupheko enzima. Yaye le mithetho ayisebenzisi nje kuphela kumbuzo wendlela yokusinda ekufeni komyeni kumfazi oneminyaka ubudala, kodwa nakumhlolokazi oselula. Khumbula ukuba ubomi bakho kulo mhlaba abupheli. Kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuPhezukonke kwaye uqhubeke uhlala, ujabule yonke imihla.