Wonke umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubulili kunye nobudala, ufuna ukuthandwa. Isidingo sokuvakalelwa ngokwasemzimbeni sibonakalisa ubudala.
Ukulondeka yinto esizama ukuyiphepha ebomini bethu. Kwaye akunandaba ukuba ngubani esimthandayo - ummeli ochasene okanye wesini. Uthando lwe-Unisex luyintloko yintetho yanamhlanje.
Izizathu zobuthandana bobulili obufanayo
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabameli besini esifanayo bekunjalo, ngamaxesha onke. Kwiminyaka edlulileyo, le mibonakalo yeemvakalelo yayifihliwe kuluntu. Kodwa ngoku ubudlelane bobulili obufanayo banabantu abambalwa abamangaliswayo. Ukuze agwebe umntu "ngokukhethekileyo" kwakhe, kunene, ayikho into engacabangiyo kwaye isisidenge. Wonke umntu uhlala njengoko ufuna. Hlonipha abantu, nokuba naluphi na ukuqhelaniswa kwabo, ngumsebenzi wethu. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba asiyihloneli, kutheni abanye kufuneka basiphathe ngokuhlukileyo?
Kutheni umntu engafuni ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nesini esahlukileyo kunye nantoni na ayifumana kwintando yesini?
- kudana. Ulwalamano olungaphumeleli lukhokelela kwingcamango yokutshintshwa koqhelaniso, nangona i-wild ityandila. Akuzange kubhekane nobunzima ekukhulumeni nesini esahlukileyo, kumntu akulula ukuthola amandla kunye nomnqweno wokuphinda yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni;
- ukuqonda. Ibhinqa liyakwazi ukuqonda ibhinqa, kwaye indoda iyazi kakuhle kwiingqondo zesintu. Ukuba umntu wakwazi ukufumana "umoya wobubele", yintoni umehluko okhoyo - indoda okanye ibhinqa?;
- umdla. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngohlobo oluthile lwesini, ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo, luhluke kobudlelwane obusondeleyo bobulili obufanayo. Umntu unquma ukuza kumbuzo wothando ngendlela engavumelekanga, ukuba utshintshe, ngoko kuthetha;
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, uxinzelelo, ukudandatheka - konke oku kunokubangela "i-clouding" yesikhashana yengqondo.
I-psychology yobuthandana bobulili bobulili obufanayo buxhomekeke emnqweno wokufumana umntu onokuyayiqonda, yamkela umntu njengokuba yena, ujikeleze ngokunyanisekileyo nokunyamekela.
Unicex wesifazane uthando
Uthando phakathi kwamantombazana amancinci, ngokuqhelekileyo ebusheni, kubangelwa ukuphela kokusekwa ngokwesini. Ngethuba lokuphelelwa ngumntwana, i-psyche yamantombazana ayizinzile kakhulu, ngoko ke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphambukiswa ngokwesini, kuquka ulwabelana ngesondo esifanayo.
Uthando olunjalo ngesini esifanayo nabasetyhini, ubudala obudala, bubangelwa ukukhanga kwisiqingatha esinamandla / esinyanzelekileyo. Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Inyaniso kukuba indoda yangempela kufuneka ibuke. Unamandla, uqikelele, uxanduva kwaye uyasabela - jonga ngawo ngosuku ngomlilo, njengoko besithi. Abameli basetyhini banamhlanje bahlala beqine kakhulu, bazimeleyo kwaye bacebile. Ngamanye amaxesha inenekazi inokuba nomnqweno wokunyamekela kwaye unike uthando kumfazi omnene, othandekayo nobuthathaka. Umva wokugqibela, yena, ufuna isiqingatha esinamandla, ufuna ukukhuselwa. Ukuba umntu akanakukunika, akukho nto ayikho.
Unisex yothando lomntu
Uthando lwabantu kubantu ngabanye lubangelwa ubuthathaka babo abaninzi. Ukuba ubuhlobo bomntu obuthathelana nomntu obesifazana kunye nomfazi wesifazane "utyumle" indoda kwaye wayenomkhuhlane, kwaye ngokungahambisani nokutshintsha iindawo. Isiphelo: abafazi, banakekele abantu besithandwa babo, musa ukwenza ukuba bathande.
I-physiology yamadoda ichaza uthando lomfana wesini. Ukususela kuninzi lweengongoma eziphosakeleyo, amaziko okuzonwabisa axhomekeke kwi-anus yindoda, ngoko ke ukukhanga ngesondo kunye nomlingani wesini. Mhlawumbi olu lwalamano luyakhiwa kuphela kwisini. Akumangalisi ukuba umntu unokuba ngumzekelo wentsapho,
Umbono wobucala
Ukuthanda omnye umntu (oko kukuthi, umntu) ubugcisa obukhulu kunye nemfuneko ebalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuba kuphela kwimanyano yamadoda nabasetyhini abantwana abazalwa. Awukwazi ukulwa nendalo. Umntwana akufanele abe nobawo ababini okanye oomama ababini. Ngako oko, ingxaki yokuthotyelwa kwezilwanyana zesini esifanelekileyo kufuneka ichithwe ngokwahlukileyo. Ukuthanda - nceda, kodwa ukufundisa onobubele bakho, ukulimaza abantwana - uThixo akavumelekanga.