Ubumnono yindlela ephakamileyo yemithetho yehlabathi elijikelezayo neliphakathi, ngenxa yoko kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe inyaniso.
Ubulumko njengendlela ephezulu ye-psyche eyenza iinjongo zomsebenzi obalulekileyo womntu ngamnye, ezakha ngengqondo, ibonelela iziphumo, ziqinisekise ukulawulwa kokuziphatha kwabantu.
Umthetho oyintloko wokuqonda okuphezulu
Indlela eya kwiqondo eliphakamileyo iqalisa ngokuqonda ngokupheleleyo ukubaluleka komthetho olandelayo: ngaphandle kweemeko, thanda wonke umntu - kuquka nawe. Lo mthetho uza kunceda ukubona ubuhle kuwe nakwabanye abantu. Enyanisweni, ukuqonda okuphezulu kuvela kumntu ngokwemvelo ngokwalo, kodwa iingcinezelo zendlela yokuphila kwanamhlanje kunye neengxolo ezixhalabileyo ezingamvumeli ukuba azibonakalise ngokupheleleyo.
Kukho iindlela eziphezulu zokuqonda, ukuba ubani omele alwele. Kuzo iindlela eziphakamileyo ukuba ukucinga kuhlengahlengiswa kwaye kucacisiwe, ukuxinwa ngokufanelekileyo kulandelelwe kwaye kubanjwe, iimvakalelo kunye namandla angaphakathi alawulwa, ngoxa ubumbano kunye nommandla wendalo.
Ukuqonda okuphezulu komntu kubandakanya ukuqonda ukubandakanyeka kwakhe kumsebenzi omkhulu wendalo. Isici esahlukileyo sabantu abaqapheleyo inkululeko kunye nokwenyulwa kwezinto ezinokuthi zenziwe ngabantu. Abantu abanjalo bayaqonda ukuba bayonwabile ngokwabo, kuba oku akubakho, kwaye akukho mntu ufunwayo.
Ukuqaphela njengendlela ephezulu yokucinga kwengqondo inentsingiselo yakhe ebalulekileyo ngokuphathelele kumntu kwihlabathi elikujikelezile kunye namava akhe asekuhlaleni. Ukuqonda okukuvumela ukuba uhlele kwaye uhlanganyele kwimisebenzi ethile, ukuzama nokuphuhlisa kwiindawo ezithile.
Ukuqaphela njengona nqanaba eliphezulu le-psyche yinqanaba eliphezulu lokubonakalisa inyaniso, efumana ukubonakaliswa kwikhono lomntu onomnqophiso omkhulu ekuboneni ihlabathi elikujikelezayo, ngoku kunye nakwixesha elidlulileyo, ngononophelo lokwenza izigqibo.
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo
Umgangatho ophezulu wokuqonda ungaphuhliswa ngokusebenza rhoqo. Enye indlela enjalo ukucamngca . Kuya kukunceda uhlaziye ingqondo uze uphulaphule ilizwi langaphakathi. Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kubandakanya ukwandisa uxanduva kunye nokwazisa ngesenzo ngasinye, isigqibo nokukhetha.
Kufanelekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba umntu ophezulu kwinqanaba lokuqonda, uphuma kwi-mass mass, nokuba mhlawumbi ayithethi nto. Umntu unokuba ngcono, kodwa, okokuqala, kufuneka ngokwakhe.