Uvakalelwa kukuba unolwazi luqhelekile kubo bonke abantu, ulwahlulo olulodwa kukuba umntu okhutshwe kweli lizwe lixhamla, kwaye omnye umntu uyabuhlungu aze azisole. Indlela yokujongana nesizungu nokwamkela? Kule akhawunti, kukho ezininzi iingcomo zengqondo.
Indlela yokudibanisa kunye nesizungu kumfazi?
Ubungqingili besetyhini buqhelekileyo kwaye bunzima kakhulu. Abasetyhini abaninzi abangenayo intsapho banenkcenkcesha ngenxa yoku. Nangona kunjalo, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba kuluntu lwangoku, amaninzi amaninzi akhetha ngokukhethekileyo ubomi bodwa kwaye awanikezele kuphela abahlobo abatshatileyo. Uninzi lwabo lukhokelwa nguloyiko lokuqala, kuba umfazi ongatshatanga ngumngcipheko.
Indlela yokudibanisa kunye nobuthathaka besifa - kufuneka nje ukuba uqaphele yonke into ephambili.
Omnye unokuthi umama ongatshatanga okanye umfazi oqhawule umtshato okhulisa abantwana akakwazi ukuzisebenzisa ezi ngcebiso, njengoko unyanzelekile ukuba asebenze nzima ukuxhasa abantwana. Umbuzo wokuphendula - ngaba bonke abafazi abatshatileyo baphila kuphela ngeendleko zabayeni babo? Hayi, ininzi yabo isebenza ekhaya nasemsebenzini.
Indlela yokujongana nesizungu somntu?
Amadoda angatshatanga - into eyingqayizivele, ngokuqhelekileyo baqinisekisile i-bachelors, abayidingi ukuba baqinisekiswe ngeenzuzo zenkululeko yabo. Kodwa ukuba umntu unemvakalelo engathandekiyo malunga nesizungu, ngoko iingcali zeengqondo zicebisa:
- ukugubha kunye nokutyelela isiganeko esingavamile, i-theater, umboniso, umthendeleko uya kuhambelana;
- Sitshintsha ukuba kwindawo yakho ngqo-qalisa ukulungisa indlu, okanye ukulungisa imoto;
- hamba uhambo olungaqhelekanga, umzekelo, uye ezintabeni okanye uhla umlambo.
I-psyche yendoda iyomelele kwaye naluphi na ukugubungela kunika ithuba lokugxininisa imeko kwaye kufumaneke iingenelo kwiimeko ezintsha.