Abazali abaninzi bachithe ixesha elide bazama ukucinga ukuba benzani ukuba abantwana babo bahlaziye babe yinto evamile. Ngamaxesha amaninzi sibhekana nomfanekiso xa abazali bekhupha umntwana okhalayo kwiwindow yokubonisa ngeetayipi okanye iipesele. Ukuxhamla komntwana kuyaqhelekile kuba engazange afunde ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye uzama ukutsala ingqalelo.
Ukuxhamla komntwana luhlobo lwesithethe esinceda ukutsala umdla wabathandekayo, kwaye kaninzi ufumana oko ufuna ngokwenene. Ngokuqhelekileyo okokuqala kuqala ukungalungi. Umntwana unxusa kubazali bakhe ngento ethile, kwaye, baxakeke kwiingxaki zabo kunye neengxakini, abahlali bawunake ngqalelo umntwana wabo. Emva koko umntwana uqala ukugubungela iinyawo zakhe kunye nokumemeza, ebonisa ingqalelo kuye. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba engazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakhe, amaqhinga, njengebhola leqhwa, likhula kwaye likhule, kwaye ke kunzima ukuyimisa. Ngako oko, ngokuphindaphinda ngokwaneleyo umntwana uqhubezela abahlaziyi beli themba lokuba uya kufezekisa oko akufunayo ukufumana.
Indlela yokusabela ngayo kumakhohlisi womntwana?
Yintoni endiyenzayo xa umntwana eqala i-hysterical kwaye ezama ukutsala ingqalelo? Abaninzi abazi indlela yokuphendula ngokufanelekileyo abahlaziyi bomntwana. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo uyayihoxisa. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba akafumani nantoni na, ngoko ngokukhawuleza uza kumisa iinzame ezimbi.
Enye yemithetho ephambili yokulawula ukunyaniseka kumntwana akusebenzi ukusebenzisa udlame. Ukuba ubetha umntwana okanye uhlambe, uya kuchithachitha ngakumbi, kwaye sele esenesizathu salokhu. Indlela echanekileyo kukuxelela umntwana "nzima" kwaye uqede kunye naye ukuphikisa.
Izizathu zokungcola kumntwana zilula kakhulu. Ufuna ukubonisa wonke umntu malunga noko kwenzeka into engekho. Ukuba abazali bakhe abafuni ukwenza intando yakhe. Kukho nolwazi oluncinane malunga nendlela yokumisa ukuhlaziywa komntwana. Kubalulekile ukuqonda indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba abakhohlisi abayi kuphinda baphindwe ukususela ngoku ngoku. Xa umntwana evukelayo, simele simbuze oko akuvakalelwayo, simele simfundise ukwahlula iimvakalelo, simchazele ukuba akusoloko ivakalelwa. Kufuneka uqhube incoko, ungaphumeleli ekukhutshweni, ungahambisani
kunye nokuzola ukhangele rhoqo xa umntanakho ehlaselwa kwi-hysteria.
Indlela eyona ndlela yokubambisana neengcikivo zomntwana ulinde. Mane ulinde ade umntwana ahlalise. Emva kokuza kwakhe, thetha naye. Chaza ukuba le nto ayinakuyenza. Ukuba umntwana ulungiselele ukudabuka ngenxa yokwenza utyeshe emsebenzini wendlu, mxelele ukuba uya kufeza umsebenzi wakhe. Kwaye abahlaziyi bakhe, uchitha ixesha lakhe kuphela, okokuthi, ngendlela, bangabamba umdlalo oyintandokazi okanye babukele i-cartoon.Ubusuku busukuma kumntwana
Enye ityala, xa umntwana evuka nabahlaziyi okanye amahlazo kumntwana ngaphambi kokulala. Ngokuqhelekileyo ihlazo lisoloko lwenzeka emntwaneni kaninzi. Mhlawumbi kungumsizi okanye into ephazamisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlaziywa okunjalo kuvela xa umntwana enenkinga yosuku okanye umntwana engasebenzi. Ngasemncinci ubudala, abantwana banokuhlakulela konke okungafunekiyo okanye yonke into okanye ngokungahambi kakuhle. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, akunakulungele ukufuna iingcebiso ze-neurologist. Kwakhona, ugqirha kufuneka uqhagamshelane ukuba ngabahlaziyi baqala kumntwana ephupheni.
Ubusuku obugubungelayo kumntwana luyinkathazo enzulu ngakumbi kunokuba ufune ukuhlamba izitya. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala okanye ekhala ephupheni,
Umama ngamnye unokufumana indlela yakhe yokumisa uhlaziyo kumntwana wakhe. Into ephambili kukuba sikwazi ukwahlukanisa phakathi kweemfuno zokuzenzela nokunyanisekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, nokuba kunjani na, unokufumana ulungelelaniso kwaye ngoko unokuhlangabezana nomngcipheko womntwana njengokungathi uyenzile, kwaye inxalenye yakhe yenza oko wakucelayo kuye.