Ubuhle bamabhinqa kunye nekhontrakthi banamandla amakhulu. Amadoda amaninzi athathela ingqalelo kubafazi abakhethiweyo nabaqhakazileyo. Intlawulo enamandla yamandla kunye nokuhle, ukhanyisa emehlweni, ukunyamezela ngokunyanisekileyo - yonke into ihlanganiswe kunye nentlawulelo yowesifazane. Indlela yokuyihlakulela nokuba yintoni ukufumaneka kwalo mgangatho kuxhomekeke kuyo - funda ngoku oku.
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu enze umonakalo omhle kumntu onomdla. Kwiintsebenziswano kunye nesini esahlukileyo, umzuzu wokuseka uqhagamshelwano kubalulekile. Ukukhangela, ukunyameka, ukumomotheka, ukuhleka kwezinto ezintle - amadoda anelungelo lokutshintshelwa ngumfazi. Kuyintoni intlungu? Ingcaciso echanekileyo ingabonwa njengesipho esingaqondakaliyo ukufikelela kwisimo sengqondo sabantu abasondelene nabo, kuba mnandi. Umtsalane wobuqu ngumntu ngamnye. Ingqokelela yobuhle, ingqondo kunye nobubele.
Ngelishwa, akubona bonke abanikezelwa ngumkhwa wendalo kunye nobabalo. Kodwa musa ukuphelelwa yithemba, kuba unomnqweno oqinileyo, konke oku kunokuphuhliswa ngokwakho. Nangona kunjalo ukuba akulula, kufuneka uqale encinci. Zama ukuhlala unesiqhelo, uncumo novelwano. Ukuqhayisa kungenza umntu onobuhle, onomdla kwaye onomdla ongabonakali ngesithunzi sakhe.
Ukwazi iimfihlelo zentengiso yabasetyhini, unokubona ezi zihlandlo ofuna ukuzenza kuzo:
- ukwaneliseka wena kunye nobomi bakho. Imeko yomntu kulula ukuba "ithathe" ebusweni bakhe. Ukubonakala okuphelayo kunye namehlo adibeneyo akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhange umntu onomdla. Umgaqo wokuqala kukuphucula umgangatho wobomi;
- ukuzondla kunye nezimo zengqondo ezilungileyo. Zitsho njalo ekuseni kusasa kangakanani umhla. Zithokoze, qaphela isithunzi sakho, uphathe ubuthathaka bakho ngokugqithiseleyo;
- ukuzithemba nokufumana oko ufuna. Ukuba umfazi uthatha isigqibo sokufumana indoda, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubonakalisa amandla akhe kunye nokukhangela;
- khumbula ubuhle obungaphandle. Izinwele eziphilileyo kakuhle, ukwenziwa okhethwe ngokufanelekileyo, ukunamathela kwisitayela esithile kwiingubo - nokuba nantoni na ongayithethayo, bahlangana ngokubonakalayo;
- umoya wokunxibelelana. Funda ukuba ngu-interlocutor yakho, ufike kwindawo yakhe. Yiba nomdla kwincoko, kwaye ungayilayishi iingxaki zakho kunye nemizwa engalunganga.
Ibhinqa lingenalo uphawu oluhle kwaye lingabi lihle kakhulu, ikharityhulam ivela ngaphakathi. Nguwo ummo womphefumlo okhangayo kwaye ubangelise abantu, kubangele ukuba banomdla kunye nomnqweno wokusondelana nomntu onjalo.
Ziziphi iimpawu zabantu abanomdla kunye nabakhakayo?
Into yokuqala eyahlukanisa ngayo ubulumko nokucinga okuzimeleyo. Inqaku elilandelayo elibalulekileyo kukubona ukunyaniseka nokuthinteka okukhulu kwabanye. Abantu abanobubele bayakwazi ukuphupha. Ba nethemba ebomini kwaye banomdla ngenxa yokuba bafikelele ngokwabo kwaye bafezekise impumelelo ngenxa yabo. Intuition ephuhliswe kakuhle ngumcebisi wenene kwimicimbi emininzi.
Iphunga elibi lidla ngokulinganayo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi banjengale ndlela yokuziphatha. Ukukhwabanisa, ngokukodwa kwindoda, kumtsalane ngesondo esahlukileyo njengemagnnet. Le ndoda ibonakala iyomelele, inamandla, iyithemba kwaye iyingqayizivele. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi, i-mask, phantsi apho umntu okhubekileyo kunye nohamba lula efihla.
Abantu abanobuKhosi bachanekileyo kwiingxelo zabo, ukuqina nokunyaniseka, kunye nohlobo lokuhlaziya kunye nembono eyahlukileyo.
Indoda ethandekayo inzima ukuyibona. Ngoko ke, sinento yokuzama.