"Ndiselula kakhulu," "Umsebenzi wokuqala ...", "Ndingayilawula njani yedwa?" Okanye "Yiloo nto abazali bam ababethelela ngayo" - ngamnye wesifazane owaziwayo unesizathu sakhe sokungavumeli umntwana ozayo ukuba eze emhlabeni.
Yaye ukuba uninzi lwayo lufihla le nkcazelo kwi-biography ngaphantsi kweempawu ezisixhenxe, abantu abadumileyo banesibindi sokwamkela esidlangalaleni ukuba babenza isisu.
1. UCatherine Deneuve
Ulutsha lomnye wabesifazane abahle kakhulu baseFransi lwawela kuma-70s akhululiwe, okanye ngokuthe ngqo - kwisiguqulelo sokwabelana ngesondo, xa uluntu lukhuphe ngamandla ukukhupha ubudlelwane obusenyongweni ngaphambi komtshato kunye nesihloko sesini, ukufumaneka kokukhulelwa komzimba nokuchithwa kokukhipha isisu. Kwaye u-Catherine Deneuve wayengomnye wabasetyhini abangama-343 abasayine ngo-1971 isikhalazo esidumile "Ukumisela ukukhipha isisu": "
"Ndafumana eli liva iminyaka emine ngaphambi kokuba isisu sibe semthethweni. Kubafazi besidlangalaleni, le nto yayinzima ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kuba eli qiniso liye lisoloko "liyimfihlo", egcinwe ngokwesaba. Emva koko ukuvalwa kwandibonakala kum. Ndandizibuhlungu ukuba into yokuba omnye umntu wayenigunyazisile isigqibo sam, kuba le lungelo lomntu wendalo ... "
2. Svetlana Permyakova
Musa ukufihla le nkcazelo kwi-biographie kunye nokuhleka kwethu okuthandayo - umhlengikazi uLyubochka kwi-t / s "Interna". Namhlanje, umdlali we-actress uSvetlana Permyakova unokuba ngumama wabantwana ababini abadala, kodwa, alas:
"Ndandiselula kwaye ndisiyatha. Phakathi kwamathuba okubeletha umntwana kunye nendima entsha kwimboniso, ndakhetha okwesibini. Ndandikhulelwe kabini kwaye ndabhoxiswa kabini. Ngaba ndiyazisola? Kutheni sizisola? Akukho nto ongayi kubuya ngayo, kodwa eli liva namava, nangona kungenjalo ... "
Kuyathakazelisa ukuva igama elithi "umama" osele kwiminyaka engama-40 kwaye namhlanje intombi yakhe uSvetlana ibona uBarbara impumelelo enkulu ebomini!
3. Whoopi Goldberg
Uza kumangaliswa, kodwa omnye wabadlali ababalaseleyo kwiHollywood, u-Whoopi Goldberg wayephila ubomi bobulili obusebenzayo nangona oontanga bakhe bafumana okokuqala iinkcukacha zericu malunga nolwalamano lomntu kunye nomfazi kwiiklasi ze-biology. Kwaye ngakumbi - Ngubani owamvuma ukuba eneminyaka eyi-14 wamphazamisa ukukhulelwa kwakhe kuqala!
Kwiminyaka emithathu kamva, umdlali wecawa ozayo wabuye waziswa ukuba intliziyo yakhe yesibini ibetha emzimbeni wakhe kwaye yanciphisa injabulo yoba ngumama, engasayi kuba. Emva koko ukukhanya kwavela intombazana yakhe uAlex, owathi, ngendlela, wamenza ugogo e-34!
4. Nicky Minaj
Nika Minazh ebomini bakhe ngokungathethekiyo yonke into-iimpahla, iziqephu kunye nemiboniso kwinqanaba. Kodwa iminyaka emibini edlulileyo ngaphambi kokuba papashwe "i-Rolling Stone" umculi wagqiba ekubeni angabonakali umzimba, kodwa umphefumlo:
"Xa ndandineminyaka eli-16 ubudala, ndikhulelwe yinkwenkwe yam, eyayingazange icebe ukuqalisa intsapho, kwaye yakhupha isisu. Emva koko ndafunda esikolweni esiphambili, ndaphupha ngomsebenzi oqaqambileyo, kwaye ukuzalwa komntwana akuzange kufanelwe kwizicwangciso zam. Andizange ndilungele. Andizange ndibone nantoni. Kodwa ke ndaqonda ukuba ndiza kufa ... Le nto yinto enzima kunzima ukuba ndiyinyamezele. Kwaye oku kubangela ubomi bam bonke! "
5. Alla Pugacheva
Namhlanje, i-diva yesigaba sethu, ngokubonga kwiinkonzo zomama onqabileyo, yonke imihla iyavuya ngokumamatheka kwentombi enhle kaLisa noonyana bakaHarry. Kodwa emininzi kwiminyaka edlulileyo umculi wavuma ukuba intombi yakhe ekhulile uChristina wayenokuba nomzalwana okanye udade ongekho ngokukhawuleza:
"Andikwazi ukuxolela ukuba andizange ndishiye umntwana. Umyeni wam kunye nabalingane bam bandiphoqa ukuba ndikhuphe isisu. Kwaye kwakudala ixesha elide. Ndiyakhathazeka, kuba ndiyicinga ukubulala. Njalo naxa ndibeka amakhandlela ebandleni ukuba ndixolele ... "
6. UTony Braxton
Kodwa omnye wabadlali abaphumelele kakhulu kwiminyaka engama-90 kunye nomnikazi wee-7 ze-Grammy Awards uTony Braxton akakwazanga ukuthetha ngentshutshiso engokomoya ekhutshwe isisu kwaye wagqiba ukubhalela malunga nayo kwincwadi yakhe yomntu enegama elithi "Unbreak My Heart". Ngokuvumelana nokuvuma kwiphepha, uTony wavusa isisu ngo-2001, ngaphambi kokutshata nomculi uCatherine Lewis. Kamva loo mbini yayinabantwana ababini, kodwa umculi uyaqiniseka ukuba ukuxilongwa "kwe-autism", eyaboniswa yindodana yakhe yesibini uDesel, yintlawulo yokuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa kokuqala!
