Usana olusandul 'usana lulala ngaphambi kweenyanga 1

Ukubuyela ekhaya kwisibhedlele sokubeletha, umama ngamnye omncinci uqala ukusetyenziswa kwisingqimba sobomi bentsana yakhe. Ekuqaleni unokwenziwa nzima, ingakumbi ukuba umfazi unomntwana wokuqala. Umama osemncinci uqala ukuxhalabisa, akabi kakhulu, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, umncinci, ulele umntwana wakhe.

Ukuze ungakhathazeki ngezihlwele, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba yintoni evamile yokulala kwiintsana ezineminyaka engaphantsi kweenyanga ezili-1, kwaye ziziphi iimeko apho kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ugqirha wezingane ukuphulwa kombuso kwintsana.

Yintoni eqhelekileyo yokulala kwabantwana abatsha ngaphambi kwenyanga?

Umzimba womntwana ngamnye omncinci ngumntu ngamnye, ngoko ke ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokulala nokuvuka kwelo lusana luyakuboniswa kuphela. Njengomthetho, ubude bexesha lokuvuka kweemvumba zivela kwiiyure ezingama-4 ukuya kwii-8 ngosuku. Ngako oko, usana lulala ngokuqhelekileyo ukusuka kwiiyure eziyi-16 ukuya kwe-20.

Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wakho ulele kakhulu okanye cha, okokuqala, qaphela ngeyure uze ungeze onke amaxesha okulala kwakhe emini. Phantse kuzo zonke iimeko, ubude beli xesha alidluli uluhlu oluchaziweyo kwaye luyinto eqhelekileyo yolu luhlobo oluthile. Ukuba akunjalo, qhagamshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana obona umntwana, mhlawumbi umntwana unengxaki enkulu yezempilo.

Njengomthetho, umntwana osandul 'uzalwa usengakwazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba yintoni imini nobusuku. Uninzi lomhla, ulala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ixesha elingakanani ngoku. Phantse bonke abantwana bavuka malunga neyure ukutya ubisi lomama okanye ifom eguqulelwe.

Kubazali abancinci bangakhathali ekunyamekelweni kwengcinezelo yengane, bafuna ukususela ekuqaleni kweemvumba ukuba baziqhelise kummandla othile . Ewe, ekuqaleni kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukwenza oku, nangona kunjalo, elizayo kuya kwenza ubomi kube lula, kungekhona nje kumama nobaba, kodwa kubantwana ngokwabo.

Zama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze umntwana alale phakathi kwe-21 ne-9 ntsimbi. Ngeli xesha, iwashi ye-biological yintsana ezalwayo iza ebusuku. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba eli xesha ixesha lakho umntwana kufuneka alale engavuki, kodwa ukuba i-crumb iye yavusa ukuba idle, kufuneka iphinda iphinde iphinde ifakwe.

Ukulala komntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa engaphantsi kweenyanga 1, nangona ingaba phakathi kwaye kungenasiphelo, akufanele ukuphazamise ukuzola kwabazali abatsha. Ngoko ke, ukuba umama omncinci akafumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo ukususela ekuqaleni, emva kwexesha intsapho iya kubakho ukuqala ukuxubana kunye neentlekele ezihlobene nokukhathala okuqokelelwayo.

Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, zama ukuqhuba iphupha elidibeneyo kunye nosana. Phantse bonke abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa, bazive besondelene nomama wabo, baqala ukulala banamandla kwaye baqine, ukwenzela ukuba abazali bazive bebhetele ngakumbi.