Ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bude bebaninzi bethu kwinqanaba lezinto ezinokuhlaziywa okanye ezihlazo. Uninzi apho ungabonisana khona kwaye uhlaziye iingxoxo, imibuzo kunye nezimpendulo, kunye nokutshintshana kwamava. Ukutshintshwa kolwazi olunjalo aluvumeli kuphela ukuxoxa ngokugqithiseleyo okanye ukutshintsha ubomi obusondeleyo, kodwa kwakhona kuvumela ukuphendula imibuzo emininzi, ingakumbi kulabo banalo ubomi obuya kuqala ukuqala.
Ukuxelela oko ukwenza ngesondo lokuqala, ungangena kwi-jungle yobugcisa bezesondo, ezininzi apho nabathandi abanamava abazange bafunde. Kodwa kulo mcimbi into ephambili ayiyikuyidlula ngokunyaniseka okugqithisileyo nokuthozama okukhulu.
Indlela yokwenza uthando okokuqala?
Okokuqala, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba isondo sokuqala kufuneka senzeke kwindawo ekhululekile, efanelekileyo yokuphumla nokukhululwa. Khetha indawo apho wena kunye nomlingane wakho uya kuziva ukhululekile. Khubaza nayiphi na into engakuphazamisa komnye nomnye, yakha umoya wokuthandana nomculo kunye nokukhanyisa. I-snack elula kunye newayini encinci iya kukunceda uzive ulula kwaye uqhutyane.
Zonke iinjongo kufuneka zijoliswe ngokuyinjongo ekwenzeni iqabane live likhululekile kwaye likhululekile. Umfana akafanele agijime izinto, makumvumele intombazana ingene ngaphakathi. Yenza into oyenzayo ngaphambili - ukumanga nokunyamezana, vumela umzimba uzive ujongene nolwazi oluqhelekileyo nolumnene. Zonke iintshukumo mazibe zihamba kakuhle, kuba ixesha lokuqala liyakwazi ukukhulula, kwaye kwimeko ethile kunye neentlungu. Mamela umlingane wakho, ungaxoshe ukufezekisa ngokukhawuleza kweeminqweno zakho.
Akunakwenzeka ukunika ingcaciso ecacileyo yendlela yokwenza uthando ngokuchanekileyo. Ixesha lokuqala liya kuhlala likhethekileyo, elikhunjulwayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufunde kangakanani amava kunye namacebiso abantu, uya kuba nakho konke ngendlela yakho, ngamnye. Ukuba isondo somtshato wokuqala, ukuba isondo kunye nomnye umlingane-okokuqala akukho mzekelo ochanekileyo.