7. Laima Vaikule
Umculi uLaima Vaikule wayenokuba ngumkhulukazi ozukileyo kubazukulwana bakhe ixesha elide, kodwa, maye, kwiminyaka engama-62 umculi othandwayo akazange alizwe igama elithi "umama", ozisola emva kokukhipha izisu ezimbini:
"Ukuba ngoku ndibuzwa ukuba umfazi unokuzigqiba isigqibo sokuba uyayikhupha isisu okanye cha, ndiza kuphendula ngokucacileyo - akukho nanye! Ngoku ndikhupha isisu njengokubulala! Kwaye ndiya kulahlwa yedwa. Oku kungenxa yam - isijeziso seNkosi! "
8. Maria Callas
"Cinga ngendlela ubomi bam buya kuzaliswa ngayo ukuba ndamchasa kwaye ndamgcina umntwana?" - i-opera diva uMaria Callas yakhumbula ngokukrakra ...
Iinyanga ezine zathatha umculi omkhulu ukuba abuyele kulo msebenzi! Xa wayeneminyaka engama-43, uMaria wafumanisa oko umntwana wayekulindele. Lo ngummangaliso wokwenene, unikezwe unyango olude kunye neengxelo ezidakisayo zonyango malunga nokungafumaneki. Kodwa amagama ka-Onassis, apho azinikele khona umsebenzi wakhe kunye nobomi bentsapho, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo wathola umtshato omdala phakathi kwakhe nomtshato noJackie Kennedy, babefana nomyalelo: "Ukukhupha isisu! Andifuni ukuba nabantwana kuwe. Ndinezinto ezimbini! "Hayi, ngaphezu kwengane elinde ixesha elide, uMaria wayeyika ukulahlekelwa nguAristo ...
9. Natalia Gulkina
Inkwenkwezi yekamva yeqela elithi "Mirage" ukukhipha isisu ekufikeni kwasekuqaleni, yaxhaswa ngabazali:
"Ndiyakwazi ukuziqonda, kuba ndandineminyaka eli-15 ubudala. Kodwa ke ndathatha yonke into eyenzeka njengentlekele. Emva koko uyise wamntwana wathatyathwa emkhosini, kwaye ndambhalela kuye yonke imihla. Kodwa andizange ndilinde ... "
Namhlanje kwi-biography kaNatalika Gulkina kubonakala imitshato emine, emibini apho wayenendodana, uAlex nentombi Yana.
10. uSinead O'Connor
Kodwa umenzi we-hit "Akukho nto ithelekisa u-2 U" yenye enye engengesabi ukuvuma ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa, kodwa ngelo xesha, ngaphandle kokuzisola into awayenzile:
"Ndayikhupha isisu eMinneapolis xa ndandwendwendwe. Kwaye andinayo ingqiqo. Ukuba ndibe nosana ngoko andinakuba ngumama owafanelwe ... "
11. UJoanne Collins
Kubomi babasetyhini abadumileyo, kunye nobomi babasetyhini abangewona uluntu, isiganeko esinjengoko kulindeleke umntwana, kucwangcisiwe okanye ... kwenzeka ngexesha elingafanelekanga. Kwaye ke zonke iingxaki zibonakala zingenakulinganiswa, kwaye indlela kuphela yokuphuma isisu ...
Umdlali waseBrithani, umlimi kunye nomlobi uJoan Collins ufumene le sigqibo kuphela yinyaniso xa, xa eneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, wafunda ukuba ukhulelwe ngumyeni wakhe uWarren Beatty, owayengumncinane ngaphezu kwakhe iminyaka engama-4:
"Kwakungenakucingeka ukuba nomntwana ngoko! Akunjalo mna noWarren babengenayo ipenny. Kwaye ndiyakholwa ukuba ukuba uza kuzisa umntwana kweli hlabathi, kufuneka ubeke uxanduva kulo. Emva koko ndenza into efanelekileyo ... "
12. Patricia Kaas
UPatricia Kaas uneminyaka engama-50 ubudala, engatshatanga kwaye engenabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, utsho ngokucacileyo ukuba ebusheni bakhe, ekuphambili kobomi bakhe, unokuba nabantwana. Kodwa ngelo xesha abazange bamdinge - umculi uninzi lwezihlandlo zenze isigqibo sokukhupha isisu, becinga ukuba yonke into isaphambili:
"Andizange ndenze isigqibo sokuzala. Umzimba wam ngokwayo wenza isigqibo kum. Ngamaxesha amaninzi ndikhulelwe naphezu kwam intando. Ngexesha eli xesha le nto yangibangela ukuba ndilindile, ndandixhala. Njengaye, isisu sam siyazimela, senza isigqibo sokuba ndenze into engangenanga ukuyenza. Xa oko kwenzeka, andizange ndibe nesimo esinzulu sokuthanda abantwana. Ukongeza kwimiba yam, yonke into ayithandabuzekiyo. Imbopheleleko iyandithuthuzela. Njengokuba yonke into ilahlekile ngaphambili. Andiyithembi ubomi, nokuba kunjalo, ndiyithemba ngaphantsi. Njalo xa ndenza isigqibo kwaye ndingaze ndibaze. "