Iipropati zokucinga

Ukucinga yinkqubo apho ulwalamano lwezentlalo zentlalo lwenziwa khona. Kukho ezinye iinguqulelo ezininzi ezijongene nale nkqubo kwii-angles ezahlukeneyo. Iipropati zokucinga ziyimpawu ezibalulekileyo ezikunceda ukuqonda kangcono intsingiselo yolu hlobo kunye nolwalathiso lwayo.

Izakhiwo ezisisiseko zokucinga

Siyabulela kwiipropati ezithile zokucinga kwabantu, siyaqonda into ejikelezileyo ngendlela esiyiqonda ngayo. Ngoko, uludwe lwepropati lubandakanya oku kulandelayo:

  1. Ipropati ephambili yokucinga yoluhlobo lwayo. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba uhlala enomgomo obalulekileyo, iingcamango ziphendula umbuzo obhaliweyo (awubalulekanga rhoqo okanye obalulekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha angabonakaliyo).
  2. Ukucinga kunokuba nethuba okanye libi. Kwimeko nganye, umntu unako ukuphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ngokusekelwe kwindlela esetyenziswa ngayo ukucinga. Abanye abantu bajwayele ukufumana, ukuphawula izinto ezimbi kuphela kwisiganeko (ukucinga okungalunganga), ngelixa abanye bahlala bezimisele ukufumana i-positive (even positive) ingcinga kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo. Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekile: ezi zilandelayo zivuyayo.
  3. Ukucinga kunokubhekiswa kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye elizayo. Kwimeko yokuqala, umntu uzimisele ukuthetha malunga nento eyenzekayo, ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, ukuba yintoni eyenzekayo, njalo njalo. Ukuba iingcinga zijoliswe kwixesha elizayo, ke umntu uya kuthanda ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokuphuma kwimeko.
  4. Ukucinga kubangela ukuba kube neengcinga. Imeko, into, into, ifuna ukubonisa, ukulandelelana, ukuthelekisa, ukufumana ukungafani nokunye okunjalo, njalo njalo.
  5. Ukucinga akukwazi kuba yinjongo, ihlala ilandelelana. Ngenye indlela, iingcamango zomntu siqu, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo zihlala ziphazamisa. Ngenxa yeli propati, ukucinga okubumba kwenza umntu athathe inxaxheba ekuzibonakaliseni kwakhe ngokudala into ehambisa imifanekiso kunye nezimvo zakhe.
  6. Ukucinga kuqiqa. I-Logic ayinakuhlala iyakhiwe ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa unyanzelekile.
  7. Ukucinga kunokuphuhliswa okanye kungaphuhliswa. Ukucinga okungaphakanywanga kufumaneke kuphela kubantwana kunye nabantu abasondeleyo abanomdla abangafuni ukuhlalutya imeko kwaye balungele ukuhlala, bathembele kuphela kwimvelo kunye nezidingo ezilula. Kwininzi yabantu abadala, ukucinga kuphuhliswa kwaye iyaqhubeka nokuphuhliswa ebomini.

Iipropati zokucinga kwisingqo sengqondo zibonisa inkqubo yokucinga ukusuka kumacala ahlukeneyo kwaye sivumele ukuba singene ngokungene kwizinto eziyinkimbinkimbi zento ebonakalayo, eyenzeka rhoqo kwisibini kwisimo sokuvuka ngasinye sesibini.