Nayiphi na ubudlelwane ngumsebenzi oqhubekayo, ofuna ukusebenzisana phakathi kwamaqabane. Ngoko ke, ezininzi izibini zitshatyalaliswa, abahlobo abavumelaniyo kunye nezihlobo ziphikisana xa umntu othabatha inxaxheba ethatha "ukuzisebenzisela" kunye nobudlelwane.
Khawucinge ngeso sibini-thabatha indoda kunye nomfazi-ngubani osebenze kanzima ngobudlelwane bawo, ukwakha umanyano oqinileyo! Ngaba ucinga ukuba abazange bacinge ukuyeka yonke into baze baqale ekuqaleni? Ucinge izigidi zexesha, kodwa uzibuyisela emuva, ukudibanisa nokungaqondani, ukungaphumeleli kunye nezinye iimpawu ezinomsindo zonyulwa wabo okanye wakhethayo. Kulo thunyelwe, siqokelele iingubo ezili-17 zembonakaliso zabantu abanobudlelwane obude kunye obunzulu, ngenjongo 'yokuthintela, ukuthintela nokuphelisa' imeko ezinokuvela kuwe. Yilungele, ihlazo kunye neinyembezi zilandelana!
1. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwibudlelwane obude kukuhlamba ezimbini. Ngaphambili, wazihlamba kuphela, kwaye ngoku iingubo zaba ngama-2 amaxesha amakhulu.
2. Yonke ixesha kukho ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo malunga nabani oza kuthatha iqela lokugqibela le-pizza elimnandi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana aphumelela!
3. Ubuthongo busuku buba ngumzabalazo wangempela wokusinda. Kungenxa yokuba omnye wenu uya kufuna ukulala, esasazeka kulo lonke i-mattress.
4. Kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba imithetho emitsha yokusetyenziswa kwesitya kunye neyendlu yangasese iya kufakwa kwikhaya lakho.
Kule meko, ngalinye ibini linalo i-zamochki malunga nale nto. Omnye ukhetha ukubeka imida yokuziphatha, enqabela ukungavali umnyango kwindlu yangasese. Omnye utshintshe ngokupheleleyo indawo yazo zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo kwindawo yokuhlambela. Kwaye umntu othakazelisayo uyathanda ukuchitha ixesha kwibhabha okanye kwindawo yangasese, ukufunda iindaba zakutsha, ukudlala umdlalo weselula okanye ukuphulaphula umculo kuphela. Kufuneka uyamkele!
5. Ngendlela, umngane onyanzelekileyo ubudlelwane obunzulu luhlobo "lokukhumbuza" ukuhlamba. Ndiyavuya kukuba ubuncinane andithethi ngezindlu zangasese!
6. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane obude buzele iingxoxo zothando ngobusuku obude, ngoko ulahlekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokukodwa kwixesha lethu, incoko iqhutyelwa kwinqanaba leengcamango, ngaphandle kwamagama, ukuzityhalela kwiskrini segadget.
7. Uhlolwe ngabalingani abaninzi: ngaphaya kweminyaka, ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo zikhutshwa ngokukodwa kwimemori. Ngako oko, ungakhathazeki ukuba, emva kweminyaka emi-5, okhethiweyo wakho okanye owakhethiweyo akakhumbuli umhla omaziyo.
8. Kukho isiko sokukhawuleza okanye kamva kubonakala kwibini nganye. Endlwini ohlala kuyo, izinto ezininzi zifumana amagama amabizo okanye amanqaku amantombazana kuphela owaziyo. Enyanisweni, kuhle!
Ndibiza iiqanda ezingadliyo iintaka okanye iintaka ezizayo!
Izibini ezininzi zineentlanzi ezimbalwa, ezicacileyo zona. Into ebaluleke kukuba kukuba awakwazi ukukhumbuza ukuqala kweembonakalo zalo okanye ukuhleka.
10. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kuba ufuna kakhulu ukuba wedwa, ukuba uya kuvuyela ukuchitha iyure okanye ezimbini kwixesha elikhululekile, wenza wena kuphela. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo - ukukhululeka komnye nomnye, ngoko ungesabi.
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11. Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bunzulu, kwaye uhlala kunye, ngoko unqabile ukuba ugqoke ibhulukwe okanye ibhulukwe.
Ngokomgaqo, yonke into yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, ezo zombini ziphupha ngaphambili, ziphendukela kwimbono yasekhaya, oyifumana ngayo. Yilungiselele ukuba i-panties-pantaloons uza kubona ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunezambatho ezingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi.
12. Amabhinqa amaninzi avuma ukuba emzuzwana osondelene kakhulu, ulala ecaleni, edibeneyo, ndifuna ukuthetha ngento enobunzima.
13. Ukuba nobudlelwane obude kunye obunzulu, zonke izibini zixhalazela ngemibuzo rhoqo yezihlobo kunye nabahlobo malunga nomhla womtshato. Zama ukuphendula ngokuzolileyo, ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa ingcinezelo kumlingane.
14. Ngamanye amaxesha, naphezu kwezinga eliphezulu lokuthembela komnye nomnye, kunzima ukuba uvulele iqabane lakho kwaye utshele iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ubuhlobo besikhathi eside akusiyo isiqinisekiso sokuqonda kunye kunye nesityhilelo.
Andivuyi ngokuthetha ngendlela endingaziva ngayo
Ulwalamano olunzulu lubonisa ukungabikho kweemfihlelo ezivela komnye nomnye. Ngoko ke, elowo maqabane ngokuhamba kwexesha, kukho umona kwizinto ezikhethwa ngumntu wakhe okhethiweyo.
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16. Imizwelo yothando kunye nemiyalezo enothando yomnye nomnye "phantse", xa ixesha le-candy-bouquet liphela.
17. Kodwa ngokubaluleke kakhulu, emva kokuhamba kuzo zonke izigaba, ufumana umanyano opheleleyo lweentliziyo ezimbini zothando, okwenzeka ngaphezu kweminyaka kuphela.
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