Amagama athi "umfazi" kunye "nomsebenzi" ahlala ebudlelwane obunzima. Omnye ubona ukuncoma kwintetho ye "careerist", kodwa omnye umfazi kukho inqaku lokuhlambalaza kuye. Ubomi obangel 'umdla, ukuziqonda kunye nokuzimela kubhekene nokungabikho kwexesha lokubaluleka kokuphila kwintlupheko yobuthathaka obunobunzima obusungulwe ngeenkulungwane. Ngokubhekisele ukuba ngaba umfazi ufuna iimpikiswano zomsebenzi eziqhubekayo, nangona kunjalo ukuba ilungelo lokuvota, ukukhetha uqeqesho kunye nohlobo lomsebenzi sele luyimfuneko eqhelekileyo kuthi.
Inyaniso yokuba inani labasetyhini abahlala kwizikhundla ezihloniphekileyo nezokuphatha likhula minyaka yonke ngokumangalisa ngokuhlanganisana nomnye: abaninzi bayakhalaza ukuba umsebenzi webhinqa kwintlangano yanamhlanje iyinkimbinkimbi yenkcazo yobume bakhe besini. Iingxaki ziqala kwinqanaba lokubekwa kwemisebenzi: abaqeshi baxhomekeke kwiminyaka ethile yobhinqa, babe nabantwana bakhe, njl. Nangona umvuzo kwiindawo ezifanayo uhlukile kumadoda nabasetyhini.
Umfazi wenza njani umsebenzi?
- Umgaqo wokuqala: musa ukucela ukuzinyameka, ngokubhekisela kwinto yokuba ungumfazi. Intombazana-umqeqeshi angasebenzisa izipholo zakhe, kodwa akalokothi akhankanye ngokuthe ngqo ubuthakathaka bakhe kwicandelo lobugcisa.
- Ukungafuni ukwenza umsebenzi womnye umntu, gxininisa kwimisebenzi ephambili. Ukuzama ukubonakalisa ukuba awunzima kunabanye, kukho isilingo esinzima sokubamba izinto ezininzi ngexesha elifanayo, ngokufanayo ukwenza umsebenzi wenobhala (uthele yonke ikhofi, njl.). Zihloniphe njengengcali.
- Gwema ukuhleba kunye neengcinga ngaphakathi kwenkampani. Nika ixesha lokukhulula ekufundeni ubunzima bokusebenza kombutho wakho.
- Zihloniphe. Umfazi kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa - ezi ngcamango ziyahambelana, ngoko ungafihla isondo sakho ngazo zonke iindlela. Unokuhamba ngeempahla ezintle (ezihambelana nomfanekiso wenkampani), gcina isithombe somyeni / umntwana kwibhokisi yedeskithophu - ungavumeli umsebenzi uchithe wena njengomntu.
- Ukuba usebenza kwinqela lamadoda, vimbela umnqweno wakho wokuphucula yonke into. Amadoda abhekene nekomiti yokuphucula (kumntu woomama nabafazi) imihla ngemihla, kubaluleke kakhulu kubo ukuba akukho simo esinjalo emsebenzini. Endaweni ...
- Funda kwaye uthuthuke. Ukuphuculwa ngokuzimeleyo kuyona nto iphakanyiswayo. Nangona ubulili bakho abudlali ezandleni zakho xa uqesha, kuxhomekeke kuphela kuwe, nokuba kuya kuba yingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Ngokukhawuleza uza kubona uchwepheshe, kwaye ibinzana elithi "umfazi wesifundo somfazi" luya kuba yincomelo enhle kuwe.